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Kelsi's Footprints Learning to deal with the loss of an infant is a devastating journey for any parent. Through God you will learn to breath again. Your baby is no longer to be.

Every parent dreams of having a baby to love, hold and cherish. The excitement of baby showers and planning a nursery and preparing for your little one becomes your way of life. Until one day... the unspeakable happens. Your dreams of that nursery are placed on hold. Your heart is crushed and your mind is now a roller coaster of emotions. Trying to learn a new way of life without this baby is a lo

ng journey. In writing this book, I share my journey of not only how it happened, but more so on how I was able to get through this with the grace of God. There are many situations in life that people have to walk through. This by far was nothing I ever would have imagined would be a part of my life. It affects you, your family and everyone around you. I have learned so much and can honestly say that I am stronger and who I am because of this journey and trusting in God to make a way. I pray that this book will help bring clarity to all the emotions that a parent will go through, help a family member realize there is a reason for all things, and to help any friends of the family understand this unbearable loss.

21/01/2021

Today my baby girl would be 26
Hard to believe really
I do recall the day like yesterday
Guess that is normal.
This image is a statue someone created to explain a parents loss of a child.
Pretty much sums it up perfectly
But I am here to say that over the years
And lots of tears.
God always has a plan.
A plan for us to become whole again !
To become leaders of his words and encourage others on our same path.
The days will become brighter.
Always trust in his plan.

07/01/2021

As we step into this New Year keep in sight all your possibilities.
Focus on you your strength and goals
You create your story !

19/11/2020

Two years ago I walked into a courtroom to finalize the adoption of my little girl and little boy.
Age 3 when they came into my life !!
I can not tell you the joy there simply are no words.
Just know this is HOPE
This is never ending faithfulness our God will open doors for you in ways you can’t imagine
All the years of tears and trying to have another child.
Gods timing is always on point !
Trust in his process
And be diligent in believing in his plan his timing.

18/11/2020

As I walked in the children’s home the first time I was excited.
Thinking this would be so awesome to be able to help others.
The volunteer coordinator started off by reading a poem a young girl wrote about her mother.
Not a poem of endearment but a poem more on acceptance of being denied by her mother.
I knew then that this was not going to be easy to listen to these stories
And look into broken faces - silently begging for love and help.

Every time I left the children’s home I left crying. Even called my mom once and said I can not do this.
She always said - Yes you can Nickie.

I kept going and kept trying to engage with what ever child would accept attention.
Eventually my tears turned into joy as different kids would say little things or even little unexpected hugs.
The smiles on their faces as we gathered to decorate for Christmas.
I realized every little thing counts to them.
I often was told by others
“ that’s great what you do for those kids”

Truth is it’s more what they did for me.
You see they will teach you- LOVE is always to be cherished.
TIME is never to be taken for granted.
HUGS are priceless.

Take a step and volunteer - it may break your heart but I promise you it will change your world. It will make a difference in theirs.

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06/11/2020

Lots of people endure infant loss and for various reasons.
So not being able to have a child will then lead people to adoption.

As I sat inside a local church, the topic was constant on adoption.
They had a group that also volunteered at a local children’s home.

You know that feeling you get in your chest - a quick flutter like something is telling you
“Do it “

So I took the first step into becoming a volunteer with the group.

I had so loved doing this at a work event once.
But could I do this ?
Could I listen to the stories of these children now lost in the system ?

Well let’s just say -
What God calls you to do
He will walk you through !!

03/11/2020

November is National Adoption Awareness month
This is something that is extremely dear to me
As one of the beautiful things that came out of my story is how the loss of my baby girl, eventually led me into this world.
Although having one successful birth.
I lost 2 babies - so being pregnant was just not my thing.
However God had a much bigger plan for me.
Stay tuned for more info on this topic this month.

31/10/2020

As we close in on October
The bittersweet awareness continues in in our hearts and minds.
Never forgetting the small miracle we carried inside.
And always remembering there will be sunny skies and Gods promise of hope !
After my baby girl was born still my mom took me to the book store to buy a new bible, she said I was going to need it. She was right once again 😀
While there they had all kinds of things to buy and I noticed name cards with meanings.
When I located Kelsi’s
The verse could not be more fitting for the journey I was about to take.

”kelsi”

Feel free to post your baby’s name
They are real ! They will always be Loved !

30/10/2020

Each and every day we could be faced with a new battle to deal with.
And no matter how much you think you’re prepared there’s always things that come up that we’re just not ready for.
All families have issues to deal with and sometimes they’re not always easy to overcome.
There does however come a time that we need to learn to work together live together pray together and just let things be.
You’re never gonna repair years of scars in one weekend.
Just be still !
Know that he is GOD

30/10/2020

People grieve in many ways.
People also cope with things differently to help them overcome.
One of the things that helped me was collecting things people bought for me. So I had a collectors cabinet of things to store them in.
Over the years it became like a memorial,
Not only for me but my family as well.
This photo right here of the mother owl and baby is the very first gift given to me by a very special person that as well shared my pain.
Little did she know that this small gift meant so much to me.

Trust the grieving process. Cry, laugh get angry and get UP !
Do what helps you !

14/10/2020

Strength

Many days you wonder how to just get out of bed.
It’s hard to image a new reality each day.
Each day you get a little stronger.
Always try to find something good in each day.
Focus on the good of the day.
Try not to always replay the bad thoughts.
Clear your mind , reach deep within your soul and find your strength.

This is a picture of my baby girls monument that I want to share.
I hate going there because it’s a punch in the face all over again.

Pain is always real
Time always heals
God is ALWAYS good!

12/10/2020

Emotions -

When the Bible talks about do not lean on your own understanding it’s important to listen to that.
You see being emotional is a part of any grieving process.
Kinda feels like a roller coaster - one minute you can see the sun and the next day feel overwhelmed and angry.

And during this time you are not thinking clearly to make decisions on important things.

In this time is when you need to trust in God and lean on those around you for support.
God always has someone on your path in all journeys that will help carry you on those roller coaster rides 😘

10/10/2020

Purpose -
There are so many bible verses on purpose.
Hard to pick just one
Trusting and believing that he has a plan
And there is a purpose for our pain.
See past the hurt and have faith in each step you take. Lay your heavy heart in his hands

09/10/2020

One of my favorite pictures is this with the warrior on her knees
Some people don’t know how hard a battle can be.
Some people are given more punches in life than others for whatever reason
I didn’t choose this battle
I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone
But as I stood in the doctors office that day
After sobbing for what seemed eternity!
I heard a whisper as I looked out the window
“This will come to pass”
I took a deep breath and knew that I would not be alone but had to figure out how to take the next step. So my journey began ....


08/10/2020

My soul to keep

Everyone gets lost sometimes you know.
Trying to figure out which way to go.
Restless nights laying in your bed
Wrestling those demons in your head.
Realizing you have lost control of the situation your in.
Wondering where to begin.
Luckily this battle is not yours alone to fight.
Though all this darkness there is light.
Thankfully this demon don't control your mind.
You have the power to leave it all behind
God speaks; Rest easy dear child-breath deep
For your soul is mine to keep 😘

06/10/2020

HOPE -
It’s hard to have hope when your heart feels so shattered. It’s one day at a time
One step and one breath.
Never give up your NOT alone.

05/10/2020

Good morning happy Monday !
This time of year with the change of seasons brings a lot of emotions.
It’s ok to feel lost lonely and angry
But you can NOT camp out and live there.
Learn to find something positive in each day. * Just breathe *

04/10/2020

Being a part of this club is not what anyone plans. We all have a story and we all have a battle.
Percerption is key !
It’s not that - my little girl was stillborn
It’s - I was chosen to carry an angel !

03/10/2020

What a beautiful day outside. Leaves are falling and breeze is blowing.
Enjoy the little things. Let’s celebrate each day of this month thinking of all those angels we have.

02/10/2020

As we step into October of this crazy year. So much uncertainty in life.
We want to take this month to reach out to all the mommas and dads of these angel babies to just recognize these precious lives.
Reach out to someone you know that has carried this cross to just support them.

02/10/2020

October 1st marks the start of
Pregnany and infant loss support month.
All you earth mommas of angel babies -
Stand together and be thankful for the angel you carried.

21/01/2019

What a special celebration today is going on up there.
Miss you bunches 😘

21/01/2017

My soul to keep

Everyone gets lost sometimes you know.
Trying to figure out which way to go.
Restless nights laying in your bed
Wrestling those demons in your head.
Realizing you have lost control of the situation your in.
Wondering where to begin.
Luckily this battle is not yours alone to fight.
Though all this darkness there is light.
Thankfully this demon don't control your mind.
You have the power to leave it all behind
God speaks; Rest easy dear child-breath deep
For your soul is mine to keep 😘

21/01/2017

Jan. 21 2016

08/05/2016

For those who share in this loss today. Don't be consumed by grief. Be overcome with honor that you were chosen to be the mother of an angel.
Perception on things is the key ! There is always sunshine after the storm.

22/01/2016

Well what a wonderful experience and turn out last nights book signing was. I am so thankful for such support. I do hope that the book brings the inspiration that I tried to display in words. 💞

21/01/2016

Photos of Inspiration

15/01/2016

We have a book signing I am proud to say. We will be set up at
Coastal Coffee Roasters, 108 E 3rd N St, Summerville, January 21st 6pm
Stop in for a cup of coffee or dinner. Books will be for sale at a special price. Please remember, there are many people out there that have unfortunately walked in this path. Please feel free to share this page and PM any time.

15/01/2016

As the New Year begins, try to focus on the positive in life and overcome any negative thoughts from the past.

15/01/2016

Quotes and verses

28/11/2015

As the holidays approach us and seem unbearable some days... Rest in the thought that the Christmas in Heaven these Angels will have is far beyond the beauty we have ever seen !

02/11/2015

THANKS to all of you that have contacted me with encouraging thoughts in regards to my book. Please continue to share this page as there are so many in desperate need of encouragement during this journey.

02/11/2015

Angel Wings

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