Deedre Conkey

27/04/2024

This. sucks.

19/04/2024

I just got this book yesterday evening and finished reading it like 5 minutes ago. Andrea Lynn Price you should be so proud of this, I couldn’t put it down - it’s so good! I will leave a formal review another day when it’s not past my bedtime 😂, but for right now, take my word for it and go buy this book. Seriously, what are you still doing here? Amazon Prime this puppy right now 📚🛒

17/04/2024

Repeat after me, I got the power 💪 Now get those dreams you audacious beast.

16/04/2024

Claiming my destiny with the swagger of a CEO and the spirit of a warrior. 💼🔥 Let’s turn up the volume on ambition and knock out every obstacle in our path.

16/04/2024

Swipe right for a shot of affirmation awesomeness! 🚀 Pump up your positivity and kick negativity to the curb with the power of affirmations. 💥 Ready for more snark and empowerment? Follow me on Insta and Substack for your daily dose of badassery!
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12/04/2024

New article alert! 🚨 Have you ever felt like nailing jello to a tree was easier than finding motivation? 🤔 Check out my latest piece where I dive into the messy journey of overcoming executive dysfunction and embracing the chaos of creativity. Link in bio!

12/04/2024

A massive shoutout to .s .talbott.50 and for subscribing to my Conk’s Brain substack! You all are the bomb dot com and I’m filled with gratitude for your support of my writing ❤️
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06/04/2024

I’ve got 40 custom glitter stickers from a past project that I’m giving away (link in comments). The amazing artwork of Rosie the Manatee is a commission project done for me by Steph Stanga and the sticker layout and design is mine. It makes me sad to this stack of whimsical stickers sitting on my shelf collecting dust, so I’m giving them away for free so they can spread joy and good vibes in the world. That’s it, no catch. And if you’d like to support my writing and other creative efforts, you can also subscribe to my Substack for free.

24/03/2024

Sometimes, the hardest part is having the courage to start. We crave the comfort of certainty; we fear the prospect of failure, but failure isn’t something that needs to be avoided. It’s just part of the process, and a reminder that we are alive. Put one foot in front of the other my friend and go boldly forward. Sure, you may fail, but think of all the amazing things you’ll see and learn along the way ❤️

16/03/2024

I needed you to hear this today, in case your forgot, you are an incredible human ❤️ Maybe it feels like the world doesn’t appreciate your beautiful, quirky, wonderfully weird self - but I do. Here you are loved and appreciated and never, ever underestimated. Now go out there and give ‘em hell you magnificent beast 💪

13/03/2024

Absolutely love this print I got from at Planet Comicon last weekend ❤️ Getting awesome artwork is one of my absolute favorite parts of attending.

12/03/2024

Feeling overwhelmed and defeated? Discover the power of self-care, breathing exercises, and the wisdom of Snoop Dogg for overcoming the noise of hustle culture in my newest article on Substack 👇

Some days seem impossible, just the prospect of getting out of bed and putting on pants feels like too big of an ask. And every once in a while, an impossible day bleeds into an impossible week or even, an impossible month. I find myself pushing aside the piles of s**t on my coffee table just to hav...

11/03/2024

I get it, upsetting other people or creating conflict can be agonizing especially if you’ve learned to keep yourself safe by not rocking the boat. The problem is that you deserve to be happy - deliriously , truly happy even if that happiness makes someone else uncomfortable. Obviously, don’t be a dick, but ask yourself, “will not doing this thing for myself or speaking up for myself negatively impact my health or happiness?” If the answer is yes, then choose yourself. Full stop.

10/03/2024

Your worth is not contingent on anyone’s approval. It’s hard work showing up for yourself every single day, drowning out the noise, listening to that still small voice inside you. But trust me when I say, you are worthy of all the things you can dream of in this one wild, beautiful life we have been given. This is your reminder ❤️

09/03/2024

What’s your favorite scary movie? Having a blast at Planet Comicon Kansas City with Tara Langley!

08/03/2024

Now more than ever, as we navigate the complexities of a rapidly changing world, solidarity among women is not just a nicety but a lifeline. It’s a call to action to lift each other up, amplify marginalized voices, and fight against the forces that seek to divide us. As we celebrate International Women’s Day, let us recommit ourselves to the principle that together, we are stronger.

Here are some specific ways we can show solidarity and support:
👉 Advocate for policies and practices that promote gender equality.
👉 Exercise your right to vote and stay informed about current issues and candidates.
👉 Amplify the voices of marginalized women, especially those from underrepresented communities by following and sharing their posts on social media, reading books they have written, shopping at their businesses, and sharing their stories.
👉 Attend women-led events and demonstrations.
👉 Educate ourselves and others about intersectional feminism and the diverse experiences of women worldwide.

07/03/2024

What if instead of tearing ourselves down, we made the conscious decision to love ourselves as unconditionally as we love others? A bad day or a set back is just part of the process. Please, I’m begging you, just let yourself be human - talk back to the s**t monster in your head. Defy it with self love. When it says you are a bad person, a selfish person, a worthless person, throw down with opposite day like it’s 3rd grade again. But what if I’m not? What if I’m a good person, a caring person, a valuable person? A person who is allowed to grow.

06/03/2024

Let’s revel in our peculiarities, our eccentricities, and our wonderfully weird selves. Let’s dance to the rhythm of our own drumbeat, unapologetically and authentically. Because it’s in embracing our strangeness that we find our most exquisite beauty. 🌹

Tag a friend who beautifully embraces their strangeness! Let’s spread the message that being different is not just okay—it’s extraordinary.

05/03/2024

Being human is a gift, not a fault.

03/03/2024

Ever feel like crying is a cardinal sin? Crying gets the sad out, and the mad, frustrated, angry, scared, and a whole host of other feelings. Dive deeper into the science and stigma of crying in my new article “Big Ole’ Cry” available now on my Conk’s Brain Substack. Link in bio or head to conksbrain.substack.com

03/03/2024

Dive into the messy, beautiful journey of embracing emotions and breaking down societal norms. 📚✨ Check out my latest Substack post for a heartfelt exploration on crying, vulnerability, and the power of acceptance.
https://conksbrain.substack.com/p/big-ole-cry

25/02/2024

Embracing the chaos, finding the light within. Dive into my latest Substack post where I share the journey of rediscovery through poetry and persistence. Link in bio or head to
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29/01/2024

The exact words uttered by my mother before beginning work today. Ok, so there might have been a little sarcasm behind her tone, but she’s dead set on putting those positive vibes into the universe no matter what 🌈🌟 This day won’t know what hit it. Tag a friend who could use a little love today.

28/01/2024

Let’s dive into this “don’t be afraid to be seen trying” thing. In a world that’s all about perfection, who says everything’s gotta be flawless? Spoiler: not everything does. The real gems lie in the messy, imperfect bits of the journey.

So, we’re living in this Digital Era Culture, right? Well, it’s time to throw confetti at imperfection. Those screw-ups, hiccups, and less-than-perfect moments? That’s the secret sauce to learning, growing, and figuring out what the heck you’re made of.

When you’re scared to be seen trying, you’re basically saying “no thanks” to learning from your mess-ups. And growth? It’s about navigating the messy parts. Whether you’re tackling a project, learning a new skill, or diving into a passion, expect a bunch of imperfect attempts – and that’s where the good stuff happens.

Now, in this digital age, the fear of imperfection shows up as a hesitancy to share our half-baked ideas. But guess what? Showing the messy process, flaws and all, is like waving a flag of authenticity. Forget the flawless facade; it’s all about sharing the real journey, highs, lows, and all those lessons.

Oh, and resilience? You need that in this fast-paced digital world. Embracing imperfection is like having a superhero cape. It makes you adaptable, ready to pivot when life throws curveballs, and stronger on the other side.

So, how do we create a culture that’s all about trying and embracing the chaos? It starts with a mindset that says, “Mistakes? Nah, just stepping stones to greatness.” Build an environment where people feel safe to spill the beans on their journey, no judgment.

In a nutshell, I’m all about DEC, where imperfection is the real hero. The power is in the messy, imperfect process of trying. Ditch the fear, and you’re stepping into a world of constant learning, resilience, and a deeper understanding of your badass self. Embrace the chaos, because that’s where the real magic goes down.

10/01/2024

Forgiving doesn’t mean we’re letting the other guy off the hook. It’s our way of telling the universe, “You can’t mess with my vibe.” We’re not erasing the past; we’re just reclaiming the power it had over us.

Why forgive the undeserving? Because we’re selfish – in the best way possible. We’re grabbing hold of that peace we totally deserve. Carrying around past grievances is like hauling a suitcase full of rocks. It’s heavy, it’s awkward, and it’s slowing us down. Time to drop it and strut into a lighter, brighter tomorrow.

This is our rebellion, our way of saying, “I’m the boss of my own story, thank you very much.” Forgiveness isn’t weakness; it’s a power move. It turns victims into victors and grudges into stepping stones.

So, here’s to us – the kings and queens of rewriting stories, shedding baggage, and waltzing into serenity like it’s our personal catwalk. Because peace? We’re not waiting for it; we’re grabbing it by the horns and making it ours.

02/01/2024

Each journey begins with a single step, and every big achievement starts with a small beginning. ❄️ Here's to embracing the potential of those first snowflakes in our lives, knowing they can lead to blizzards of success! 💪🌟

30/12/2023

I’m convinced the key to success and happiness is finding the balance between treasuring the lessons of the past, embracing the present with open arms, and keeping the fires of hope burning for the future. Just remember that finding that balance is an ongoing process.