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Alright 2022, we’re ready for you! Wishing all of my childfree friends a happy, healthy new year. Whatever 2022 brings -...
02/01/2022

Alright 2022, we’re ready for you! Wishing all of my childfree friends a happy, healthy new year. Whatever 2022 brings - you got this. 🥂

As cool as it is that Betty White was childfree, I kind of wish she was my grandma. Happy to honor the life and work of ...
01/01/2022

As cool as it is that Betty White was childfree, I kind of wish she was my grandma. Happy to honor the life and work of this childfree icon.

Living your truth, in your alignment, makes so much sense but isn’t always easy to put into practice. In this episode,  ...
24/12/2021

Living your truth, in your alignment, makes so much sense but isn’t always easy to put into practice. In this episode, shares with us how we can work through all those times in our lives when being our true self seems impossible.

Here’s hoping you have an amazing holiday - even if you don’t celebrate and do absolutely nothing on your couch watching Netflix (or listening to this episode, whichevs)!

The holidays are well and truly among us. How are you handling it? Do you get lots of questions or a mild interrogation?...
22/12/2021

The holidays are well and truly among us. How are you handling it? Do you get lots of questions or a mild interrogation??

I’ve got a few ideas for how to make it through and would love to hear how you survive the holidays!

I think the fact that I’m nearly one month LATE posting about this episode answers the question for me. 😂 As much as I l...
21/12/2021

I think the fact that I’m nearly one month LATE posting about this episode answers the question for me. 😂 As much as I love doing the podcast, I’m simply s**t at social media and I often get busy in my own world so I forget to post that there’s an episode out! My bad y’all.

If you haven’t listened to it already, or if you’re just stumbling across my pod, this is an interesting topic for thought. I hate when parents rely on their title as “mom” or “dad” for their whole personality, so I tend to feel the same about being childfree.

What do you think? Do people know you as that childfree person? Or do you have several things that you could use to describe yourself? How would someone describe you?

After my last episode I’ve gotten some awesome reactions about legacies and what we, the childfree, will leave behind. S...
18/11/2021

After my last episode I’ve gotten some awesome reactions about legacies and what we, the childfree, will leave behind.

So tell me. What will YOUR legacy be? What will be your impact on the world? Or do you even care to leave a legacy behind (LOTS of people don’t)…Why are we, as a society, so obsessed with leaving a legacy??

I have been so busy birthday prepping that I completely forgot to tell you all about my latest episode.Have you ever had...
15/11/2021

I have been so busy birthday prepping that I completely forgot to tell you all about my latest episode.

Have you ever had that weird mid-lifey crisis? Do you ever wonder what kind of legacy you’ll leave behind? Either way you should check out this ep and I’ll tell you why you SHOULDN’T worry about that “legacy” and how you can get around those feelings instead.

After my chat with  I’m really starting to feel all wanderlusty and want to start planning my next escape from home! Wha...
29/10/2021

After my chat with I’m really starting to feel all wanderlusty and want to start planning my next escape from home! What are some things YOU look for when booking childfree travel? Have you learned any tips that the rest of us really should know about?

My personal favorite thing about travelling without kids is that I can fit so much more stuff in if I want to! No prepping and spending hours getting kids ready or having to change plans because someone is throwing a tantrums. Also, fewer bathroom breaks. 😂

Travel!! For all my childfree travellers and those who just dream (for now) check out this episode with my new friends a...
28/10/2021

Travel!! For all my childfree travellers and those who just dream (for now) check out this episode with my new friends and professional globetrotters, Dan and Mikkel from and

We had so much fun talking about their experiences and their blog, how they got started, and tips for the rest of us!

One benefit of being childfree? Being able to have these epiphanies! This week I look at something a lot of us can be gr...
14/10/2021

One benefit of being childfree? Being able to have these epiphanies! This week I look at something a lot of us can be grateful for that maybe you hadn’t quite thought of! Look at me. Being all optimistic and s**t. 😂

Y’all why did I wake up feeling petty today!? 😂 I usually try to mind my own business 🧿 because I like to let karma do w...
08/10/2021

Y’all why did I wake up feeling petty today!? 😂 I usually try to mind my own business 🧿 because I like to let karma do what it needs to do, BUT….

Am the only one who sometimes thinks I’d like the haters to have MORE kids so they can be more tired or more boring or have less free time or whatever. 😂

Then they can hate me MORE while I’m over here sipping my wine watching them juggle 17 kids. 👋🏼😉🥂

Boundaries. Specifically when it comes to people who don’t consider your childfree choice. If you’ve been thinking about...
30/09/2021

Boundaries. Specifically when it comes to people who don’t consider your childfree choice. If you’ve been thinking about or know you need to start setting some boundaries, listen in for my thoughts on how to deal with relationships that tend to cross the line!

Also, I fill you in on a little (big) change I’ve made in my personal life - completely un-child-related, but notable nonetheless. 😂

I feel like we’ve all been there at some point or another…you know…when someone uses your childfree status as a reason w...
28/09/2021

I feel like we’ve all been there at some point or another…you know…when someone uses your childfree status as a reason why *you* should do more work, or spend more money, or put in more effort. To help out the struggling parents, obviously. 🙄

Have you ever gotten to a point in your work life or in other relationships where you’ve had to put your foot down and set boundaries for people who may be taking advantage of you simply because you’re childfree? 🙅🏽‍♀️

Tell us how you do it! 🤔📝

I mean…don’t ask ME for parenting advice, but I’m just going to put out there that I DID get a full 8 hours of sleep las...
21/09/2021

I mean…don’t ask ME for parenting advice, but I’m just going to put out there that I DID get a full 8 hours of sleep last night. 😴

It’s been a helluva last few weeks for me! Not because anything particularly crazy, but just because my anxiety was all ...
16/09/2021

It’s been a helluva last few weeks for me! Not because anything particularly crazy, but just because my anxiety was all over the place!

This week I decided to face it and share with you all where my head’s at and how being childfree is actually beneficial when we go through weird times in our lives.

If you ever feel a little off, in a funk, or just a weird mood - this one’s for you. 🕶

I’ve been having a few weird weeks of just feeling…bleh. Times like this make me realize that I do need to look out for ...
13/09/2021

I’ve been having a few weird weeks of just feeling…bleh. Times like this make me realize that I do need to look out for myself to keep myself sane and happy. I don’t think I would be able to be the kind of parent that a child deserves because sometimes I just don’t want to do anything at all. Much less child stuff. Can anyone relate?

Episode coming 🔜 to discuss moods and why it’s good not to have children when we go through them!

After the last two semi-serious chats, I decided to bring on my high school friend .paper.heather to talk about….life. W...
02/09/2021

After the last two semi-serious chats, I decided to bring on my high school friend .paper.heather to talk about….life. We discuss dating, family, relationships, and some random things in between. Listen in for a few laughs and ramblings! Link in le bio.

And remember - send all hate mail to her, not me. 😂

Because the hate/debate seems to be never ending, the solution actually is quite simple: if you don’t like terms like “f...
31/08/2021

Because the hate/debate seems to be never ending, the solution actually is quite simple: if you don’t like terms like “furbaby” = Don’t use them. If you do like these types of terms = Use them.

And then…[drumroll] Leave the people who are on the opposite side alone.

There’s no right or wrong here.

I don’t personally use these types of terms in everyday conversation but I have used them occasionally and I understand the sentiment. My dogs are my family. Who cares what terms of endearment people use.

It’s no different from any other nickname. If someone has ever called their partner/spouse “babe” or “baby”….surely they can understand that it’s not meant literally.

Let me tell you a fun story: In high school a LOT of people called me Princess. Some people still do to this day. Did/do those people believe that I am of noble birth? No. Did people shout at me that I should not be using Royal titles to describe myself? No. Because we all had the cognitive ability to know that no one believed that I was an actual real life literal princes. It was a term of endearment.

Nicknames, titles, and such are personal choices. Who are we to force our opinions (either way) on other people? You do you.

Personally, I don’t care if someone wants to have a baby…but I definitely don’t want it clogging up my feeds! Am I the o...
23/08/2021

Personally, I don’t care if someone wants to have a baby…but I definitely don’t want it clogging up my feeds! Am I the only one who unfollows people if they start posting too much pregnancy/baby/child-related content??

ALSO, same with my fave Insta-celebrities. They go from having great substance and quality posts to purely baby talk. Why?? 😩

New episode!! Do you have questions about your finances and future? Despite being viewed as “rich” because we don’t have...
19/08/2021

New episode!! Do you have questions about your finances and future? Despite being viewed as “rich” because we don’t have children to spend our money on, many of us still don’t know how to prepare for or stay on top of our money issues!

This week I had the pleasure of being joined by Brian Thorp, founder of - tune in to gain some insights on financial planning for the childfree community!

🎧 Link in bio

Seems like certain people always want to be inside other people’s wallets! Have you ever experienced a parent expressing...
11/08/2021

Seems like certain people always want to be inside other people’s wallets! Have you ever experienced a parent expressing that they deserve financial breaks or that we, the childfree, are automatically RICH since we don’t have to pay for children?

Part of life is taking care of your finances. If you can’t afford it, decide whether you really need it - that goes for shoes, extra avocado on the side, and children. They’re all choices. 🤭

Tokophobia. Turns out there are more people than I even thought who have it and even more who, like me, don’t know what ...
04/08/2021

Tokophobia. Turns out there are more people than I even thought who have it and even more who, like me, don’t know what Tokophobia is.

Listen as I discuss what it is, who has it, symptoms, and other thoughts about the fear.

Plus the usual randomness.

!!Happy International Childfree Day!!I hope you took time for yourself today. I know for lots of us, every day is a happ...
02/08/2021

!!Happy International Childfree Day!!

I hope you took time for yourself today. I know for lots of us, every day is a happy to be childfree day, but today really is about all of us honoring our lives and decisions.

Thanks to all of you!

K bye.

Y’all!! I’ve finally made the big time. My girl Chauncy asked me to come on her show  to talk about the childfree commun...
30/07/2021

Y’all!! I’ve finally made the big time. My girl Chauncy asked me to come on her show to talk about the childfree community!

First, check out this episode but don’t stop there! Tune into some of Chauncy’s other topics where she has guests from all walks of life bringing you real, uplifting, FUNNY information that you need to hear.

If you need some inspiration in your life has it and I’m so grateful that I got to represent the childfree community!

Tokophobia. For a lot of us, this is one of the reasons why we choose not to have kids. I have it to some extent but I k...
25/07/2021

Tokophobia. For a lot of us, this is one of the reasons why we choose not to have kids. I have it to some extent but I know some of you have it worse!

How has tokophobia affected your life and your decision regarding children? Share some of your symptoms so we know we’re not alone!

For me, I get very queasy, faint, and my heart feels like it drops out of my chest when I try to imagine myself being pregnant. I’m very pain adverse so the obvious pain factor gives me a ton of anxiety. 😩😬

Episode 11 is ready now and y’all I was not ready for this interview with my husband, Nathan! We laughed, we cried (he c...
21/07/2021

Episode 11 is ready now and y’all I was not ready for this interview with my husband, Nathan! We laughed, we cried (he cried), and we learned that rap lyrics shaped some of our childfree choices. 😂

This one is over TWICE as long as my solo episodes because I just couldn’t bring myself to cut out some very interesting topics!

Hope you enjoy it, we sure did. Let me know what you think in the comments! Link in bio OR listen on any of your fave podcast streaming apps.

K, bye.

One of the MANY reasons I don’t want kids is because I just don’t want to have to teach someone how to be a human. The t...
16/07/2021

One of the MANY reasons I don’t want kids is because I just don’t want to have to teach someone how to be a human. The thought of it sounds legit exhausting.

Not to mention how many parents FAIL at teaching young minds how to behave in personal and social settings.

I don’t think enough importance is placed on the actual responsibility of educating a child while it’s developing and that, my friends, is part of the reason why there are so many s**tty people out there. No thanks.

People often say that we don’t know what we’re missing by not having children. I say: What have you accomplished or achi...
13/07/2021

People often say that we don’t know what we’re missing by not having children. I say: What have you accomplished or achieved because you DIDN’T have children?

For me, I never would have been able to move to Australia and never would have met my husband. And now that I’ve met him, we wouldn’t be able to live stress-free lives - which is what we both need for our mental and physical health.

It’s important to remember what works for YOU and if skipping the kid thing means you get to live a fulfilling life in other ways, how can that be a bad thing?

Like, Dislike, or Hate? That seems to be a common topic when it comes to how we feel about children in general as childf...
08/07/2021

Like, Dislike, or Hate? That seems to be a common topic when it comes to how we feel about children in general as childfree people. In this episode I discuss where this idea comes from and challenge you to figure out where on the scale you fall. Maybe your a mix of both?

Happy to hear your thoughts on how you feel personally - feel free to comment or send a message and let me know what you think! 🤔

😱 Ok, I know it may not seem like a lot (this isn’t Serial or anything), but when I published the first episode of Child...
05/07/2021

😱 Ok, I know it may not seem like a lot (this isn’t Serial or anything), but when I published the first episode of Childfree Chats two months ago, I honestly didn’t know if anyone would listen.

But I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: 🗣 The childfree community really knows how to show up for each other!!

I am so beyond pumped to watch my little podcast grow and a super huge big THANK YOU to every single one of you who have listened, messaged, and shown your support.

Let’s keep showin them that we’re not going anywhere, y’all!

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