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An excerpt from our piece: "Roma breastfeeding culture is proof the rest of us live in a dystopia"🔗 Learn more about Rom...
06/11/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "Roma breastfeeding culture is proof the rest of us live in a dystopia"

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

Facing homelessness at the brink of winter, Vela didn’t plunge into despair. She threw a massive celebration because her...
05/11/2024

Facing homelessness at the brink of winter, Vela didn’t plunge into despair. She threw a massive celebration because her grandson was turning 9 months.

The restaurant she booked is in the Roma quarter. The preparations for the celebration: hair, make up, dressing up, took place in the crisis center where the majority of our tribe has been living since their homes were demolished. Vela spent 150 BGN (83 USD) to book a limo for 1 hour and its purpose was to drive her and her family from the crisis center to the restaurant.

The limo spent the majority of the hour waiting in front of the crisis center as Vela and the family were dancing to the drums of a Roma orchestra in a room indoors.

Adjacent to the crisis center is a police station. Several policemen walked up to the limo and took pictures and videos. Who knows what for. But for sure, if they thought they had “seen it all,” Vela showed them they were wrong.

🔗 Read the full piece at the link below.

https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/velas-grand-limo-ride-from-the-crisis-center

An excerpt from our piece: "Rice, milk, and sugar: The morning ritual of the biggest Roma holiday"🔗 Learn more about Rom...
30/10/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "Rice, milk, and sugar: The morning ritual of the biggest Roma holiday"

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

A very common saying in our tribe. It is so beautiful in its rhythm and simple wisdom that translating it makes it lose ...
29/10/2024

A very common saying in our tribe. It is so beautiful in its rhythm and simple wisdom that translating it makes it lose some of its magic.

The most literal translation would be, "God in front, and I'm behind".

But what is the meaning?

God leads the way. God clears the way. And, more importantly, God is with you at every step.

Why are people more likely to throw out big things after sunset?How does a magnet determine if a material is worth the e...
28/10/2024

Why are people more likely to throw out big things after sunset?

How does a magnet determine if a material is worth the effort of picking up?

How can you tell, with a single glance, in a split second, the make of something and its price?

How do you dismantle a huge broken thing into small intact parts of great value? How can you quadruple the value of a motor of a washing machine’s motor by breaking down to its components?

The reality is that this is an entire culture of recycling that runs on very rich and practical knowledge, on a big portfolio of skills, on significant physical strength and fitness, on knowledge of psychology and human nature, and on ancient hunter-gatherer instincts. It is hard, skilled labour that for Roma communities, provides a more reliable income than anything else, and for society in general, provides recycling in its purest form.

🔗 Read the full piece at the link below.
https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/turning-trash-into-treasure-what

An excerpt from our piece: "The Romani know they are beautiful"🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday li...
23/10/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "The Romani know they are beautiful"

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

This is a quote by Pepi Mustafov from our piece "The Romani know they are beautiful." You can find it at the link in our...
22/10/2024

This is a quote by Pepi Mustafov from our piece "The Romani know they are beautiful." You can find it at the link in our bio. We will also publish a snippet from it tomorrow. Today, however, we are using it in the context of street cleaning.

In this 2021 picture, you see Pepi in the middle, surrounded by his stepson Rasim and his nephew Tzetzi. They are taking a smoke break, by a wall, on the ground. Can you sense the confidence they exude? The Romani know they are beautiful, regardless of whether they are wearing golden chains, fancy clothes, and expensive hairstyles - or their street cleaning uniforms. Their sense of worth, dignity, and self-acceptance cannot be taken away.

The orange vests are a symbol of low status. Street cleaning is done exclusively by the Romani here in Bulgaria, so these vests are not associated only with the minimum wage job lowest on our social hierarchy but also with the Roma minority which is deeply despised in our racist society.

The orange vest means poverty. It means back-breaking and health-threatening work for ridiculously little money. It means abusive bosses, verbal and physical attacks from passers-by, and a society that doesn't look you in the eye and believes you are subhuman.

And yet, the orange vest doesn't take anything away from a Romani who puts it on. The Romani know who they are, regardless of what they wear.

“This is usually a dangerous section,” Pepi’s sister Todorka was telling Martina once over coffee, pointing to a small s...
21/10/2024

“This is usually a dangerous section,” Pepi’s sister Todorka was telling Martina once over coffee, pointing to a small street next to the busy boulevard. “It’s on the way to the high school nearby.”

What Todorka left unsaid here was that teenage boys often harass the Roma street cleaners. This is why the proximity of the high school was something to be wary of.

“One time,” Todorka burst into laughter. She was about to tell a funny story, “three boys attacked me. They started swearing at me first, I swore back, one of them slapped me, the others grabbed me by the jacket. But Tzetzi (her 20-year-old son) was sweeping just around the corner. He ran towards them waving the shovel and fought them off like flies.” Todorka was howling with laughter. “He hit one with the shovel, swung for the other, and before you know it, they had run away.”

For Martina, this wasn’t very funny. She asked Todorka about the boys and this kind of attack in general. “It happens all the time,” Todorka said. “But we’re usually all nearby so when one person gets attacked, the others run to help.”

And then they tell it like a funny story - how they fought away the attackers with brooms and shovels.

🔗 Read the full piece at the link below.

https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/the-hidden-dangers-of-street-cleaning

An excerpt from our piece: "The ancient Bharatiyas who live among us", written by historian Jhanvi Pinara  from India.🔗 ...
16/10/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "The ancient Bharatiyas who live among us", written by historian Jhanvi Pinara from India.

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

Why feed the horse and not the children? "A horse cannot stay hungry," Pepi explains. "Humans can." Horses are beloved, ...
16/10/2024

Why feed the horse and not the children? "A horse cannot stay hungry," Pepi explains. "Humans can." Horses are beloved, cherished, and honored in Roma culture because they are seen as brothers-in-arms, as intelligent, powerful beings that have blessed the Romani for centuries - by pulling the wagons that traveled the world and by pulling the carts that help them survive. Entire Roma tribes and communities are linked to (and named after) the art of raising, breeding, and taking care of horses. Roma songs and dances are dedicated to horses.

The Romani living in poverty are criticized for abusing their horses because they sometimes look malnourished and tired. In reality, if a horse looks hungry, then its owner is ten times hungrier. The Romani would always first feed the horse even if it is with their last and only money.

Pictured are Nicky and Rambo, married to sisters (and Pepi's nieces) Vela and Dancha. One time Nicky was hospitalized. We ran into Vela and tried to ask her how he was doing but she was in a rush - to feed Rino, their horse. After that, she was going to go to the hospital and check in on Nicky.

At their wedding, and then at their daughter's wedding, when Nicky asked the singer for blessings for his family, he listed out Vela, their four children, and Rino.

We don’t have it easy. We both work and raise our daughter by ourselves, with no outside help. “What would a woman in yo...
15/10/2024

We don’t have it easy. We both work and raise our daughter by ourselves, with no outside help.

“What would a woman in your tribe say,” Martina asked Pepi, “if I cried to her about how hard it is for me? Let’s take Dancha.” Dancha is one of Pepi’s nieces and one of the women in the tribe Martina has a close bond with. She has two toddlers of her own, and lives in social housing with no running water, no fridge, no washing machine, no wardrobe to put any clothes in, her husband with mounts of debt to the loan sharks. “What if I cry to her about how I’m exhausted and we have no help, and we both either work or take care of our daughter and have no time for ourselves? Will she have compassion?”

“Oh, yes,” Pepi was adamant. “She might even cry for you. For certain, she will offer to watch our daughter for a bit so you can have some time off.”

What makes the Romani laugh is not when non-Romani suffer, it’s when they apply their own low level of pain tolerance to the Roma reality.

Recently, we learned that a girl in the tribe was strangled - not to death. Martina had a very visceral reaction to that because going for the throat is an especially aggressive form of violence. This wasn’t even the “usual” form of violence against a Romani that we hear about.

All of this was a funny story that Pepi shared at a gathering recently. Not the strangulation. Martina’s reaction to hearing about it.

“But this is not like a slap or a punch,” Pepi relayed Martina’s words and people burst out laughing. Including the girl who was strangled. “My Bulgarian,” he added with affection, by which he meant “my gaji”, my “non-Romani.”

What was funny here was how alarmed and indignant Martina was to violence that is just part of life for the Romani. It was as if Martina was screaming: “FIRE! FIRE!” when lightning strikes during a storm.

How come the Romani have deep compassion for the suffering of others - even if, by comparison, it’s “smaller?"

🔗 Read the full piece at the link below.

https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/when-youve-seen-it-all-how-the-romani

An excerpt from our piece: "The ghetto is my safe space" (written by Martina Petkova in 2021, when she initially met our...
09/10/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "The ghetto is my safe space" (written by Martina Petkova in 2021, when she initially met our Roma tribe and a couple of months before she "married in.")

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

The biggest reward for our work on  is when a reader tells us something stayed with them. So thankful to David and to ev...
08/10/2024

The biggest reward for our work on is when a reader tells us something stayed with them. So thankful to David and to everyone who has joined us on this journey ❀

In a life full of adversity and struggle for survival, the Romani practice a very deep kind of wisdom. Poverty doesn’t m...
07/10/2024

In a life full of adversity and struggle for survival, the Romani practice a very deep kind of wisdom. Poverty doesn’t make them shrink like outsiders expect and even demand. It makes them grab onto moments of joy and beat the drums so loud that the sky can hear.

In the end, piles of cash swirl around for this wedding, that birthday, and on and on. To outsiders, the Romani do nothing but celebrate with money they don’t have.

Behind the curtains, the entire tribe foots the bill, gowns get swapped between cousins and sisters, cash is borrowed and later paid back, jewelry is borrowed and later returned.

Why?

So someone they love dearly can be celebrated as the royalty that they are in everyone’s heart.

Read the full piece at the link below.

https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/how-do-the-romani-afford-lavish-celebrations

An excerpt from our piece: "Beyond Borders: The beauty and wisdom of the Romani flag"🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, hi...
02/10/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "Beyond Borders: The beauty and wisdom of the Romani flag"

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

Most outsiders know that respect for the elders is a big part of Roma culture. It governs how they call each other, how ...
30/09/2024

Most outsiders know that respect for the elders is a big part of Roma culture. It governs how they call each other, how they speak to each other, how they make big collective decisions. If someone is even a little bit older, they are always called “uncle” or “aunt”, bate or kako (which translates to “big brother” and “big sister.”) Calling someone older only by name is a sign of great disrespect.

But what most outsiders don’t know about Roma culture, is that love and devotion of even greater intensity flow from the elders down to the young ones.

Love for the children in the family, in the tribe, in the community is universal. But for the Romani, it is more fierce. It is categorically unconditional - not only from the parents but from every single aunt, uncle, and cousin in the entire tribe.

We all love our children. But the Romani know something about loving a child that outsiders don’t.

🔗 Read the full piece at the link below.

https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/the-highest-honor-in-roma-culture

An excerpt from our piece: "I'll mourn you for 100 days" or how the Romani process grief🔗 Learn more about Roma culture,...
25/09/2024

An excerpt from our piece: "I'll mourn you for 100 days" or how the Romani process grief

🔗 Learn more about Roma culture, history, and everyday life by visiting www.theskyandearthknow.com

People in our tribe were amused to see their boss in handcuffs on the news, mostly because they were used to seeing fell...
24/09/2024

People in our tribe were amused to see their boss in handcuffs on the news, mostly because they were used to seeing fellow Romani in handcuffs and brutally punished for much smaller crimes. Our “favorite” example is one relative of Pepi’s who went to prison for snatching a lighter from a policeman.

Nobody in the tribe cares that Gaytanski pulled a 150,000,000 BGN scam. They almost expect it of him. Because “the Wolf has to eat.”

The real theft has been happening in their own pockets.

🔗 Read the full piece at the link below.

https://www.theskyandearthknow.com/p/bugattis-in-the-garage-roma-slaves-in-the-streets

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