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23/09/2021

Food for thought

19/09/2021

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

18/09/2021

Food For Thought...

17/09/2021

Love Corner...

12/09/2021

coming soon...

04/09/2021

Dealing With Unserious Partners.

31/08/2021

Building Synergy (Team Work) In Relationship or Marriage.

26/08/2021

Boundaries In Relationship and How To Deal With Them...

24/08/2021

Why Men Fall In Love...

27/07/2021

Things That Destroy Marriages or Relationships...

24/07/2021

10 Types of Men That You Shouldn't Get Married To.

22/07/2021

What To Do To Become That Woman Of His Dream...

20/07/2021

Why Do People Get Married For Benefit other Than Love...

16/07/2021

"Every Partner Cheat..."

15/07/2021

Common Mistakes That Ladies Make This Days.

13/06/2021

Tips that will make your lady to love and be proud of you!

They say that a beautiful relationship is all about the little things. And we totally agree! Relationships need to be nurtured with utmost care. And when you are dealing with a woman, you need to be extra careful and sensitive. Often, from all the stories that we have heard and read, women complain that their respective partners no longer take the same interest in them as they did before. Does this sound familiar to you? You can deny this for as long as you wish, but the fact is that men do change after a point in relationships. Keeping a woman happy is not as difficult as it may seem like, Trust us when we say, it is very simple. Want to know? We have listed down some relationship advices for men that will change your relation for the better. And no this list isn’t any science. All it requires is some time, dedication and your interest and see how your woman will be proud to have you as her man. Read to know what we are talking about!

1. Communicate with her:

How difficult is it for you to sit down and just communicate? Whether you are watching TV, ordering food, talking about work- be it anything. Just talk and let her know about your feelings and thoughts. This will bring down the resentment if any and it will help your lady love have a better clarity. If you think there is something that might hurt her if she is told, even then just say it. Silence in some situations will only backfire. So communicate every single day. Talk about how your day at office was or how you didn’t like the food you ate. She will be happy to listen.

2. Never take her for granted:

This is the last thing a man should do in a relationship. And if you have been taking her for granted, do not forget that she is not with you because she is helpless or under any obligation. She is with you only because she loves you. Taking care of you and your needs is not why she decided to be with you. So respect her feelings and appreciate her love for you. If she has forgiven you for your past mistakes, do not assume she will continue doing so. Love her every single day and do it like you mean it.

3. Surprise her more often:

You might have forgotten, but ask your girl and we are sure that she remembers every details of all the surprises you gave her in the early days of your love. So what changed now? Just because you guys have been together for few years or months, it doesn’t mean you stop surprising her. These little gestures go a long way in a relationship. Surprise her not just with materialistic gifts but also sweet and romantic words. Express your love in words and see your woman blush. If you truly love her, we are sure there is nothing more priceless than your woman’s happiness. Make her feel special even if you have told her how special she is once before.

4. Appreciate the things she does for you:

Appreciation is another very important aspect of a relationship. Most couples, over the years forget to say thank you. Saying Thank you is not formal, it is a way of telling your woman how much you appreciate all the efforts she takes for you. A simple hug after she has prepared an elaborate meal is also enough to keep her happy for the rest of the day. A simple phone call while you are away at work to check on her is also a way of appreciating her presence in your life.

5. Discuss before you make any decision:

Most Indian men avoid asking or consulting their wives or girlfriends before they take any decisions. Remember that a relationship is about two people and not one. So before you take any decision, big or small, always rope in your partner to discuss. Show her she is important and that her opinions matter.

6. Don’t disrespect her or her feelings:

Most men in the name of harmless fun end up disappointing or upsetting their respective partners. Staring at other women, flirting or even telling small lies is a way of disrespecting women. Avoid doing these. You can always talk about other women in her presence but never sneak glances. Doing it in front of her is any day better than ogling at women behind her back.

7. Honesty is always the best policy:

However difficult the truth might be, it is always better to be honest. No relation is a good relation without honesty in it. Whenever you want to tell something that you think might offend her, just change your tine and put it across in a sweet and nice manner. But to keep things peaceful; at the moment, do not lie. This will only make way for more problems.

8. Be a man of your words:

If you have promised something to her, make sure you get it done somehow. No woman likes a man who cannot stick to his words. This creates a sense of mistrust and it will only lead her to nagging you. So promise only what you can do and fulfill your promises.

9. Give her your time and attention:

Time is the most important factor of a strong relationship. It doesn’t matter if you have busy schedules; make sure that you make time for your girl. Spend time with her, go out on dates and give her all your attention. Some people do give their physical presence but are constantly working on their laptops. A woman needs your attention both physically and emotionally.

10. Build a good s*xual chemistry:

S*x is also as important as romance to keep a relationship strong. If your relationship lacks s*x or romance, you may start seeing it fail. So make love to your girl to build a sizzling chemistry. Love making will also bring you closer to your girl.

Treat your woman the way she deserves to be treated. Follow these relationship advice for men and see how your girl will be proud to have you as her main man. For now, just go hug her and tell her how much you love her. The smile on her face will keep your relationship happy.

12/06/2021

Tips for healthy relationships.

1. Keep expectations realistic. No one can be everything we might want them to be. Healthy relationships mean accepting people as they are and not trying to change them.

2. Talk with each other. It can't be said enough: communication is essential to healthy relationships.

Take the time. Really be there.
Genuinely listen. Do not interrupt or plan what you’re going to say next. Try to fully understand their perspective.
Ask questions. Show you are interested. Ask about their experiences, feelings, opinions, and interests.
Share information. Studies show that sharing information helps relationships begin. Let people know who you are, but don’t overwhelm with too much personal information too soon.
3. Be flexible. It is natural to feel uneasy about changes. Healthy relationships allow for change and growth.

4. Take care of yourself, too. Healthy relationships are mutual, with room for both people’s needs.

5. Be dependable. If you make plans with someone, follow through. If you take on a responsibility, complete it. Healthy relationships are trustworthy.

6. Fight fair. Most relationships have some conflict. It only means you disagree about something; it does not have to mean you don't like each other.

Cool down before talking. The conversation will be more productive if you have it when your emotions have cooled off a little, so you don’t say something you may regret later.
Use “I statements.” Share how you feel and what you want without assigning blame or motives. E.g. “When you don’t call me, I start to feel like you don’t care about me” vs. “You never call me when you’re away. I guess I’m the only one who cares about this relationship.”
Keep your language clear and specific. Try to factually describe behavior that you are upset with, avoiding criticism and judgment. Attack the problem, not the person.
Focus on the current issue. The conversation is likely to get bogged down if you pile on everything that bothers you. Avoid using “always” and “never” language and address one issue at a time.
Take responsibility for mistakes. Apologize if you have done something wrong; it goes a long way toward setting things right again.
Recognize some problems are not easily solved. Not all differences or difficulties can be resolved. You are different people, and your values, beliefs, habits, and personality may not always be in alignment. Communication goes a long way toward helping you understand each other and address concerns, but some things are deeply rooted and may not change significantly. It is important to figure out for yourself what you can accept, or when a relationship is no longer healthy for you.
7. Be affirming. According to relationship researcher John Gottman, happy couples have a ratio of 5 positive interactions or feelings for every 1 negative interaction or feeling. Express warmth and affection!

8. Keep your life balanced. Other people help make our lives satisfying but they cannot meet every need. Find what interests you and become involved. Healthy relationships have room for outside activities.

9. It’s a process. It might look like everyone on campus is confident and connected, but most people share concerns about fitting in and getting along with others. It takes time to meet people and get to know them. Healthy relationships can be learned and practiced, and keep getting better.

10. Be yourself! It's much easier and more fun to be authentic than to pretend to be something or someone else. Healthy relationships are made

12/06/2021

Why do good people get married to an opposite of themselves?

12/06/2021

Instead of collecting 50k for shopping from her boyfriend, the lady told him to use the money for her introduction. The guy got angry, withdrew the offer and said that the girl is just too desperate. They have dated for 4 years, with the guy always promising to go and see her parents "soon".
Is this girl being desperate?
What is the difference between being desperate and being purposeful??
What do you advise this lady to do: remain in the relationship or quit?

•Drop your comment here.

12/06/2021

HOW CAN S*X BENEFIT YOUR BODY;
Study suggest that s*x can be good cardiovascular exercise in young men and women: though s*x is isn't enough exercise on its own, but it can be considered light exercise.

SOME OF THE BENEFITS YOU CAN GET FROM S*X INCLUDE;

•Lowering blood pressure.

•Burning calories.

•Strengthening muscles.

• Reducing your risk of heart disease, stroke and hypertension.

5) •increasing libido etc*

People with active s*x lives tender to exercise more frequently and have better dietary habits than those who are less s*xually active.
Physical fitness may also improve s*xual performance overall.

•My brothers and sisters having s*x is good to your health.

12/06/2021

THINGS WISE LADIES DON'T DO ANYMORE

• WISE LADIES don't FIGHT OVER a man anymore but rather they FIGHT OVER their CHILDREN and possession.

•WISE LADIES don't ACCEPT public proposal anymore cos relationship isn't a public affair but rather ACCEPT little effort their man put into marriage preparations.

•WISE LADIES don't fight for a man anymore rather they fight for their future.

• WISE LADIES don't go into a relationship with their stomach anymore but rather they go with their head.

• WISE LADIES don't give s*x to be loved but rather they give attention and submissiveness .

• WISE LADIES don't destroy other people's relationships and homes to build their home and relationship but rather they build their homes with free and genuine people.

•WISE LADIES don't shout, walk out, hit, insult and embarrass a man in public or close doors but rather shut up and walk away with tears.

• WISE LADIES don't order expensive food and other stuff on a first date but rather stay low key and enjoy the little their guy can afford. Maybe the guy didn't budget for that much.

• WISE LADIES don't publish and announce their relationship until it is matured. It your relationship not theirs.

•WISE LADIES don't depend on a man for survival but rather work and make money on their own, spend and look good to please themself and the man she is dating.

12/06/2021

My husband just came back from work by 7 o'clock, had his bath, I served him food, he rejected it and told me that he wanted to eat fish pepper soup.

How can I make fish pepper soup by this time and I also just came back from work. I told him that it is not possible, that he should wait till tomorrow, as fish pepper soup is something I have to plan and it takes time. He got upset and called me lazy. In my presence, he picked his phone and called a girl.

He put the phone on speaker and told the girl that he wanted fish pepper soup. The girl said she will rush to the supermarket and buy fish, she should start coming. My own husband dressed up and drove out of the house. I was just looking at him in shock as he dressed up, picked his keys and zoomed off. I need to know did I do anything wrong? Do you think I should have gone out to buy fish that night?? I just got back from work too after the long traffic. What do you advise me to do now???

Drop your comment here.

12/06/2021

Tips for Successful Dating and Relationships:

1. Before beginning a new relationship, make sure you have taken the time to heal from one that has ended. If you are still hurting, you will not be emotionally available to the new person, and the unresolved pain will cloud your decision-making process.

2. Prior to dating someone, have a conversation with them about your dating goals, and theirs. If there is a big difference—for example, one of you is looking to get married and the other is dating for fun--you are likely to save a lot of time and grief by not even getting started. Having similar long term dating goals will contribute significantly to the ultimate success of the relationship.
3. Take your time. Going slowly and creating the opportunity to really get to know the other person well will optimize your chances of making good decisions and creating the kind of relationship you want to have. It takes even the most educated and experienced experts on human behavior at least six months to determine another’s true character.

4. Communicate openly and honestly. Masking your feelings or who you really are will not result in a good relationship. Give up the need to be right. You can each have your points of view without making one right and the other wrong.
5. Take responsibility for your own happiness. Don’t expect your partner to take care of you.

6. Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, financially, socially, and spiritually. Two people who are individually successful in these areas have the best chances of creating a good relationship.
7. Be flexible. Compromise is essential to a healthy relationship. Give up the need to be in control. Relationships flourish when you can “hold” each other with wide open arms.

8. Don’t expect your partner to change. Falling in love with someone’s potential is bound to disappoint you.
9. Don’t avoid disagreements. Conflict resolution is part of a healthy relationship. Listen to your partner, and ask them if they feel heard. Keep listening and asking until they do.

10. If you find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns over and over again with different people, individual counseling can help you to break that cycle and replace it with a new, healthier way of relating that will yield more of the results you are looking for.
This is one of the reason BAFMR was created.

12/06/2021

I need advise cause I don't want to make the mistake of my life.
I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We keep breaking up and coming back together because he's not keeping to his word. He keep canceling dates and making me keep chasing chasing.

When we started dating in 2018, he confessed to being a s*x and po*******hy addict and I prayed over it thinking that with time he will change. He used to go to wuse to pick prostitutes, have s*x with them, video it and used it to ma******te later on. Lately according to him he doesn't carry olosho again but he's addicted to p**n and ma********on.
I love this man so much because he's caring. I have told him how bad this his addiction to p**n and girls with big yansh and b***s is affecting me (I have big yansh too but he's not satisfied) He keep saying he love me and that is all that matters.
He has temper issue too and has beaten me. He is totally broke and in debt of 2 million ( he borrowed money to buy car). He has no savings at all but he keeps assuring me that all will be well soon.
Sunday was his birthday and we were supposed to spend it together but he left me and went out with his friends and later called around 7pm but I refused to pick. On Monday when we met I told him how disappointed I was that he keeps cancelling dates Even on his birthday too but he turned it against me and make it look like I'm at fault. I kept quite only to wake up this morning to his voicenote. He said he's breaking up with me but we can still be friends if I want to. I felt like running mad because of how attached I am to him.
Will you advise me to apologise or move on? please answer me because it's not easy. He's 35 and I am 30.

12/06/2021

Is it Advisable to Marry a person that is of the opposite religion?

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