24/12/2019
~[27th September, 2019]~
🌹 🌾 **Some Things Are True As Believed Previously, But...**
~~[Matters Of Eros Love, Relationship/Courtship/Marriage/Family]~|~"Fight The Restoration Of Good Cultural Practices/Values, Family Values/Human Dignity"~~................🌹...............
As I journey in life, I continue seeing the reason why some things are still the way we originally see them or believe in them, irrespective of the bad trends of the time trying to change these things...
Sometimes, some elderly women who know me well will call me and say; son, you need a woman/wife for some certain reasons, (like the fact that I no longer have a mother (or parents) or a sister living in the house with us (me and my brothers), and I will reply; yes, it's true, but I want to prepare very well first, and some will say; get married, your doors can open courtesy of that; "a woman is a blessing from God," they do bring Luck, and I will like; thank you mama.
Meanwhile, I already have seen women that brought no Luck, instead problems upon problems, quarrels between brothers..., after all is it not the morally imbalanced women of this age they are talking about. ""The Shawarma/Bleaching Generation, The Boo, Bae, Mhiz...Generation."" What Do They Know Apart From Fashion & Studio Pictures?
Or Smart Phones For "WhatsApp/Facebook..." 'For The Female Teens, So That They Can Go Into Full Time Detrimental Discussions Of Love Or Love Chat With Their Male Counterparts & They Call It Love', Something That None Of Their Predecessors Ever Paid Full Attention To While At Their Level, (Because Such Was Sean As A Taboo For Under Age People, Just Courtesy Of Great Respect For Good Ordinances/Age/Morals Then...) And The Reason Why Today; Adolescents/Teens Lack Proper Knowledge, Fear/Respect... Of Course, They Already Know Even More Than What You Know As An Adult At The Age Of 10/12. "They Talk Boyfriend And Girlfriend At A Tender Age More Than Adults Who Are Very Much Due For Such Discussions, And Practice S*x Even At The Age Of 12" And Yet, They Are Living With Parents But Out Of Parental Guide... *And What Will They Do, When Already Their Parents Don't Care, After All, They Have Married, Had S*x And Now Have Children 🚸, So Anything Else...? God Help Us. *And These Children, Especially The Female Ones Are The People We Will Marry Some Day As Wives Right? They Are The Under 18 We Have Purposed To Marry When We Reach 25 or 30. '"I Fear.'" Meanwhile, the good/well trained ones still exist, irrespective of the obvious bad trends of the time against (Morals, Good Cultural Practices/Values, Family Values, Decency, Responsibility, Sensibility, Proper Knowledge/Wisdom) and which helps marriage. (Against the proper/good advancement of our recent times children (adolescents/teens), especially of that precious gender called woman (who have simple yet the most difficult task to do for a life time upon reaching the age of reasoning, especially in her 'marital Home'). I mean our recent times children who will later come to the level of getting married. *What have they learned that is a guarantee that they will have successful marriages, or that they will be a blessing to you; the man who is interested or intending to making one among them a wife? What is the guarantee that they will build their homes without...? If there is any guarantee, why then the higher rate of Marital problems in this our time unlike how it was yesteryears? And how can there be a guarantee, just as we already could see our adolescents/teens roaring like lions in the streets, from one hotel to the other, from one party to another, from one boy's house to another & seldom visit the church where "Fear Of God Can Be Infused, Respect For Morals Be Taught & Wisdom Learned...?"
*Some leaving their education at the secondary level and starting a full-time home prostitution. (sleeping on different beds/becoming home prostitutes at the comfort of their parents houses), and even threatening us; the parents. They do all sorts of degenerative/ungodly things & before us who says that we are parents, and against us/the community and the society at large).
Truly, in some homes today, children are the parents. Because, before us, they do as they like without being questioned, treated or followed up properly...
*Well, think it twice*
Be prepared to being a father or mother indeed, before ever venturing into marriage. Let it not happen to you unexpectedly. Avoid illicit s*x (fornication and sins in relation or in line with it), as to avoid blood shed (abortion) or as to avoid becoming a stupid father or mother who can't train up his/her children to be responsible, just because you yourself was never responsible during your own time, and as a result could not involve "decency/or apply responsible approaches" towards bringing up your children...
*Don't just be a man with "a dick or a woman with va**na" and so start bringing children into the world & losing parental strength to guide them through in the right ways, (the way of the Lord)... Or lacking the parental strength to training them well, and in respect/fear, good mentality/decent mindset...
If they grow above you at the tender age, or if they can't respect/fear you while they are still not adults, then you have lost...
Be it as it may, or irrespective of all the bad trends of the time, as I continue going through life, seeing couples, meeting friends, I came to understand that: 'The most dangerous barrier to anything is lack of fear of God, lies.../unfaithfulness in one's state of life.'
*Things Are Still The Way Nature Made Them, And Those Things That Are Good/Positive/Helpful Courtesy Of Our Respect And No Abuse Attitudes Towards Them As Our Good Cultures Demand Are Still That Way; 'Good/Positive/Helpful...' Look Into Some Good Families With Respect For God And Humanity, Or With Respect For Good/Godly Ordinances, You Will See Or Verify My Words... *A Good Woman Is Still A Blessing, Things Are Still The Way They Were, We Only Changed Them Courtesy Of Our Deviation From Good Ordinances (Lack Of Fear Of God/Respect For God & Human Dignity).
GOOD GIRLS ARE OUT THERE, JUST AS WE HAVE GOOD/ACTIVE PARENTS WHO ARE PROBABLY THEIR PARENTS.
"A Woman Is A Precious Gift 📦, A Blessing, But Not All Women." Some Are 'Precious Problems,' And Some Have Exchanged Being A Blessing With "Bleaching Creams/Being S*x Machines" & So Now Only Good/Valueable When It Comes To S*x.
Where Is Your Loftiness/dignified Worth/Value As A Woman? Are You A Blessing As You Are Now Or A Curse? Check Yourself.
~Ponder And Understand~And Change Your Bad Attitudes~
*From The Desk 💻 Of Sir Marytemple De-Eccentric (Marytemple_Modesty)
