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05/10/2024
Having an ostomy is an experience that isn’t the same for two people.
Today is World Ostomy Day and it’s safe to say that I wouldn’t be writing this without mine now 🥰
My ostomy has enabled me to do many things besides living including enjoying my food, going out without planning the day around a toilet, making amazing friends through my surgery who get it, being able to get into the gym and running, enabled me to work, to sing and do shows, to do what I love most being a wife and dog mum, to go to gigs, to wear what I love, it’s taken away constant pain and has given me a life I could only once have dreamed of.
But today is also a reminder of losing my uncle, who had an ostomy bag, losing ostomy friends, needing to dilate my stoma and the battles I face there, the need for iron infusions and trying to battle constant fatigue, dealing with scar tissue pain and partial blockages, gallbladder problems and issues with intimacy and fertility. This is just to name a few things I deal with daily, that I don’t always speak about, because I’m alive & I’m so thankful. This is just my ostomy experience. Everyone is different so I’m not saying any things to scare you because in reality, what I have to deal with now is manageable compared to the agonising existence I had before surgery.
It’s okay and normal to have mixed emotions about your ostomy. It’s YOUR story and it’s specific to you and nobody else. Nobody can take that from you.
I have good days and bad days, but most of all, I embrace my stoma in every way I can. You saved me, Stacey Stoma, and I wouldn’t swap you for the world because you allowed me to keep on breathing to experience this crazy, rollercoaster world 🌍