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Not Your Mama’s Mental Health My new podcast I’m starting to be open about mental health. Hoping my story and the stories of oth

15/02/2024

Day 2 of postpartum depression healing. Today I’m mad at my brain for being imbalanced. I feel fine. I sound fine. Although when people say “you sound fine” when you’re depressed what does that even mean? How does a depressed person sound when it’s bad? Am i supposed to be crying all the time? Idk that phrase is so weird when it comes to mental illness

14/02/2024

The first hour of my day is my favorite. It’s the time when I wake up and for that hour, I feel normal. The depression is still sleeping during that hour. Then well it takes hold. So I will look forward to that hour and know that it gives me hope. Here’s to healing my postpartum depression!

Something my guest taught me tonight. There are 3 stages of healing from abuse. Victim, Survivor, and Thriver. This isn’...
02/11/2022

Something my guest taught me tonight. There are 3 stages of healing from abuse. Victim, Survivor, and Thriver. This isn’t the best diagram but it hits on a few things. I was so happy to learn this new term tonight! Thriver. I love it

02/11/2022

Y’all tonight’s interview was chefs kiss. I can’t wait to have y’all hear it!

02/11/2022

Y’all. So I’m interviewing someone tonight and we live in different states which in this case means different time zones and both of us forgot that was a thing we should worry about. I swear I really am just a hot mess express. 😹😹😹😹. Don’t take things to serious

16/10/2022

Hey y’all. So I’ve been processing this week an incident happened that triggered a memory that well I’ve been working through. I’ll share more one day but just remember that all progress can have a step back. It doesn’t mean you failed. Love you all

02/10/2022

Hey y’all it’s Katie. So I’ve recently recorded an episode it’s still being edited. I also recorded part of my story what I would like to refer to as “The Beginning” my producer aka my husband thinks I should post it as a vlog/blog kind of thing because it’s different from my usual episodes. Its very rambling and I guess disjointed. My question to y’all my listeners is: Do you want to hear it?

18/05/2022

I wanted to take a moment and thank Tiffany Nicole Joyce for taking the leap and interviewing with me this morning. I can’t wait for y’all to hear this. She did amazing y’all

14/05/2022

Where have I been?

So it’s been over a year since I released an episode. I’m sorry I’ve been gone so long. Last year I started this process and got off to a good start but I fell off. That’s where dealing with your own mental health struggles comes in. I was doing the podcast which I love but working a job that I didn’t, all while dealing with bipolar disorder and postpartum depression.
Basically all last year I didn’t see my therapist. I was surviving on my medication which was - thankfully - adjusted throughout the year. Thank God for phone visits with my psychiatrist and the coping mechanisms I’ve worked on over the last 6 years. I’ll be honest I was surviving but I was not thriving or really an active participant in not only my life but my sons life and my marriage. While working a job I didn’t enjoy being at, I was also going through the process of getting clearance for gastric bypass surgery - which meant meeting with a different therapist. Again, thank God for telehealth visits.
In November I got the clearance and scheduled my surgery for December 8th. My job didn’t deem this a medically necessary procedure and were not going to give me time off to do the surgery. So I quit. I had the surgery December 8th as scheduled, and to this date have lost around 85 pounds.
This long entrance brings me to what I want to share with y’all and that’s grief. The grief of losing who I was as the “fat funny friend,” the loss of my identity. I recently took the opportunity to go back to therapy since my new job gives me a day off during the week. I’ll be honest, before I met with my therapist I thought I was losing my mind. I mean I’ve lost 85 pounds, I should be shouting from the rooftops and be celebrating this accomplishment! I mean it’s what I’ve wanted for a long, long time - to be smaller. Now, how this ties into grief. I was trying to explain this to my therapist to no avail; then I remembered I was talking to my best friend about this feeling I was having. I didn’t realize at the time it was grief. So I read her the text which said: “Like I should feel grateful for being in a smaller body. I mean that’s what I wanted right? Then why am I so depressed and feel like being in a smaller body is wrong.” So here’s the thing, people. When you mix a rapidly changing body with postpartum depression and bipolar disorder you think you are just getting a depressive episode. For some people maybe. For me I was experiencing a huge amount of grief. Grief wasn’t talked about in my classes or meetings or therapy sessions before the surgery. Grief came unexpectedly and with a force that hit so hard I didn’t know to tell it “You hit like a bitch.” So I’m here with y’all in my safe space sharing my story with you. I’m in therapy every other week to find me again, to work through the grief of losing a part of myself I didn’t know I’d lost. I’m finding out who I am in this smaller body which I hope is just me, the funny caring loving hardworking person I’ve always been - just smaller.
If you stuck around this long, thank you, and remember: sharing your story helps others feel not so alone. I’m always here to listen. Love you all.

10/10/2021

Hey y’all i know I’ve been quite for awhile but life happened and I got depressed the podcast isn’t dead I’m working on things now

27/03/2021

This week we explore a topic that hits close to home for me and so many moms PPD. So come listen while we explore the topic and get serious about guilt and the need to take care of yourself.

14/03/2021

Editing a new show today.

Come talk about it with me.
03/03/2021

Come talk about it with me.

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