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โ€œ๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ...
29/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด.โ€

โ€œ๐—ฆ๐—น๐˜‚๐—บโ€ ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜‘๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ˆ. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ

In my childhood, I will never forget the sight of the shanties behind the Catholic church that bordered my hometown and another village, now part of Metro Manila.

The Christian church I occasionally attended during the summer was situated between two slum communities. The first site was just a few meters in front of our church building, while the second one was near a small farm pathway. However, residents had to walk home through a main road in the town center as the alley was privately owned.

I do not know the exact origins of these communities. Like any other informal settlement, the streets always seemed like a maze, and strangers would often get lost trying to locate specific addresses. Landmarks such as basketball courts, a social hall, and a chapel were key elements in finding your way.

My experiences in these locations were limited to religious activities, namely a summer school for kids, and giving away free pamphlets with biblical verses. No personal relationship was established with the residents except for the house-to-house visitation.

Although the houses were cramped and congested, the inhabitants were warm and welcoming. This may be seen as a faรงade for material poverty, which is not necessarily inaccurate.

During our visits, we encountered a particularly welcoming and generous homeowner who provided us with delicious food and coffee. Despite facing family issues and financial constraints, she was always cheerful and eager to share her resources. She passed away this year, but her house still stands as it is titled as a rented property.

However, the entire area surrounding it was demolished to make way for a commercial building. This is a familiar pattern: Slum communities are trapped in a cycle of dependency perpetuated by corrupt politicians who exploit urban migration for electoral gain.

I heard a story from a friend who used to live in a large slum community owned by a well-known pawnshop chain in the Philippines. The owner wanted to demolish the area, but the law required her to compensate each resident before doing so. This law has been manipulated to benefit these communities, leaving private owners at the mercy of an unjust system. Because of this law, she decided to charge each household a monthly fee for the lot instead.

My real immersion in a slum area happened at the invitation of my former student from the seminary. He is from Hong Kong and involved in an outreach program. He stayed in the area next to my current residence for a term as part of his immersion related to his Master's program.

We met at a designated area along a main avenue where a hospital is located, right after a bridge that connected a city and a municipality. Adjacent to the hospital garage are steps that go down to a riverside that has a pathway to the settlement. It was probably a 15-minute walk for me, as I am not used to small hilly terrain.

My experience was surprisingly pleasant as the neighborhood was quiet despite being congested. I was surprised to find the house we stayed in significantly different from its neighbors. It was made of good concrete, sturdy wood, a tiled floor, a clean toilet, and a sparkling sink. However, it was mosquito-infested, so the residents had to burn dry leaves at dusk.

I have allergic rhinitis, so I closed the windows upstairs and slept in a mosquito net. It was a breezy night, and upon waking up the following day, I saw a group of teens playing basketball on a soiled pavement.

Over coffee and some toast, my student and I chatted about the areaโ€™s social and spiritual landscape, which was continuously changing because of work, family, studies, health, relationships, and technology. We discussed how we could relevantly relate to these issues without being religiously aggressive and offensive.

What was noteworthy was the collaborative effort of residents in an attempt to provide a sense of permanency on borrowed land.

Slums are seen as sacred spaces by those who live in them, willing to do anything to protect and defend the area, even if they do not own it. Describing it as โ€œborrowedโ€ may be an understatement, as residents create physical and social structures to survive and flourish despite legal obstacles.

It is, therefore, unfair to say that slum dwellers are completely dependent on private and public aid for their entire lives. They utilize and adapt as necessary to meet their substantial needs.

And as long as urban migration and the struggle for land persist, new slum communities will continue to emerge. They are a permanent fixture of our society, representing both a systemic failure and the extraordinary human capacity to adapt and build a sense of home on borrowed ground.

โ€œ๐˜ž๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ, ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜‰๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฌ.โ€๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ ๐—ฆ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜๐˜€๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜š๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ...
27/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜ž๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ, ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜‰๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฌ.โ€

๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ ๐—ฆ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜๐˜€
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜š๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ โ€˜๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จโ€™ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ง

To reduce organized corruption, we must identify our weak points. ๐˜š๐˜ข๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ข? This is not about values, blame, or guilt-tripping. Letโ€™s talk about nuts and bolts.

We have at least five major systemic problems: low transparency and fragmented records, multiple investigations, slow justice, a lack of whistleblowers, and poor recovery of stolen funds.

One way or another, all these issues are also tied to corruption, but they must be addressed first.

First, despite all commitments and programs, ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™œ๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ. For example, we would like to know how many bags of cement were used in a Bulacan flood-control project in 2019. Where can we find the answer? We are talking about something clear and direct, like 5,234 bags.

What we obtain initially are the procurement and bidding records, the winning contractor, and the final project cost. At that point, we start getting lost in the information jungle. The national government will direct us to the DPWH, which will then direct us to its regional office, followed by the district office. ๐˜•๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ.

Transparency is the root. This is the place to start: a single proactive website where we can ask a question and get an answer on any corruption-related issue, one whose backend is deep and wide enough to uncover even the most minor details on any anomaly. ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ต.

Second, ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™œ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ. We have an independent commission that looks like a manager, not an executioner. We need a body that jails people, shuts down companies, pays informers, and negotiates the repatriation of stolen money from other countries. Its summons must make your knees shake.

๐˜๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ, ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ: To maintain the Philippines within the top 20 least-corrupt nations globally. We are now 114 from number one. Start the countdown. (https://tinyurl.com/jmcwmrxk)

The body must be high and above all government agencies when it comes to its mandate. The Senate and the House must recognize their authority through a formal resolution. Let us not rue the separation of powers when fighting graft: one authority, one guillotine, no holy cows.

Third, ๐™จ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™Ÿ๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™˜๐™š. We have already proven that justice can be hastened under the current programs of the Supreme Court. Letโ€™s establish special courts for corruption, with hearings held every other day, and a clearing deadline of less than a year.

With the magnitude of the problem, we must aim to fill Bilibid at the rate of one grafter a week.

Fourth, ๐™›๐™š๐™ฌ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ก๐™š๐™—๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ. We must protect and reward them well. We can multiply the number of potential whistleblowers ten times if we offer 5-10 percent of the recovered loot. ๐™ƒ๐™–๐™๐™–๐™—๐™– ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ก๐™–. Harm a whistleblower or family? You get the death penalty.

Suppose our economy reportedly lost 120 billion pesos from 2023 to 2025 from sham flood control projects. In that case, we should be willing to pay up to 6 billion pesos (5 percent) to whistleblowers whose direct testimony and actions lead to convictions and the recovery of public funds.

In what is said to be the largest whistleblower reward ever, fourteen years ago, ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—น ๐—˜๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ was awarded $96 million after she exposed serious contamination problems at GlaxoSmithKline's (GSK) pharmaceutical manufacturing operations. (https://tinyurl.com/drpa4jbw)

What did the US government gain after an 8-year legal battle? GSK agreed to pay the US government $750m to settle civil and criminal charges that it manufactured and sold adulterated drug products.

If the system is credible, we get whistleblowers who actually received the money and stashed it in vaults or banks on behalf of their bosses, not contractors or district engineers who will say they didnโ€™t hand over the money to the principal recipient.

Fifth, ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ง๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ง๐™ง๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ค๐™ฉ. If we have OFW diplomacy, we must have ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช-๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜บ. Why can the media identify assets allegedly obtained through fraud in other countries, but the government is unable to recover them?

In June 2024, the US government announced it had recovered and returned to Malaysia approximately $1.4 billion. (https://tinyurl.com/2a88a6rk)

โ€œThe funds from 1MDB, formerly Malaysiaโ€™s investment development fund, were laundered through major financial institutions worldwide, including in the United States, Switzerland, Singapore, and Luxembourg.โ€

Why canโ€™t we do that?

Let us remember the five weak spots and never forget them. The code is LAKAS:

๐™‡ โ€” ๐˜“๐˜ช๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜จ ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜›๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ขฬ๐˜ฏ
๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด: ๐˜ฌ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ, ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ข-๐˜๐˜‹, ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฐโ€”๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ข, ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฃ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฆ.
๐˜ผ โ€” ๐˜ˆ๐˜บ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ
๐˜๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข, ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ-๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ; ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ.
๐™† โ€” ๐˜’๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ด
๐˜›๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜บ-๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜บ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ด; ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ด๐˜ข, ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ; ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ.
๐˜ผ โ€” ๐˜ˆ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜š๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ
๐˜—๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฌ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ 72 ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ด + ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜บ๐˜ข ๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ช.
๐™Ž โ€” ๐˜š๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ช ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜š๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ช
๐˜-๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ป๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ช-๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ต, ๐˜ช-๐˜ถ๐˜ธ๐˜ช; ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ข ๐˜ฌ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ข ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ.

๐˜“๐˜ˆ๐˜’๐˜ˆ๐˜š! Shout it out in the next rally.

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ; ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต.โ€๐—˜๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐—ฎ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ง๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ชEvery...
26/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ; ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต.โ€

๐—˜๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐—ฎ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ง๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ช

Everybody tries. There are days when happiness seems like a requirement, and so we put on a smile and pretend that everything is fine. We try to make our days brighter, to find solace in the little things, and to keep our heads above water. But there are nights that feel too dark and too deep, and all we can do is try to sleep, hoping that tomorrow will be a little kinder.

The sunlight touches our skin as the sun tries to set in, and we wake up with a smile, trying to make our day as bright as the sunshine. We try to find meaning in the mundane, to discover joy in the everyday moments. But beneath the surface, we are often struggling to keep up appearances. Everybody tries, but not everybody succeeds.

Everybody lies. Weโ€™re not always happy, but we choose to smile and pretend that we are. When someone asks how our day is, we remember the stress and anxiety that weโ€™ve been carrying, but we say โ€œIโ€™m fineโ€ instead.

We tell ourselves that we can handle it, that we are strong enough to bear the weight of our responsibilities. But deep down, weโ€™re often unsure and uncertain. We lie to ourselves and others, trying to maintain a facade of confidence and control.

Everybody cries. Itโ€™s past midnight, and we are staring at the ceiling, lost in thoughts and memories. Weโ€™re trying to fall asleep, but our minds are racing, and our hearts are aching. Tears pour down our pillows as we try to suppress our emotions, afraid of being seen or judged. But the more we suppress, the more our hearts ache.

Outside, the rain pours down, disturbing the stillness of the night, and we sob as the sky mourns. Everybody cries, and itโ€™s okay to let our emotions show.

Everybody dies a little inside. We have big dreams and ambitions. We once dreamed of being a doctor, an engineer, a writer, a teacher, an artist, or a nurse. But some of these fade away as we grow older. We lose our passion and motivation, and we are left with the remnants of our childhood aspirations.

We let them die because we are slowly losing ourselves as the path we are walking through becomes more and more unclearโ€” and the world outside is too harsh, and we feel too tired to keep fighting. Everybody dies a little inside, and it is a slow and painful process. But we will get through it.

Life is complex and hard, but it is meant to be lived. It is meant to be felt, to be experienced, and to be explored.

We are entitled to our own feelings and emotions, and we should allow ourselves to feel everything. We should let ourselves be overwhelmed, be happy, be sad, be angry, and hate things we donโ€™t really like. We should smile because it feels good, laugh because it is joyful, and scream because we're angry. We are human beings, and so we are allowed to feel.

To live is to express what we feel, to be true to ourselves, and to let our emotions shine through. But we should not dwell on the negative emotions. We can, always and always, overcome them. It is not just about existing; itโ€™s about living life to the fullest. Weโ€™re not just robots going through the motions; weโ€™re human beings with feelings, emotions, and experiences.

We should allow ourselves to feel things. Itโ€™s okay. But believe that we can surpass these bumpy roads and huge waves. We can find the right path as long as we choose to be ourselves and choose to live.

25/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜จ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜บ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด.โ€๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜‘๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ซ๐˜ฐIโ€™ve live...
24/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜จ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜บ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด.โ€

๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜‘๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ซ๐˜ฐ

Iโ€™ve lived most of my life with severe hemophilia and, later, epilepsy. That means Iโ€™ve had my fair share of stares, sympathy, and the occasional pedestal. People donโ€™t always know how to respond to disability. Some recoil, others pity, and some rush to elevate you as โ€œinspirationalโ€ simply for existing.

At first, I used to take comfort in the praise. Who doesnโ€™t want to be seen as strong or courageous? But over time, I realized something darker beneath the applause: I wasnโ€™t really being seen at all. My humanity was being replaced with a symbol.

The disability community calls this inspiration p**n: those viral posts where a student who is handicapped excels and joins the honor roll in school, or where an athlete in a wheelchair is framed as proof that โ€œanything is possible.โ€ On the surface, it looks like kindness. But itโ€™s actually another form of objectification. The world is applauding not me or us, but instead an idea of us: a caricature designed to inspire the able-bodied.

And thereโ€™s something deeply dangerous about that. Because when society glorifies us, it quietly strips away our complexity. People with disabilities arenโ€™t angels. We arenโ€™t automatically good, wise, or moral. We can be kind, selfish, generous, cruel, thoughtful, reckless, or abusive, just like anyone else. Disability doesnโ€™t make us saints.

Yet society keeps treating us that way. I cringe at the stereotype that says, โ€œAll people with disabilities go to heaven,โ€ as if suffering in body guarantees purity of soul. Others assume we must be better, more resilient, morally superior, simply because weโ€™ve endured pain. Thatโ€™s not admiration, thatโ€™s erasure. It denies us the right to be flawed. It denies us accountability.

Worse, this moral pedestal can create blind spots. If weโ€™re always viewed as โ€œinspirational,โ€ what happens when a disabled person is manipulative, violent, or abusive? Too often, people look away. The myth of automatic goodness becomes a shield, allowing harm to hide behind the very label meant to glorify. And for some, being constantly told theyโ€™re โ€œmorally higherโ€ can warp into entitlement, even justification for cruelty.

To me, thatโ€™s not just misguided kindness. Thatโ€™s a form of medical racism. It treats disability as a moral category rather than a human condition. It flattens us into symbols instead of individuals. And it denies us the dignity of complexity.

Hereโ€™s the truth I wish more people understood: being disabled is not inherently good or bad. Itโ€™s not a moral badge, a cosmic punishment, or an automatic fast-pass to heaven. Itโ€™s simply one of the many ways to be human. Some of us will be remarkable. Some of us will be destructive. Most of us will live somewhere in between.

If you really want to honor people with disabilities, stop glorifying us. Stop stripping away our humanity by turning us into lessons. See us in full: the mess, the contradictions, the good, the bad, the mundane. Give us the same space you give anyone else to be accountable, to be flawed, and to be real.

Because until we end the glorification, weโ€™re not respecting disabled lives โ€” weโ€™re desecrating them.

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ 15 ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ช๐˜ต, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜บ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ?โ€๐—œ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜Œ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ญ ๐˜Š๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ ๐˜Ž๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ขI want to be cor...
22/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ 15 ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ช๐˜ต, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜บ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ?โ€

๐—œ ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐˜
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜Œ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ญ ๐˜Š๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ ๐˜Ž๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ข

I want to be corrupt.

I donโ€™t want to worry about building generational wealth, providing money to my extended family and relatives, and ensuring that all my children get all the perks and advantages that they would ever need in life.

I donโ€™t want to worry about government-mandated salary deductions, delayed pay, rampant inflation, and all the other inconveniences of being a professional worker.

Oh, and my wife would surely love another jewelry set from Tiffany & Co.

I want those easy-peasy, juicy government contracts that allow me to get away with underpaying worker salaries, utilizing substandard materials, and delaying project completion dates. If those 15 companies can get away with it, then why not me? I thought we were living in a capitalist democratic republic where public bidding is free and open to everyoneโ€ฆ and where getting money is supposed to be a โ€œfree marketโ€.

I also want to have a Swiss bank account and an offshore shell company where I can park all my money and avoid having to pay my taxes. Why do I need to give back to the people when I can keep all of it for myself?

Most importantly, I want to have the juicy contacts that would allow me to be rich forever and sleep in a bathtub full of 1000-peso bills. Or better yet, sleep in a bathtub full of 100-dollar greenbacks.

Of course, since Iโ€™m supposed to be a ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฐ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ, Iโ€™m going to support an art project or two, plant a company forest, do some cleanups, and donate a solar panel set when I am in the mood (and when Iโ€™m not busy chasing the latest Bugatti model). Maybe I can also do a medical or dental mission at a most visible squatter barangay with the logo of my company prominently displayed.

What do they call it these days? Sustainable Development Goals and Corporate Social Responsibility? I like these buzzwords, they allow me to divert their attention from what Iโ€™m doing.

Obviously, I have insured myself against whatever punishments man and God can send towards me within my short, sweet life on Earth.

Floods? They donโ€™t worry me, we live in a gated community by the hill, with state-of-the-art security systems and 24/7 armed private guards. ๐˜๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ.

Political upheaval? Least of my worries. ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ฏ, ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ซ๐˜ฐ๐˜บ ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฏ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข.

Prison? Almost no one was ever convicted of corruption. Even those who are convicted get politically rehabilitated and even go back to higher office. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ง, ๐˜ˆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ, ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜š๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ฉ?

Earthquakes? My house has been built to withstand a magnitude 8 earthquake. Enough said. ๐˜Œ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜Ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ซ๐˜ฆ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ.

Road ambushes? Nothing to worry about, our cars are all bulletproof, have off-road capabilities, contain upgraded and rugged engines, and can run on flat tires for 80 kilometers. ๐˜‹๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฌ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ?

War? I can just hop on my private jet and take off from a private airfield of my own, away to one of my properties in Australia, Spain, or Chile. ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ 195-๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด!

Accountability? ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ - ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ! ๐˜Œ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ณ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ธ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ. ๐˜โ€™๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ธ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ.

So, I want to be corrupt.

Yet, I know that as long as I still have a shred of conscience left in me, it will only happen when pigs start flying.

โ€œ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ, ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ.โ€๐—”๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐— ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜š๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ โ€˜๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จโ€™ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ...
20/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ, ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ.โ€

๐—”๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐— ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜š๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ โ€˜๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จโ€™ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ง

๐˜›๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ & ๐˜“๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ. Two forces that shape todayโ€™s world, like partners who should break up, but wonโ€™t โ€” because life still insists. Every day, one slams the door, the other knocks โ€” very us.

This is the tension we hold in Transit Dialogue, a cheerfully conflicted collective. Some take off with rage against fakery, then land with a haiku on patience. Others flare, then steer toward dignity with quietude.

We are self-aware. Itโ€™s easy to weaponize ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ and cheapen ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ. Speak with heat and you are โ€œtoxicโ€ or โ€œsubversive.โ€ Show kindness and you are โ€œweakโ€ or โ€œplastic.โ€ Labels are cheap; worth is in the weave. We work the loom with a steady hand, threading raised fists and open palms into one cloth. Without both, weโ€™re not fully human.

Generations clash, then collaborate. Boomers bring memory. Gen X brings synthesis. Millennials bring systems. Gen Z brings speed. Put them together, and the world moves. Pull them apart, and we return to the same floods and the same speeches.

The aim is not uniformity; itโ€™s orchestration. We are a band with guitars, drums, and an off-key ๐˜›๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฐ on vocals. When the beat locks in, it works.

๐˜›๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ without a path burns out; ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ without boundaries burns us out. We plot wisely: protest, then propose. Expose, then educate. Call out, then call in. Not glamorous. Necessary.

Transit Dialogue is not a temple of answers; it is a hive. We curate indignation that clarifies, not corrodes; we grow care with spine, not vanity. We rage with purpose and care with strength.

Another year older, a shade more skeptical, and somehow more hopeful. Weโ€™ve learned to laugh at the nonsense โ€” ours included. We admit mistakes, then we edit.

To our writers: thank you for shouting with ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ but without hate, and caring with lambing without pretense.

To our readers, commenters, sharers, and quiet lurkers: thank you for sitting through the traffic of our thoughts. You opened windows to our souls, and through them, peace found its way in.

We move with ๐˜›๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ & ๐˜“๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ, together. Keep riding with us. The road is long. Memes may be savage; the company is good. And our shared destination may be closer than we think. ๐™Ž๐™–๐™ก๐™–๐™ข๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฅ๐™ค.

๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’” ๐’๐’‡ ๐’˜๐’๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“๐’‡๐’–๐’ ๐’”๐’•๐’๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’”, ๐’Š๐’…๐’†๐’‚๐’”, ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’…๐’Š๐’‚๐’๐’๐’ˆ๐’”. ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’๐’‚๐’Ž๐’‚๐’•, ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ป๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Ž๐’–๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š
19/09/2025

๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’” ๐’๐’‡ ๐’˜๐’๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“๐’‡๐’–๐’ ๐’”๐’•๐’๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’”, ๐’Š๐’…๐’†๐’‚๐’”, ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’…๐’Š๐’‚๐’๐’๐’ˆ๐’”. ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’๐’‚๐’Ž๐’‚๐’•, ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ป๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Ž๐’–๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š

โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ญ: ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ โ€œ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅโ€ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ.โ€๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€?๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜‘๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜’๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฏThereโ€™s a qui...
19/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ญ: ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ โ€œ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅโ€ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ.โ€

๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€?
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜‘๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜’๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ

Thereโ€™s a quiet danger happening in pulpits every Sunday morning. It isnโ€™t the fire-and-brimstone rants of decades past, nor the overt manipulation of prosperity gospel televangelists.

No, the danger is subtler: itโ€™s the way sermons have drifted from discourse into demonstration, from conversation into performance, from the messy business of truth into the easy business of entertainment.

And most clergymen either donโ€™t realize it โ€” or worse, they do, and they keep doing it anyway.

Because hereโ€™s the thing: scripture, in its raw form, isnโ€™t meant to be read like a comic book. Itโ€™s full of metaphor, paradox, poetry, and jagged edges. But instead of teaching people how to wrestle with those layers, too many preachers serve up fairytales fit for children.

They hand out shiny toys in the form of angels, demons, beasts from Revelation, saints, and prophets they treat as superheroes โ€” while quietly avoiding the heavy truths about kindness, humility, justice, and accountability.

Why? Because literalism feels safer than nuance.

Nuance requires wrestling. Wrestling requires questions. And questions make leaders nervous, because what if people come to conclusions that donโ€™t line up with the script? So itโ€™s easier to say, โ€œ๐˜š๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ต, ๐˜ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ต.โ€ Certainty sells. Doubt complicates.

But letโ€™s be honest: fantasy also sells better than responsibility. A sermon about humility and sacrifice? Thatโ€™s homework. A sermon about heavenly armies or miracle battles? Thatโ€™s a Marvel movie. One asks you to change your life; the other lets you sit back and enjoy the show. Guess which one fills pews faster.

And once youโ€™ve turned scripture into a blockbuster, religion itself becomes a marketplace of toys. People start collecting prayer cards, medals, prosperity slogans, statues, โ€œpropheciesโ€ like theyโ€™re Funko Pops. Trinkets become substitutes for transformation. Itโ€™s not about remembering humanity. Itโ€™s about accessorizing a spiritual identity.

The result is predictable: the infantilization of believers. People never mature into compassionate adults; they remain consumers of fairy dust. Priests become entertainers instead of mentors. And the flock, rather than learning to wrestle with suffering, injustice, and moral accountability, gets trained to clap politely at a weekly show.

But sermons were never meant to be shows.

A true sermon is discourse, not demonstration. Itโ€™s not a priest broadcasting divine TED Talks into passive skulls. Itโ€™s a mutual wrestling, a provocation, a dangerous conversation. At its best, it isnโ€™t tidy at all. It leaves people disturbed, awake, questioning. It scratches the itch of meaning instead of soothing it with holy anesthesia.

Yet look at the modern model: one man with a microphone, everyone else told to sit quietly, look soft, and not make trouble. Itโ€™s schoolroom discipline disguised as worship. Worse, it betrays the very humanity of the exchange. A priest is not a celestial robot, but a human being. And human communication is always two-way.

To pretend otherwise is to deny the humanness of both priest and parishioner.
Shouldnโ€™t clergymen be unafraid to challenge and be challenged? Isnโ€™t that the point? What kind of spiritual leader avoids questions for fear of losing control?

Jesus himself sparred publicly with skeptics and cynics. Debate was his lifeblood. Why do his followers now tiptoe around honest confrontation?

The irony is brutal: ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š ๐™ก๐™š๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™˜๐™๐™ช๐™ง๐™˜๐™ โ€œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ง๐™š๐™™โ€ ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™š๐™™. Theyโ€™ve consumed a performance, not a provocation. Theyโ€™re happy that the Avengers won, but never realized the significance of the battle. The sermon becomes spiritual Netflix: you sit, you watch, you nod, you leave. Nothing wrestled with, nothing transformed.

And maybe thatโ€™s the part that offends me most. Because scripture at its best isnโ€™t a bedtime story to keep us safe. Itโ€™s a manual for growing up. A set of mirrors that reveals us at our most fragile and most accountable.

To treat it like a fairytale is to waste it.

To preach it like a stage play is to betray it.

And to sit through sermons that never challenge, never provoke, never open the floor to resistance โ€” well, thatโ€™s not worship. Thatโ€™s infantilization with incense.
Faith deserves better. Humanity deserves better. And frankly, God deserves better.

So the next time you sit in the pew and hear another sermon wrapped neatly in bows of certainty and fairytale language, ask yourself: ๐˜‹๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ, ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต?

If itโ€™s the latter, then donโ€™t be surprised if the toys eventually break, the stories ring hollow, and the faith you thought was fire turns out to be plastic.

18/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜Ž๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ป๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆโ€ฆโ€๐—ข๐˜‚๐˜๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜•๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜‰๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ณIt was rainin...
17/09/2025

โ€œ๐˜Ž๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ป๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆโ€ฆโ€

๐—ข๐˜‚๐˜๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€
๐˜‰๐˜บ ๐˜•๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜‰๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ณ

It was raining when I finished my part-time job as a tutor. Having remembered all along that I forgot my umbrella back in the university, I asked the family if they had any spare umbrellas to lend me.

Luckily, my tutee, a seven-year-old HotWheels fan, had a cute Cars umbrella. He said I could borrow that, and his grandma said, โ€œI like little umbrellas because they are easy to use,โ€ with a smile.

I laughed from within, thinking inwardly about the last time this umbrella looked so big. Probably when I was in elementary school. Since then, I have used the bigger ones and grown much taller. ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข ๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜บ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ข ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ.

Sizes determine outgrowing things. Shoes, uniforms, tumblers, and umbrellas have respected sizes varying from kids, medium-sized, and adult. The designs can also vary widely, from playful designs featuring our favorite cartoon characters to a more minimalist style. Our physical growth often begins slowly and then accelerates, which is mirrored by the rapid changes in our sizes and preferences as we get older.

Growing up in a poor working-class neighborhood required my parents to be frugal. When they bought things for me, like a pair of sandals, my school uniform, and clothes, they tended to be two sizes bigger โ€” everything bigger. โ€œ๐˜–, ๐˜ฌ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฐ-๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฐ, ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ข ๐˜ฅ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ.โ€ Mama would always reassure me. โ€œThis one, bigger, so you wonโ€™t outgrow it fast.โ€

The triviality of buying bigger things out of frugality, however, became temporary as one grows up. At some point after adolescence, we will stop growing physically. Eventually, it is no longer the size that matters, not even the preferences. When we point something at the store, we no longer have that spark in our eyes to ask our parents what we want, but instead, we look at the price, we look at our current state, and we rationalize.

Growing along with sizes and preferences means losing our innocence, and once oneโ€™s excitement is now in silence.

I was first shy walking with my small umbrella in the rain. People would find it ridiculous, but its little cover saved me from getting overwhelmingly damp. It was funny that I remembered a memory of me twirling my small umbrella on a sunny afternoon. โ€œThat little childโ€, I said. He was navigating the unpaved road with little strides in bigger shoes, making a โ€œ๐˜ง๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ-๐˜ง๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑโ€ sound.

I tried to imitate him, but my shoes fit me perfectly. The sound was not that similar. It was just the splash of water. โ€œIt is rainy, thatโ€™s why I canโ€™t make the same sound,โ€ I said while making bigger strides.

I can still use a small umbrella. I learned it that day. Yes, my elementary uniform wonโ€™t fit me anymore, not even my high-school one. But what truly stays with me isn't the uniform itself, but the feeling of having worn it every day.

I may no longer fit my old uniform or choose a smaller umbrella, but I can still be that cheerful child, even with shoes two sizes too big.

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