Buoyant Mindset

02/05/2023

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01/05/2023

✨✨BOOK SUMMARY✨✨

♦️ SURROUNDED BY IDIOTS♦️ - THOMAS ERICKSON.

Surrounded By Idiots is a book focused on the different personality types and communication styles.

The book proposes a model based on four main personality types, which Erikson labels as
RED. ❤️
BLUE. 💙
GREEN. 💚
YELLOW. 💛

According to Erikson, each personality type has a different way of thinking, processing information, and communicating with others.

The book aims to help readers better understand themselves and others, and to improve communication and collaboration in various contexts, such as at work, in relationships, and in everyday life.

MY TAKE HOME FROM THE BOOK IS:
When you understand your personality type, you better understand how to effectively relate and communicate with other People.

SURROUNDED BY IDIOTS falls under Social/Emotional Intelligence and Effective Communication genre.

I recommend this book for anyone looking to understand him/herself (Self Identity) much better and also for anyone who wants to communicate and relate better with others.

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29/04/2023

TWO POTS (Must Read Moral Story)

An elderly woman had two large pots, each hung on
the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot
was perfect and always delivered a full portion of
water. At the end of the long walks from the stream
to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For full two years, this went on daily, with the
woman bringing home only one and a half pots of
water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its
accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was
ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that
it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter
failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.
'I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my
side causes water to leak out all the way back to
your house.'

The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are
flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other
pot's side?' 'That's because I have always known
about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your
side of the path, and every day while we walk back,
you water them.

' For two years I have been able to
pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table.

Without you being just the way you are, there would
not be this beauty to grace the house.'

Moral of the Story:
Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the
cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives
together so very interesting and rewarding. You've
just got to take each person for what they are and
look for the good in them.

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28/04/2023

Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

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26/04/2023

" I was ashamed of myself when I realized life was a costume party ; and I attended with my real face. " ~ Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka was one of the most significant and influential fiction writers of the 20th century. Dark, absurdist, and existential, his stories and novels concern the struggles of troubled individuals to survive in an impersonal, bureaucratic world.

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25/04/2023

5 lessons from Book “The Most Important thing”

1. The most important thing is to understand the difference between price and value: Price is what you pay, value is what you get. The key to successful investing is to be able to identify assets that are priced below their intrinsic value.

2. Risk management is essential: Investors should always be aware of the risks involved in any investment and should always take steps to mitigate those risks. This includes diversification, limiting leverage, and avoiding investments that are too complex or difficult to understand.

3. Market efficiency is not perfect: While markets are generally efficient, there are still opportunities for investors to identify mispricings and profit from them. This requires a deep understanding of the underlying fundamentals of the assets being considered.

4. Patience is key: Successful investing requires patience and the ability to stay disciplined even in the face of short-term fluctuations in the market. This means being able to maintain a long-term perspective and avoid reacting emotionally to market movements.

5. Know your own limitations: Investors should be aware of their own limitations and biases, and should strive to avoid making emotional or irrational decisions. This requires a deep understanding of one's own strengths and weaknesses as an investor, as well as a commitment to continually learning and growing as an investor.

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24/04/2023

"To study is not to consume ideas, but to create and re-create them." ~ Paulo Freire

Book: The Politics of Education: Culture, Power and Liberation - https://amzn.to/3oFAqW7

24/04/2023

Top 10 Lesson learned from book - The Power Of Now

1 )Life is Always Just Present Moments
The main way to reframe your thinking in relation to this book is to consider life as a sequence of present moments. Rather than a story with a past, present, and future, this book suggests that all life ever is and will ever be is present moments one after another. This highlights the importance of making the most of the present-day rather than stressing about the past or future.

#2 Pain is Resisting Things you Can’t Change

Tolle makes an argument that is very similar to Stoicism as a philosophy, stating that the only pain we experience comes from resisting the things we can’t change. In a nutshell, we feel regret or fear about circumstances or experiences in our lives that we can’t change. This pain is unnecessary, and we should stop worrying about things we can’t effect for greater happiness.

#3 Free Yourself by Observation

One of the key ways in which you can get rid of the pain of anxiety and stress about the past or future is to observe your own thoughts without judging them. Simply being aware of what your mind is focusing on without constantly berating yourself for wasting time is usually enough to stop your anxiety or fear in its tracks. Simply notice whatever thought is giving you trouble, accept it, and move on.

#4 Full Attention to the Now
No matter where you are and what you’re doing, you should always strive to provide your full attention to the present moment. This requires accepting whatever is happening, as you can’t resist what is happening to you at the same time as fully experiencing it. This will make every experience richer and help you avoid anxiety and pain.

#5 Don’t Let the Mind Wander
While it’s important that you accept all the thoughts you experience, that doesn’t mean you should let your brain wander without paying attention to the present moment. This will take practice, but Tolle stresses the importance of training yourself to refocus your mind on what is in front of you in the present moment.

#6 Acceptance is Not Defeat

Many think that talking so much about accepting your thoughts or your circumstances is the same thing as allowing defeat to rule your life. This is not the same thing. Accepting your circumstances means you can stop focusing on the pain that whatever negative thing in your life is causing you and begin to change it or act upon it.

#7 Focus on Positive Things

As you train your mind to focus on the present, you should simultaneously practice focusing on positive things in the present day rather than ruminating on negative things. This will eventually result in a happy feedback loop that causes your brain to feel encouraged when focusing on the present, as you will eventually expect good things rather than fearing bad ones.

#8 Avoid Complaining

Tolle makes it clear that complaining is an essentially negative behavior that does no good to anyone. It’s also a huge roadblock when it comes to accepting the present moment. You should instead seek to adapt to your circumstances rather than lamenting the bad things in your life.

#9 The Past can Ruin the Future

Tolle explains that focusing excessively on the past can lead you to negative behaviors or terrible anxiety that ruins your future. You won’t experience moments as they come to their fullest extent. Or you may make choices that are primarily to protect your emotional fragility rather than choices that are to your benefit.

#10 You Are Not Your Mind.

The book’s spiritual core shines through with this concept, which states that, as a person, you are a being of pure consciousness, love, and joy. You aren’t your brain and all of the fear that comes with the organ within your skull. Becoming enlightened requires that you first recognize your pure consciousness, which is necessarily free from your body.

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23/04/2023

/ Napoleon Hill /
"It takes half your life before you discover life is do-it-yourself project."
"Oliver Napoleon Hill was an American self-help author. He is best known for his book Think and Grow Rich, which is among the best-selling self-help books of all time. Hill's works insisted that fervid expectations are essential to improving one's life. Most of his books were promoted as expounding principles to achieve "success". Hill is, in modern times, a controversial figure. Accused of fraud, modern historians also doubt many of his claims, such as that he met Andrew Carnegie and that he was an attorney. Gizmodo has called him "the most famous conman you've probably never heard of"."
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23/04/2023

Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, be fortified by it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it. ~Hermann Hesse

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22/04/2023

7 Lessons From Rules of Life by Richard Templar

1. You’ll Get Older But Not Necessarily Wiser
There is an assumption that as we get older we will get wiser; not true. But we can carry on being just as foolish, still making plenty of mistakes. It’s just that we make new ones, different ones. We do learn from experience and may not make the same mistakes again, but there is a whole new pickle jar of fresh ones just lying in wait for us to trip up and fall into. The secret is to accept this and not to beat yourself up when you do make new ones. The Rule really is: Be kind to yourself when you do muck things up. Be forgiving, and accept that it’s all part of that growing older but no wiser routine.

2. Accept What Is Done Is Done
People make mistakes. Sometimes very serious ones. As often as not, the mistakes aren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes people just don’t know what they are doing. This means that if, in the past, people have behaved badly toward you, it wasn’t necessarily because they meant to be horrid, but because they were as naïve, as foolish, as human as the rest of us. They made mistakes in the way they brought you up or finished a relationship with you or whatever, not because they wanted to do it that way, but because they didn’t know any different.
Let go of any feelings of resentment, of regret, of anger. You can accept that you are a fabulous human being because of all the bad things that have happened to you, not in spite of them. What is done is done, and you need to just get on with your life. Don’t use the labels “good” and “bad.”

3. Accept Yourself
You can’t go back and change anything, so you’ve got to work with what you’ve got. Accepting is easy because it is exactly what it says—accepting. You don’t have to improve or change or strive for perfection. Quite the opposite. Just accept.
That means accepting all the warts and emotional lumps and bumps, the bad parts, the weaknesses, and the rest of it. This doesn’t mean we are happy with everything about ourselves, or that we are going to be lazy and lead a bad life. We are going to accept the way we are, initially, and then build on that. What we are not going to do is beat ourselves up because we don’t like some parts.

4. Know What Counts and What Doesn’t
Being here counts. Being kind and considerate counts. Getting through each day without seriously offending anyone or hurting anyone counts. Having the latest technology doesn’t. Doing something useful with your life counts. There are some things in this life that are important and a whole lot of things that aren’t.

5. Be Flexible in Your Thinking
Once your thinking gets crystallized, rigid, and formed, you’ve lost the battle. Once you think you have all the answers, you might as well hang up your boots. Once you get set in your ways, you’re already part of history.

6. Be Your Own Adviser
Deep down within all of us is a fount of wisdom. This is called intuition. Listening to your intuition is a slow-learned process.

7. Don’t Expect to Be Perfect
You’re allowed to be human, you know. In fact, you’re actively encouraged to be human. Don’t try to set yourself above everyone else—the rest of us fail from time to time.

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22/04/2023

21/04/2023

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being. ~John Joseph Powell

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21/04/2023

5 lessons from book "The Alchemist "

1. Follow your dreams: The book emphasizes the importance of pursuing your dreams and not letting fear or doubt hold you back. Santiago's journey to find a treasure is a metaphor for the pursuit of one's personal legend, or the purpose that one is meant to fulfill in life.

2. The universe conspires to help you: The book suggests that when you pursue your dreams, the universe will conspire to help you achieve them. This can take the form of unexpected opportunities, chance encounters, or coincidences that guide you along the way.

3. Embrace the journey: The book reminds us that the journey itself is as important as the destination. Santiago learns many valuable lessons and meets many interesting people on his journey to find the treasure, and these experiences shape him into the person he is meant to become.

4. Listen to your heart: The book encourages us to listen to our intuition and follow our hearts, rather than letting the opinions of others or external circumstances dictate our choices. Santiago's ability to listen to his heart helps him navigate the challenges he faces on his journey.

5. Everything is connected: The book suggests that everything in the universe is interconnected, and that we are all part of a larger, mysterious plan. Santiago's journey teaches him to see the world in a new way, and to recognize the beauty and complexity of the universe.

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20/04/2023

You can't make someone love you by giving them more of what they already don't appreciate. ~ Jay Shetty

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20/04/2023

According to Psychologists, there are four types of Intelligence:

1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
2) Emotional Quotient (EQ)
3) Social Quotient (SQ)
4) Adversity Quotient (AQ)

1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): This is the measure of your level of comprehension. You need Intelligence Quotient to solve maths, memorize things, and recall lessons.

2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): This is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others, keep to time, be responsible, be honest, respect boundaries, be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. Social Quotient (SQ): This is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher Emotional Quotient and Social Quotient tend to go further in life than those with a high Intelligence Quotient but low Emotional Quotient and Social Quotient. Most schools capitalize on improving Intelligence Quotient levels while Emotional Quotient and Social Quotient are played down.

A man of high Intelligence Quotient can end up being employed by a man of high Emotional Quotient and Social Quotient even though he has an average Intelligence Quotient.

Your Emotional Quotient represents your Character, while your Social Quotient represents your Charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs, especially your Emotional Quotient and Social Quotient.

Now there is a 4th one, a new paradigm:

4. The Adversity Quotient (AQ): The measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life, and come out of it without losing your mind.

When faced with troubles, Adversity Quotient determines who will give up, who will abandon their family, and who will consider su***de.

Parents please expose your children to other areas of life than just Academics. They should adore manual labour (never use work as a form of punishment), Sports and Arts.

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19/04/2023

Man's main concern is not to gain pleasure or to avoid pain but rather to see a meaning in his life. That is why man is even ready to suffer, on the condition, to be sure, that his suffering has a meaning. ~Viktor Frankl
(Book: Man's Search for Meaning https://amzn.to/3UMSAB7)

19/04/2023

"Everywhere man blames nature and fate, yet his fate is mostly but the echo of his character and passions, his mistakes and weaknesses."

18/04/2023

Personal Power ( Spiritual Success) | Sadhguru

18/04/2023

Most people are perfectly capable of figuring out their own “stuff” given time. If not, they probably don’t want to figure it out. ~Barrie Davenport

(Book: Finely Tuned: How To Thrive As A Highly Sensitive Person or Empath )

09/03/2023

Three things in Life to do No Matter What

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14/01/2023

Behind every Successful Woman, There is a progressive Man. - Preity Zinta

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29/12/2022

👍Nelson Mandela Destroy Journalist 🔥🔥In America.

25/12/2022

💯 Character.

24/12/2022

Consistency is the key.

22/12/2022

💯 Never give up

22/07/2022