10/03/2023
“Let go of people who only come to share grievances, problems, disastrous stories, fear and judgments of others. If someone is looking for a dumpster to leave their garbage, don't let it be your mind.” - Dalai Lama. “Be careful what you listen to, all the information that enters your head is stored in your subconscious, affecting the way you see the world.” - A. D. There are those who add to our energy and bring us incredible sensations, raising our vibration and attracting positive events into our lives. However, there are energy vampires who, in addition to sucking us in, leave nothing positive gifts, their mental, emotional and spiritual waste. Negative people who live complaining, victimizing themselves, talking about illnesses and sharing bad news and events, are true "energy vampires". These people drain the energy of the one who listens to them and most of the time they do it without realizing it. They are not bad people, they are people addicted to complaining, to only seeing the bad side of life and unconsciously feeding on other people's energy. Incredible as it may seem, there is a pleasure for these people in being like this. They feel good depositing their frustrations all the time on those who cross their path, because when they do, there is an exchange of energy that, unconsciously, brings relief and well-being. Thus, in order to preserve our mental health and our vibratory pattern, it is necessary to distinguish those who only complain and drain our energy from those who are going through a difficult time and need to vent. As for energy vampires, as the Dalai Lama said, “let them go”, stay away for the love of you. Trust me, they won't change if they don't want to. We can't help those who don't want help. As for those who are going through a difficult time, who need to vent and see you as a friendly shoulder or a way to alleviate their suffering through venting, get closer out of love. There are times when the best thing we can do for someone is to listen and donate a little bit of our energy. This energy exchange is beneficial and the donated energy will come back to us twice as much.