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02/09/2024

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28/03/2024

if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you. Narcissists, psychos, sociopaths', wicked people, selfish people, immoral people don't change, they only change the victims....

I have seen foolish women and men entering into marriages and relationships with people who have abused their partners before, and they think they are special and luck only to go through the same or worse kind of abuse with the same culprits.

unless someone has repented, done inner work, gone through healing and grieved for hurting other people in the past, those people have not changed and you should be very careful when dealing with them.

28/03/2024

Life is spiritual.....

The battles your parents failed to fight, they have passed them to you and the battles you fail to fight, you will pass them to your children.

Blessings can be passed from one generation to another and curses can be passed from one generation to another....

if you see a bad pattern in your life and family, stand on your ground and wear the full garments of war to fight the battle....Things don't just happen in life, they are made to happen.

21/11/2023

Parents are very important in our life and we really appreciate all the parents who have sacrificed a lot of things so that they can secure a better future for their children. May God bless all. However, we cannot fail to mention a few parents who have chosen to abuse their children instead of protecting them. And that is what we are tackling in today's video on how to deal with toxic parents as child plus how you can shape your destiny after soo much struggles.

https://youtu.be/8cHriT0v29k?si=fqOiOhb01WKbDtzB

21/11/2023

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Parents are very important in our life and we really appreciate all the parents who have sacrificed a lot of things so that they can secure a better future ...

15/11/2023

One thing I have learnt about calling, it chooses you not the viceversa.

God in his own wisdom, he sees you fit to carry out his vision on the earth realm because he knows he deposited something valuable inside that align with his vision.

No matter how much you disqualify yourself, no matter how many times you ran away from it, the calling will follow you.

Some of you, your life is soo hard and nothing is working because you are running away from your calling.

On my recent video, I have discussed about passion and how to balance it with your job at early stages of your calling.

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https://youtu.be/s-5Hzw1-Ays?si=nWh9CIImmgsMrTIU

14/11/2023

Don't expect truth from someone who is already lying to themselves.

Have you watched my latest video on YouTube....

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Everyone was born with a purpose on earth and that is what most people struggle to find out. However, the few who have discovered their purpose which is ti...

14/11/2023

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Everyone was born with a purpose on earth and that is what most people struggle to find out. However, the few who have discovered their purpose which is ti...

10/11/2023

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Through my journey of healing, God taught me great lessons about forgiveness as he was working on my heart. On this video, I have shared those lessons which...

09/11/2023

07/11/2023

Your value doesn't decrease on someone inability to see your worth.....

Hello, have you watched my latest video on YouTube on how to let go and forgive?

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https://youtu.be/lCbWvxhTkuk?si=EInIyvZS7VNMXOQq

07/11/2023

https://youtu.be/lCbWvxhTkuk?si=dwJZiwBjup7niQaZ

Through my journey of healing, God taught me great lessons about forgiveness as he was working on my heart. On this video, I have shared those lessons which...

06/11/2023

https://youtu.be/lCbWvxhTkuk?si=FtiUFhk6HGJLu89N

Through my journey of healing, God taught me great lessons about forgiveness as he was working on my heart. On this video, I have shared those lessons which...

19/10/2023

When life is crushing and everything thing is falling apart, there are two important things that you should hold dear to yourself. ...

1. Not giving up on yourself, you can give on everything or everybody but not on you. Because only you who have the power to rebuild life again through the help of God.

2. Don't despise yourself.... it doesn't Matter how hard the situation is or how big the shame is, don't despise yourself. ...you will raise again.

When I was going through a hard time in my life, I learnt to be soft on me.... no matter how many times I failed, I chose softness on my side.... through that journey, I learnt to be kind and love myself. ...it was a journey that I will live to appreciate because it showed me how strong, resilient and great I am as a woman and how mighty and trustful my God is.....

Remember this, no matter how hard the situation is, don't give up on you neither despise yourself.

Hellenwamathai

11/10/2023

When you are rebuilding and building your life, look for a Godly altar that will feed you spiritually.
That which will feed your business, marriage, children, career, life etc.
Unlucky is a man or woman who is alterless in this life which is highly spiritual.

As a child of God, God has commanded you to dorminate in the earth and you can't achieve this if you don't have an altar... children of God struggles with dominion because they take lightly matters of the spirit and are full of ignorance unlike children of the world who are very sharp when it comes to such matters.

If you find a good altar where God is served in truth and honour and which responds to your needs, stick there wacha kuruka ruka.... Honour that altar and priests in that altar and you will see your life changing.

In my journey of faith and spiritual growth, through mistakes I have made and lessons that I have learnt, I have come to realize not every altar responds to my needs but there is some specific altar which knows me very well.

Right now I don't take my tithes or sacrifices to just any church altar or give them to just any man or woman of God.... I am very specific...... some altars are lifeless, others have issues with God, others are weak. If you connect yourself to those lifeless and weak altars, you will also struggle in life despite working hard. That is why you must be sensitive on which altar feeds you.

This topic of altars,I will be discussing it more because I want you to get help because you don't have to make mistakes that I have made before..... However for now, do you have an altar?

Hellenwamathai

10/10/2023

In your season of rebuilding, minimize the voices that are speaking to you because they will only bring you confusion.

People who have not constructed anything in life should not give you any advice. They don't know the struggles of trying and failing. They don't know the hustle of maintain anything.

In this season that I am rebuilding my life, I have chosen to listen more to the holyspirit and less to people. I like spending more time alone and meditating. I don't want too much external voices. I want to hear what the inner voice is saying clearly.

In your rebuilding season, may God guide you on who to listen to and who not to listen to.

Hellenwamathai

01/10/2023

Recently I almost lost a huge amount of money from a conman who had pretended to be my village MCA and had first called my father lying to him that he had an opportunity that could have fit me well. ....

I believed him because he was introduced to me by father through a phone call....kumbe, there is a new con game of approaching elderly parents and asking for their children numbers.

Lackly..... when I was sending the money, it didn't go through....reason he had confused and by mistake added an extra one number....so the number was invalid because the digits were 11........ by then I had received a call from my brother and told him about the story......my brother asked me not to send the money fast till we verified that was a genuine guy....kumbe he was a mkora....

But I could have already sent the money if that conman had not confused and added one extra digit..... because when my brother was talking to me, I was already sending money 😒😒

Let me tell you, I asked myself how my spirit was not able to sense not a single deceit from that guy.....and I was soo grateful to God for sending confusion to that conman...... and may he continue to send spirit of confusion to anyone who sees me and think of using me for their selfish interests......

As we enter month of October.....10 means wholeness in the spiritual realm......let whoever or whatever is sent to rob your belongings, blessings, joy, peace, love get confused 10000 times....

May every man or woman who sees you and lust at you or have intentions of using for their selfish interests be confused before they carry their own agendas in Jesus....

Hellenwamathai

27/09/2023

Friends that bring laughter 🥰

24/09/2023

Working on your singlehood...

According to statistics, a lot of people are married but unhappy in dysfunctional marriages. Only a few are truly happy.

Any marriage working or not working is a contribution of two people.
That is why before thinking of getting married, first work on your wholeness.

Work on your past traumas
Work on your fears and trust issues
Work on your insecurities& low self esteem
Work on your mindset& limited beliefs.

Sister/ brother, you don't wait for a man to come and marry you... or keep chasing ladies to marry. You should be working on you, pursuing your God given purpose, impacting generations, building your dreams.... let the right man or woman find you soaked into your Godly purpose not waiting.

You know when you are a man or woman of high value, you attract alot of people. Many people want to be associated with you.

In your season of singlehood, it's not a season to go sleeping around or submerging yourself in all kind of activities that lower your vibration. It's a season of finding yourself, finding your purpose on earth, it's a season of healing your inner brokenness.

Only two whole people who have intentionally worked on themselves can truly enjoy marriage according to God's first intention.

Are you working on yourself?
Which areas do you feel you need help?
Incase you would like me to coach you into the journey of wholeness, contact me.

23/09/2023

If you want to get the best mentors... read books from the best teachers or listen to their podcasts, YouTube videos, or follow them on their social media pages or buy their Coaching programs and attend their conferences. You know some of the best teachers are soo busy they can't mentor you at individual level.

Most people who I interact with, keep on telling me, " Hellena you are soo wise". Even though God gave me gift of wisdom at a younger age which helped me navigate through a challenging childhood, I have also subjected myself to a lot of learning from some of the greatest teachers in Kenya and allover the world.

Below are some of the greatest teachers who have really impacted my life. Nione mtu akiguza my teachers😂😂

1. Dr Myles munroe.... he taught me on life purpose.
2. Rick Warren.. . taught Life purpose
3. Apostle Joshuaselman.... he taught me on spirituality.
4. Apostle Jane kihara...I really love this lady..taught me on prayers and fasting.
5. Prophet Joash Midiwo and prophet Sarah.... taught me on prophetic.
6. Benjamin Zulu.... one of the best teacher who will give you the most painful medicine for you to heal.... taught me on psychology and healing the trauma and broken families.
7. Apostle Ndura waruinge..... the former mungiki leader... he is one of the best teachers who has taught me on the tricks of the kingdom of darkness and altars.

8. Jane Mukami. ...weightloss and social strategies.
9. Pastor Ezekiel of newlife church..... taught me on family generational altars and power of altars.... ( I know some of you don't like him especially when you hear the word," hauna ndoa" 😂😂 of which I back him, " hauna ndoa hata tone ".

Most of you are used to motivational speaking and soo much word of hope that you don't want to hear what is ailing you so that you can treat it.....

My teachers are not perfect neither are they angels, they have their past, they have their weaknesses, they have their wounds, they have their own perception about life, therefore, I would be foolish to follow them blindly.... I take what fits me and just leave what doesn't not..... I can only rely on them at a scale of 40% maximum.

My greatest teacher and mentor of all is the holy spirit. He is perfect, he is holy, he is pure, he is loving, he is good and he is not influenced by anything and therefore, I trust him a 100%. Incase I have any issues about my life, he is the one I consult first .

Do you have teachers/ mentors. Who are they?

Hellenwamathai

14/09/2023

You can rise from divorce
You can rise from lose of that job/ business
You can rise from rejection
You can rise from that dysfunctional family
You can rise from poverty

You can rise from anything your mind set itself for.
Refuse to remain in the pit
Refuse to remain in the pit of self pity
Refuse to remain in the pit of poverty/ struggles.

God has given you the power to remove and correct anything you don't want in your life.
God has given you the power to recreate the kind of life you desire..

In this season of rebuilding, get out of oppression and take charge of your destiny.
To anyone who might be feeling low and lost, I take authority of the blood of Jesus and command restoration and grace of God to locate you.

Hellenwamathai

Hellenwamathai

13/09/2023

There is a God who restores
There is a God who rebuild
There is a God who heals
There is a God who uplift
There is a God who gives rest.
There is a God who makes men respect you.
There is a God who provides.

In my long overdue break from social media, this is the message that have constantly ministered to me in this season.

If you have never been in a situation where you loses everything and God restore better things for you, I don't think you understand the kind of God I am speaking about.

If you have never been mocked, rejected, despised by people then allover sudden God uplift you and blesses you. Then the same people who used to despise and disrespect you allover sudden start praising you and looking for spaces at your table. .. in this class of rebuilding, you won't understand much.

God have been good to me... he has favoured me. He has restored me and I am soo grateful.

I was just asking myself, which gift can I give to God as an appreciation for his good doing to my life..... ?while there is no gift that is enough, I chose to give him the gift of uplifting, rebuilding men and women from their brokenness to greatness.....

I will write, I will worship, I will teach, I will listen, whether I get paid or not, I will do it for the glory of God...no gift can compensate whatever he has done in my life....

My your life be rebuild, healed, elevated any time you come across my work....it's my gift to my God to the world.

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Hellenwamathai

03/09/2023

3.00am meditation.

It's been a while since I posted anything here...I am on leave don't worry 😂

Right now I am in the worship moment and the holy spirit has inspired this message.

Let me speak about bitterness. A lot of you have been wounded by life and people you treasure most...and this pain has filled your heart with a lot of bitterness and desire for revenge.

Today I pray for your healing and I urge you to intentionally work on your healing. Seek help if you can. Ask the holy spirit for help to find healing and remove bitterness out of your life.

The reason I am telling you this, is because there are levels God will not allow you to enter with a bitter heart. God will not trust you with his power with a bitter heart. When you are bitter, you will sabotage every good thing on your ways. Some of you God has brought genuine and good people in your life, but because of bitterness, you destroyed those relationships which could have taken you to higher levels of your destiny.

I have met some of you, you pray well, you preach well, you work well, but a small provocation, you are already cursing people and wishing them destructions. You know God don't like such behaviours. The annoiting of the holyspirit is for fighting devils not fighting people and their destinies.

If you are a believer, you are called to build not destroy. The church is full of witches of the mouth because of bitterness.No wonder nowadays I am soo careful with who I allow into my space especially from church. I have to scrutinize you because the condition of your heart matter to my destiny.

If as a minister of God you don't work on your healing and remove bitterness out of your heart, you will be destroying people's destinies with just your mouth...and we all know as a minister of God your words are not neutral. They can build or destroy. Therefore, Tonight, I am praying for your hearts and I uproot bitterness in your hearts in Jesus name. May God give you peace and healing that supersede any understanding.
May you forgive those who have hurt you and may God give you grace to release them from your heart.

Hellenwamathai

18/08/2023

You are beautiful
You are blessed
You are chosen
You are called for greatness
You are loved
You are favored

This is reminder to those who feel like giving up in life. Don't let the small whisper of the enemy make you feel like everything is over for you.

God has good thoughts and plans for your life....May you experience more peace, joy and love.

Hellena Wamathai

15/08/2023

Chose people who chooses you...

Stop forcing yourself into places you are never wanted....

What about you heal, love yourself, work on you, bond with God, work on your vision and dreams instead of being in spaces you are disrespected and despised. With this strategy, you will be attractive and you are the one who will choose who should eat at your table.

In as much you complain people have hurt you, sometimes you are the one hurting your heart by chasing people who are not for you.....

If there is something I want you to learn is to read people's energies...they can hide their character but can't hide their energies...

Finally, no one is ever busy....people choose what to prioritize. .... if you keep texting and calling and you are being ignored, don't fall for their excuses that they were busy....... observe the behaviours and act accordingly.

Hellenwamathai

13/08/2023

Your purpose on earth is not about you but about God....for God's glory.

When you start serving yourself and glorifying yourself instead of God, then you have moved away from the purpose of God...

Some of you have gone through pain, lost things and people and you keep asking yourself? " why me?".

It's you because God have chosen you to carrying out his vision on earth...and he can't trust you without training you.....

I am here to remind you that anything or anybody who comes to your life and distract or divert you from the purpose of God, will be removed automatically whether you like it or not. Therefore, they better behave and you better remain focused to the purpose of God.

Hellenwamathai

12/08/2023

Grow together

Don't just build a man my sister and you are not also growing....

You also have a divine calling over your life and it's not to just build a man....

Make sure as he grow, you are also growing. You don't have to do the same jobs he is doing. He can be the one doing the most work of hunting for funds out there and you can make sure you manage family wealthy and projects.... or find different passions.

You know when you are managing those projects, you have to research and keep your mind active and that is how you will also grow......

Sio kila saa when your husband come tired from job you start giving him unnecessary gossip of ploti and the people you quarrelled with during the day.

When your mind is busy, you don't have time for petty things..... Build yourself too mamaa. ....

Halafu kataa kuchapa....usijiachilie. ...you can be a wife, a mother and still slay.... slaying mamaa.

Hellenwamathai

10/08/2023

Shut that mouth!!!

Auch ! that sounds harsh
Basi funga mdomo😂😂

Before you sign that job contract. ..
Before you close that business deal
Before you implement that idea
Before you marry that woman/ man
Just shut your mouth. ....until it manifest physically

Don't share every move you make to everyone because they are smiling at you.
Some of your dreams were aborted because of oversharing. You shared your dreams with wrong people and they had to fight the dream spiritually before it's manifested.
It's foolish to think that every person laughing with you is for you....

Have discernment and shut your mouth.

Hellenwamathai