10/06/2023
I was too sleepy this morning after having prepared my kids for school and went back to sleep at 6:30 a.m. Before I could even have enough of it , I heard commotion outside my house.
I tried my best to ignore it but it captured my attention when I heard a sound like " paa, paa!" And a fainted voice said ," wuui,stop hitting me, don't slap me." Before even I could think of waking up to check the what was happening, my sister had already flew out of her bed. I followed her. I found her standing watching the incident with the window wide open and she was laughing. I tried to pull her to close the window but she hold the window grills so tight saying, " I want to watch this live video."
I opened the door, asked her to go outside and watch it very well, she became hesitant.
My neighbor was fighting her wife, from the slaps she gave her, I became emotional. Having been a victim of GBV ( gender based violence) , I decided to separate them since the woman was hurting. Before I could do so, I had to think of how to separate them because they are both the age of my parents ,they are both around 40 years of age.
I went outside, stood near them called their names out and I pleaded with the husband to leave her wife. He obeyed and started telling me her faults. I listened to him keenly he was almost done talking when his wife interrupted, she said the husband is lying, l asked her to narrate her part, of which she did.
I realized both are right but there is a little bit of misunderstanding. The woman usually goes to the markets to sell some items to feed the family while the husband stays at home with one of their grandchild. I asked the woman the husband stays at home and she hurstles alone, her response was that, " my husband is too lazy," before she could add up something else, she almost received a hot slap from her husband but I stopped him by shouting at him no to slap her. He withheld his hand.
This all time all the neighborhood was watching the scene, I calmed them down, the wife was to go to the market since a bike man was waiting,I asked the husband to let her go hurstle, she left. The husband shouted to her that he was going to get out of the house. The woman just gave him a dumb ear.
I took my time to talk to the husband. He listened to my advice, he told me all that has been bothering his marriage. I tried my best to act as a counselor for relationships and marriages. As young as I am than them, I was able to offer a solution.
Later in the course of the day, another neighbor came crying, asked her why she was crying, she told me her husband has remarried and doesn't want to come home, I talked to her gave her a listening ear, she started laughing and we were able to crack jokes. She left feeling better, she thanked me for listening to her issues. She called me an hour ago that she managed to cook her supper and she ate for the first time since she has been starving for two days now. I was happy for her.
Now am here busy thinking of how to open an office and become a relationship and marriage counselor.😂.
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