28/06/2023
When you surround yourself with negative people, you attract the same energy as what they are attracting. For Example, people that only talk negatively of themselves or of others you will find when leaving their company your energy is low.
Chances are you could possibly adopt these traits because the people you spend time with influence your thoughts, attitude, beliefs and success more than you think.
In short, you become your environment.
Your mind are a powerful tool —its a sending and receiving station of thought (energy). What you give out you will receive back.
If you think you are an eagle ... Why are you hanging around with pigeons?
INI order to grow and improve your life, you need to be surrounded by like-minded people. These people will understand the path that you are trying to go. They will also, understand your drive to better yourself and achieve your goals. You need people in your life who will help push you towards your goals.
* Have a support system
Get around people who support your vision. These are the people that will hold you accountable and make sure that you stay on track.
* You can be yourself
That's a personal biggie for me
With like-minded people, you feel comfortable in sharing your dreams without judgment. You can express ideas freely with others who understand the hustle. Everyone will have different dreams and goals but, will have the same drive towards the achievement. If there is no one in your group or squad that can help you grow, you may have to join a Meet-up group.
* Stay away from dream killers
I can relate to this one
Stay away from the naysayers and the negative people. These people are not happy with their own lives and don’t and don’t have dreams of their own. So, they don’t want to see anyone else succeed. They will not understand the calling that has been placed on your life and nor will they care. I once heard a quote from Les Brown and he said, “If you’re not on the way you’re in the way.” Everyone was not meant to make it to your future. There are people you will have to leave behind. These people will make you feel discouraged and insecure. Then eventually, they will cause you to lose heart and give up on your dreams.
* Get around people who are smarter than you
There is nothing more valuable than wisdom and knowledge. If you are the smartest one in the room. Hmmm, you need to find a new room. If you are looking for new career opportunities or wanting to start your own business, you need to find people who know are already successful.
* Find people who share your interests
Connect with people who share your hobbies and interests. Being around like-minded people you don’t have to just be about career orientated moves. You can join a meet-up group, hiking group or start a walking club or facebook group etc. Whatever your interests are, just make sure that it’s something productive and improves the quality of your life.