24/01/2024
Wow, seener daw ako.
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Year 2019 nung pasimula palang ang Pandemic there is a girl I met on Facebook.
It all started when I launched one of my VA training and the girl asked for my help because she wanted to be a VA, eventually I fell for her.
I did everything I could to please her.
I taught her, lent her the ropes, and supported her.
Buy her gifts.
All sorts of things boys do, when they like someone.
Yeah, even though I know from my heart of hearts that I had a lesser chance to make her fall I still did it.
In other words, I've got friend zone.
Ahaha I know it hurts the s**t out of me.
Because after 8 years of failed relationships, this time I did not even pass the first base.
How hard could that be?
But yeah I moved on, and I accepted that this girl was not into me so I cut my losses and devoted myself to focusing on my stuff, I decided to move on.
And just a few days ago she messaged me.
"Kamusta?"
With that, I did not flinch.
I did not reply.
So hours after I saw her message she said.
"Wow, seener!"
Ahaha, chuckles.
Here she goes again…guilt trippin eh?
And I know why the girl is messaging me.
It's either she's going to ask for my help again to do errands for her (like find her a laptop, help her with her freelancing to dos, or listen to her negative office problems).
So I just decided to…nahhh, f*ck it.
Let her boyfriend help her with her problems.
They are supposed to help each other di ba?
Got each other back. For richer and for POORER?.
Kasi para sa akin, siya yung tipo ng taong i-memessage kalang pag may kailangan, kadalasan its either may ipapagawa sayo or mangungutang.
Mga taong walang ambag sa buhay mo, and then they call themselves "Friendship".
Well, the tables have turned already.
And to be honest, I don't have a grudge against her.
I just don't want her to enter my life again, let alone answer her messages kasi its not worth my time.
I already moved on with my life.
In fact, I'm doing good. Doing better. (Thanks to Yahweh)
Earning money while I'm asleep?
You bet.
So, ako na seener, ako na snob, ako na walang kwentang kaibigan this time.
Ibato nyo na lahat ng masasama at guilt tripping words nyo.
Because for me?
I just don't want to waste my valuable time anymore.
I don't want to sell myself to nonbuyers.
I already have my life in place and intact.
I just want to create more content, have more money, and help more people.
That's all I want to focus on.
Because that is something I can control.
Not friends with no benefits (chuckles).
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Chad Godoy
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