We the Parents Podcast

28/01/2024

Research shows that children thrive under joint custody arrangements such as 50/50. Here are the top 10 reasons why shared parenting is important for child happiness after parents separate or divorce.

28/01/2024

27/01/2024

What would you do to change things? Comment below.

26/01/2024

It's going to take loving parents standing up, locking arms together, and saying "no more!" Our children need us.

26/01/2024

The entire child support system is a racket, a scam, and abusive. We all know it. The only ones pretending not to know it are those who profit from it.

26/01/2024

This new 4 days a month custody arrangement is working out great!!!
Said no father ever!!

By Thomas Fidler

25/01/2024

Don’t let set the narrative frame. For example, the , or ex says,“He refuses to with meeeee!!!” Your attorney should counter, “No, Crazy refuses to follow the . Clear custody orders make cooperative possible. Thus, the parent who won’t follow orders is the one refusing to co-parent.”

I've seen many client cases where judges, parenting coordinators, GALs, etc., adopt the language of the , or parent even when there's ample evidence disproving their lies. Don't forget what Joseph Goebbels had to say about propaganda from one psychopath to another: “Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it.”

25/01/2024

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24/01/2024

Most courts do not believe they are doing harm by severely limiting a child's access to a fit and loving parent. What do you think?

23/01/2024

Did this happen to you? Tell us in the comments.

23/01/2024

What are a , and ’s super powers? Throwing adult temper tantrums, saying mean things, pathological lying and then . That’s it. Why are you so afraid of them?

Obviously, if the , , is threatening to call the cops, make false allegations and take away the kids, these are legitimate fears. Before the kids, what made you vulnerable to an adult toddler/bully/liar? How and when did you come to believe it’s your job to emotionally regulate another adult and walk on eggshells?

23/01/2024

She's watching your page harder than she's watching your kids.

23/01/2024

A short documentary addressing the most pressing issue in America—THE FATHERLESS EPIDEMIC! While everyone attempts to solve ou...

23/01/2024

21/01/2024

And none of those things matter, because she's evil.

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21/01/2024

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20/01/2024

Many clients , and partners and exes are social media junkies. I've long thought social media is a playground for the personality disordered. Or to quote the character Moira Rose (Schitt's Creek) "an amusement park for clinical narcissists." These individuals often post "inspirational," quote, cliche, aphorism memes as loaded coded messages to whomever has incurred their narcissistic/borderline rage because they somehow offended them. These messages are also often about their false victim narratives.

For example: “If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” (attributed to Marilyn Monroe; if it wasn't her then unknown BPD/NPD woman)

: If you’re still together and this appears on her social media, she’s shaming and blaming you via meme code because you called her out on her toxic behavior.

If you’re divorced and it appears on her social media, it means she exposed her crazy to soulmate #148 and he ran for the hills.

Passive-aggressive much?

20/01/2024

19/01/2024

To a , or , feelings substitute for facts, or rather, become their "facts." As their feelings are intense yet shallow, they can shift rapidly. Thus, the "facts" of their stories change with their emotions. This is one reasons they can initially be such convincing, albeit bad liars. Bad as in inconsistent and unable to track their lies.

Point of clarification: Even if these individuals come to believe feelings based not facts, they’re still lies as far as I'm concerned. That some of them believe their lies and distortions just makes them more dangerous and, therefore, best to avoid.

Their lies are both highly emotionally charged accusations, or "I'm such an amazing person" tales, peppered with random details. (Think “My dog stepped on a bee.)

They're able to run these deceptions because many people think, "Who would lie about such things?" A , , or would. While these individuals can be perpetual fonts of bu****it, they can't keep track of all their lies. Especially as their feeling states change.

If you pay attention to what they spew over time, you'll catch the inconsistencies, contradictions, exaggerations and ever evolving details and embellishments. The new details occur because they have to up the ante in order to keep to get big emotional reactions from their audience. They then they alter their stories based on their audience's reactions. In other words, people are outraged, horrified, impressed, etc., by different things, so they change their story accordingly.

19/01/2024

No good man.

19/01/2024

Dear Attorneys,

Not calling out the opposing counsel’s and client’s lies, crazy stunts, willful acts of contempt and other BS begets more lies, crazy stunts, willful acts of contempt and other BS. How do you not understand this? Or is your “advocacy” only about generating fees for yourself?

gave a master class on how to dismantle by a in the - case. I believe the YouTube videos are still available.

First, do your homework. Read the documentation provided by your clients. Listen to audio/video recordings or reading the transcripts. Have a working familiarity of the timeline, history including texts, emails. social media posts, etc.

Second, track inconsistencies and contradictions made by a , , , litigant and other , false accusers and and flay them apart.

Third, if they cry during deposition or cross-examination, identify it accurately for the court. In the most compassionate way possible, express empathy for how difficult it can be when one’s lies are exposed.

Stop rolling over and advocate for your clients!

19/01/2024