04/12/2023
It's that time of year where the world at large and Christians celebrate a holiday that is wrought with things that have nothing to do with our Saviour and The Gospel. Should we turn to legalism and proclaim "I hate Christmas because it's a pagan holiday" or should we embrace all the warm, fuzzy things that is so popular in our modern culture (Santa Claus, stacking a mountain of presents by a tree, etc)? As earnest believers who are both serious about the Word of God and also conforming to the knowledge AND grace of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we ought to do neither.
If people interact with my household around the holidays and sees & hears little to no distinction between us and the secular world that is a problem and begs a real heart check. On the other hand, if people interact with my household and "His kingdom come, His will be done on earth as it is in Heaven" is evident in the way we celebrate Jesus this season, then to hone in on a sprinkling of festive aspects that have nothing to do with Jesus and using that to discourage a fellow believer also begs a heart check. Ultimately, the question one must ask themself is "where is my heart postured?" If your heart is full of joy because Christmas is a holiday that magnifies the miracle of The Messiah being born to a virgin and the beauty of The Gospel... being festive with decor and such is not to be made into a bigger issue than it should be. If your heart is full of joy because you're more excited about presents, decorating and doing Christmas "things" than the meaning of Jesus' birth then by all means, such a believer should be pulled aside and be lovingly admonished.
Michelle Lesley- Discipleship for Christian Women writes a very good article about this topic (link in the comments), and here is a quote from that article:
"Do some aspects of the celebration of Christmas find their origin in millennia-old paganism? Possibly. But are you participating in that paganism if you put up a tree or give gifts at Christmas? Probably not. The “Christmas is pagan” lore is so ancient and uncertain that most people aren’t even aware of it. How could you possibly be participating in paganism if you’re not even aware of its existence, you have no intention of participating in it, and it has nothing to do with your reasons for celebrating?"
Everyone who either knows my husband and I or has had a conversation for any length of time with us will hear Jesus and The Gospel pass through our lips. Everything we do in any holiday celebration centers around putting Jesus and The Gospel on forefront display... but yes, we also exchange Christmas presents with each other and our immediate family (one reasonable item per person) and if you step foot in my home you are putting on a goofy antler hat or something that lights up for pictures. If you hyper-focus on that tiny aspect and ignore where our hearts and intentions are at with the majority of how we celebrate then I appeal to you to think and pray about a possible legalistic heart. I don't use that word lightly either since being Reformed and Calvinist, I often get slapped with the "Pharisee" label 'just' for associating with the doctrines that the Reformers, Puritans, early church fathers, and Jesus' own disciples taught and passed down. It is one thing to vehemently defend sound doctrine and it is another thing to nitpick the way a family or individual celebrates a holiday. For my little family, we use this holiday, when people of the world are more receptive to hearing about Jesus' birth and The Gospel, to witness... invite people to know the love of God by understanding that Jesus' birth is the pinnacle of John 3:16.
We're called to glorify Christ. No matter what Christmas looks like in our homes, if the sincerity and fullness of our hearts are for Christ and He is on display as the center and height of celebrations, so what if we choose to exchange gifts as tokens of love to our family and friends or wear goofy hats and decorate a tree to be festive? As long as they are not at the forefront, the ones wagging their fingers at those things should really consider verses like Matthew 23:13...
“But woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, because you shut off the kingdom of heaven from people; for you do not enter in yourselves, nor do you allow those who are entering to go in"
I believe that the core characteristic of our Lord Jesus is His perfection of Humility (which derives from His absolute Holiness). But I think we sometimes have a skewed view of what true humility is and the humility of our Saviour. One of the messages that Jesus preached His Sermon on The Mount was "the meek [gentle, humble] shall inherit the earth" (Matthew 5:5). But does that mean Jesus in His perfect humility would want to discourage us from making the center of our celebrations during this season to be all about Him? Absolutely not. He is worthy of worship and to celebrate His birth, no matter what day it technically is (point of the matter is, Jesus was born and fulfilled OT prophecy to bring forth The Gospel). It is appropriate to celebrate our Lord if our hearts are chiefly postured towards Him. In John 20:28, Acts 10:25-26, 19:9-10, and many other verses, none of these instances do we see Jesus telling those worshiping Him to stop because He wanted to be 'humble', as did mere men and even angels who were being worshiped wrongly by others. Christ's humility was exhibited by His heart towards those He called His own posession, by His submission to The Father, by preferring others before Himself, and a whole slew of other things that will take way too much time to describe here (I go into detail of Christ's humility a lot in my email devotionals so please sign up to get access to the whole library as well as new devotionals as I release them: https://solagratialife.com/devotional/).
Check out this short video of Dr. John MacArthur, a very well-respected pastor-theologian, scholar, and author -- one of my favorites -- share his thoughts on the topic of Christmas celebrations.
For details about this video and for related resources, click here: https://www.gty.org/library/blog/B191209To receive John MacArthur’s monthly letter, as we...