06/12/2024
How I Turned My โRuinedโ Morning Around โ๐
So this morning, I got to my coffee shop, ready to workโฆ and realized my computer was dying, and my charger was at home.
Immediately, my brain went:
โUgh, my husband probably moved it.โ
โWhy does he keep touching my stuff!?โ
โOh, I canโt wait to tell him about himself when I get home.โ
I was annoyed, yโall. I packed up, feeling all the things, and was ready to head back and wake him up to let him know what he did.
But then, I stopped myself.
Iโve learned to catch my thoughts, think about what Iโm thinking about, and ask:
โDo I really want to give my energy to this?โ
Hereโs what used to happen:
Iโd storm in, be passive-aggressive, stay mad all day, and let it ruin my mood. It would mess up our time together and throw off everything else I needed to doโall over a charger.
But hereโs what I did instead:
โ๏ธ Caught the thoughts.
โ๏ธ Acknowledged the annoyance and frustration.
โ๏ธ Reminded myself:
โIt is what it is.โ
โI donโt actually know if he moved it.โ
โEven if he did, it wasnโt on purpose to ruin my morning.โ
โI donโt want to feel this way about him.โ
By the time I got home, I was calm, and honestly, I laughed about the whole thing. I was ready to have a quick convo about moving my charger (because I still hate that), but then move on.
And guess what?
He didnโt even move it. I forgot it myself. ๐
Hereโs the point:
Your emotions are valid, but so are your goals. If you want better relationships, more joy, and a better life experience, learning to allow and process your emotions is a game-changer.
I used to let stuff like this wreck my day. I was reactive, mean, and didnโt know how to process anything. If I can change that, you can too.
โจ Letโs work on this together. DM me to set up a free consultation (or book in bio) and weโll talk about where you are, your goals, and how to get there. Itโs simpler than you think, and weโll even have some fun doing it! ๐