The Nappy Harcissist

03/11/2025

Getting a 2nd chance, is definitely something that doesnt always happen...if it does for you, dont waste it...

30/10/2025

People truly need to understand, those standards aren't for other people...they're 100% for you...

30/10/2025

Its "part" of the process....

28/10/2025

Those trying times arent meant for just one person to suffer...either we take the hits together, or ill figure out how to dodge the shots alone...

27/10/2025

Dont fight to keep people in your life, that dont want to be there....

23/10/2025

Down and out....sure was
Too far gone.......sure was
Abandoned.........sure was
Counted out.......sure was

I hit the bottom, and then found a shovel and kept digging...
I was a victim and I held on to that crutch for a very long time...
It wasnt the physical, mental, or emotional part; it was all of it, at one time...

However, I fought my way up that ladder, and I made it out of that hole...

I was the one that allowed myself to get down there, and with God's help and a few of his angels, I made it out...

If anyone's ever faced a situation like that, and need some help or just an ear to listen, im here for you! Ill do whatever I possibly can, to b help get you out of that hole...

19/10/2025

18/10/2025

Stay consistent...

16/10/2025

Dont let their opinion, stop you from doing what you know, needs to be done...
Im guilty myself, of being let down and bothered, by someone else saying something negative about my life....

It use to combatted the wrong way, and now its not being drown out and its not a deciding factor on how im gonna act or feel...

As men, our craft or what we do for a living, is one of the big areas that someone elses opinion matters. Regardless of our skill level, all it takes is a comment from the right person, and it can have us rethinking what we're doing...

Unfortunately, as men, its normally a clapback brought on from our pride. But, if we can put our pride aside, we can sort out whether its needed constructive criticism or if its something thats meant to tear us down or get us off our paths...

What normally happens, is that just because someone questioned us, we change something about ourselves for the worst. All because of somebody elses thoughts and feelings...

We have to discern whether its something we need to ignore or if its something we need to concern ourselves with...

What we dont need, is to take offense, just because someone voiced their opinion. And we dont need to ignore what was said, without asking ourselves if theres any truth there...

The goal isnt to stay the same, its to continously get better, but that usually isnt the easy road...

But we dont have to make that trip even harder, by letting their opinion, set us back or slow us down...

15/10/2025

It doesn't matter what you've done or where you're at in life, you're never too far gone...

14/10/2025

Its sad, how true this really is!!!