29/03/2023
Love is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It is not about looking for a perfect because there is no perfect person on the earth. It is not about looking for a well off or rich person. Money cannot buy love. A relationship is finding someone who respects you, who cares about you, who understands you, who is proud of having you, who loves the way you are, who is faithful to you, and who knows how to comfort you.
It's not easy to explain love, love is like explainable but if your love is true and pure then that person's name will put a smile on your face, that person's thoughts will make you happy, their happiness will bring you happiness, that very person's presence will make you feel complete, their smile will bring a smile on your face, that person's tears will bring tears into your eyes, their success will make you proud, their failure will make you feel failed too, that person's smile, happiness and success will be the thing that you will always crave for and that person will always reign on top of everyone in your heart, a special place that no-one can ever be capable of replacing.
I think love is much more than just the butterflies, the cute texts and the adorable gifts. Love is much more than just a feeling. It's more of a choice. Being in love is easy, staying in love is hard because you have to accept this person, you have to love this person despite what flaws they have. Love is not just about going to dates and the kisses or just a romance.
Sometimes love is did you eat?, you need some rest, I'll pick you up, I'll drop you off, I'll wait right here, I'm always here, I'll never leave don't worry. Sometimes love is holding on, worth fighting for, worth waiting for, worth living for but sometimes love is letting go. Sometimes love is hey, how's your day?, hope you're okay, I wish you all the best, I believe in you, I support all that you do, still here for you.
When you're in love with someone, it means you have to love them when they are nothing, when their eyes are empty and their hearts are heavy with sadness. To love someone is to believe in them even when they can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. To love someone is to accept that they are the ones you have to live with to the end of time. It's a challenge, to love someone with every imperfection, it's a challenge to accept someone wholeheartedly and love them unconditionally.
A real love is the one where your love for your partner is much higher than your ego. Where your understanding of each other's feelings is greater than your conflicts. Where your emotional bonding is so strong that the fights cannot survive for longer than a few jealousy. It's so easy to love someone when things are perfect and everything's wonderful. But to love someone when things are difficult, when they're not being perfect, when they're messing up, flaws are seen, mistakes are made, i think that's what really allows you to see how much love really is there.
True love is like the tree with strong roots which cannot be moved nor it withers with time. It is like the harvest always rejoices in the process of growth and looks forward to water love, care, comfort, support, peace, freedom, trust, faith joy, care, compassion patience and perseverance. No matter the consequences love must be watered with all these qualities spirituality, mentally.
And once you fall truly in love, you become a totally different person. The person whom you have fallen for becomes your top most priority. You crave to meet them. Their voice give you peace and their smile seems the most beautiful thing in the world. You feel safe in their arms and it's their presence that makes you feel complete. You start dreaming your life with them. On one hand love make you strongest while on the other, sometimes it make you weakest.
Loving someone truly is the most divine feeling in the world. Once in life every one should feel what love actual is. Love will always remain love no matter weather it's one sided or two sided, love is love. Love is indefinable, love is choosing someone over and over again because they are everything you've ever wanted.
