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24/01/2024

You and me, an old farm house on 70 acres with a barn out back that was built in the early 1900's that I sling some hay and tend to the horses in every morning.

Around 6pm we have dinner together and dance to a classic country song that was written by George Strait.

After dinner we go sit on the balcony on a cool summer evening over looking lush green pastures with a couple horses drinking out of a cool flowing creek and I just so happen to glance over and I notice you reading a book and drinking some wine.

And at that very moment ..... I think to myself "how blessed I truly am to have someone like you enter my life so calmy and unexpectedly".

~ Cody Bret

08/01/2024

We unfortunately live in a generation that is highly skilled at allowing connections to fade away.

From the attention of social media and constant attraction to cell phones, makes the dating world that much more unamusing.

We think people are so easily replaceable and we are always looking for the next best thing within our mobile devices.

What alot of people dont understand .... is that you cannot replace the energy of someone who is genuine .... especially if they are putting in the consistent effort to be in your life on a daily basis.

Cherish these type of people, and appreciate what you have before it becomes what you had.

~ Cody Bret

22/12/2023

Social media is lying to you.

The dating pool is limited and there are not as many options as social media makes it out to be.

Good people are hard to find and people who genuinely love you ...... for being you, are extremely rare.

Take my advice and quit breaking hearts because you think you have "options".

~ Cody Bret

21/12/2023

You deserve someone who helps you heal from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

21/12/2023

If you can take the person I'm in a relationship with, please take them.

If you can ruin my friendships with a rumor, do me a favor and please ruin them.

If you can shake anything against me in my life, please do it.

I don't have the time and energy to fight for things that are easily persuaded.

If it doesn't bring me peace, fulfillment and love, I didn't have any room for it in my life to begin with.

~ Cody Bret

03/09/2023

When my life got real, it showed me who wasn't.

02/09/2023

I'm sorry to interrupt your scrolling, but I just wanted to give a shout out to all of the broken people that are pretending to be okay.

~ Cody Bret

02/09/2023

This generation unfortunately is making it so hard to find someone to actually pursue a future with.

They want to fornicate but don't want the feelings that come with it.

They want you to themselves but don't want the title that's associated with it.

I hate to say this but most people in this generation need to reach a specific maturity level before pursuing anyone in the dating world.

~ Cody Bret

01/09/2023

Relationships and Social Media.

Temptation is all over our phones these days and we have been programmed to “swipe left” because we believe there is always someone better.

The constant need to look elsewhere will leave people in a never ending circle of unhappiness with their significant other.

I honestly think the opposite gender is way to accessible in the 21st century to each other within our mobile devices and men and women talk way too freely where boundaries are crossed blurring the lines of inappropriateness.

So unfortunately the inappropriate conversations lead to affairs and they cheat on the one they supposedly love.

People need to take a step back, put their phones down and focus on what’s in front of them, because some people don’t realise how lucky they truly are, to have what they currently have in a relationship.

We should stop giving people the attention who don't deserve it and start focusing on the ones that do.

Do me a favor, and appreciate what you have before it becomes what you had.

~ Cody Bret

01/09/2023

Forget bars and parties....

I'll give you my address and let me prepare breakfast for you on a Saturday morning while we both sit out on the balcony overlooking the beautiful Arkansas mountains discussing our favorite childhood memories together.

~ Cody Bret

31/08/2023

I don't want a relationship.

I want a best friend.

Someone I can fall peacefully asleep with on the couch in the middle of a movie.

Someone I can laugh with until we cry tears of joy.

Someone I can build a future with and ultimately grow with.

Someone I can eat our favorite snacks with and talk about our fondest childhood memories.

Someone I can make love with and when I look in thier eyes I get a feeling that is nearly indescribable.

Someone I know so well that I can finish what they are going to say before they even say it.

Someone I can hold hands with and feel a connection so strong that I know nothing on the face of this earth can shake what we possess together.

Someone who I cannot wait to dream about every single night when I gently close my eyes.

Take my advice and wait for someone who's not only your bestfriend in a relationship but someone who you can trust with all your heart and soul.

~ Cody Bret

31/08/2023

At some point in your life ....

You have to realize that not everyone is interested in growth and becoming a better version of themselves.

They are not interested in healing or even changing at all.

Alot of these individuals are just always going to be okay with behaving the way they always have in the past, even if it’s harmful.

What you have to do .... is to accept this and remind yourself of your self-worth and that you are the person who gets to decide who you pour your time and energy into.

Take my advice ..... and accept people for who they are, & leave them where they belong.

~ Cody Bret

30/08/2023

Forget the talking stage.

Pack your bag and I'll let you throw a dart at the map and we can take the first flight out to a small little town that resembles a hall mark movie.

The morning after we arrive let's go to the local farmers market and pick out some of our favorite home grown fruits and vegetables.

After the market lets have brunch at a little hole in the wall diner that the locals brag about so much.

Then we can finish off the evening laying out on a hillside in the middle of nowhere telling each other our favorite childhood memories while looking into each others eyes and thinking to ourselves there's not anything I'd rather do in the entire world ..... than be in this exact moment.

~ Cody Bret

29/08/2023

Never cause your spouse to be a Detective.

There is nothing your spouse should not know about.

Always be open, transparent, reachable and accessible at all times.

Be where you said you would be.

If the unexpected happens as they sometimes do, call your spouse and keep them in the loop.

If you are planning on doing something you think your partner might be uncomfortable with, then dont do it.

If you have a friendship or relationship that your spouse should not know about, then you should not have that friendship or relationship.

If you have anything on your phone that you do not want your spouse to see, then you shouldn't have that thing on your phone in the first place.

If you receive calls or text messages that you do not want your spouse to hear or read then you shouldn't be receiving them and the numbers should be blocked from your phone.

There is no room for secrets in a relationship. Give your spouse open access to your entire life at all times.

Take my advice and always remember...

Transparency is the foundation on which deep intimacy is built.

~ Cody Bret

29/08/2023

The reason why so many relationships fail in this generation is because broken people are still trying to date.

Healing requires isolation and most people unfortunately haven't conquered the battle of being alone.

~ Cody Bret

28/08/2023

If I date you.

If I'm going to date you and we are going to be exclusive and I'm going to prioritize you in a significant number of ways, I have expectations of you.

This means you're not going to go out and get excessively drunk. You're not going to be entertaining people on social media by posting pictures of yourself to gain the wrong attention. You're not going to be keeping streaks on snapchat with people that like you.

I'm not going to give you my exclusivity if you voluntarily put yourself in those situations.

It's perfectly reasonable for someone to come to the table and say these particular things but unfortunately most people are afraid to say what they expect because they are afraid they will lose this person.

Let me tell you something .... if you lose someone that behaves like this and consistently disrespects you ..... you need to accept this person for who they are and leave them where they belong.

~ Cody Bret

28/08/2023

Sometimes you don't realize how terrible someone treated you until you're explaining it to someone else.

28/08/2023

Struggles for a Man.

One of the biggest struggles for a man in this generation is to understand how he can meet his partner's emotional needs.
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What alot of guys dont understand is that a man must practice the art of being fully present in her presence ..... emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually.

One of the reasons that we men struggle with this is that we learn through action, so sitting still and just listening without doing anything is quite difficult for us. ⁣⁣
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As men, we are solution focused and use our minds to understand things and then resolve them. We want to always fix it. ⁣⁣
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The problem with this ..... is that as soon as we begin to think of a solution, we are in our heads and we disconnect emotionally, we stop being emotionally present in her presence and we stop listening empathetically. ⁣⁣
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If something has happened to your partner that makes her feel scared, insecure, angry or sad, do not withdraw yourself because you do not want to feel emotions that might make you weak or uncomfortable, but embrace those feelings and share that experience with her. ⁣⁣
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Share her tears, comfort her, make energetic contact with her, so that she feels that you are with her now and that she does not have to feel alone.
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Then imagine that you pour your masculine energy into her with your touch, your eyes, your voice and your heart. ⁣⁣
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Imagine that it soothes and comforts her, that you provide inner peace by giving her your strength and confidence. ⁣⁣
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Imagine what your love will do for her in those moments. ⁣⁣
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Imagine the enormous confidence that you thereby build in your relationship. ⁣⁣
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Imagine knowing that you are her safe place that your presence is both her hiding place and her safe haven.

Take my advice and be the man she has dreamed of ever since she was a little girl and continue finding new ways to show her how much you truly love her with everyday that passes.

~ Cody Bret

27/08/2023

This is the wrong generation for old souls.

27/08/2023

Maybe it's just me ..... but instead of going out to a dinner and a movie on a Friday night....

I'd rather want to slow dance in the rain while deeply looking into someone's eyes ... knowing there's not a word in the english dictionary that can describe the feeling that I'm experiencing at that very moment.

~ Cody Bret

26/08/2023

Never do this.

Don't text them throughout the day when you're texting numerous others at the same time.

Don't take them out on a date when you plan on taking someone else out the following weekend.

Don't tell them .... they are on your mind all the time when you're using that same line numerous times throughout the day on different individuals.

Don't make them feel special when there's others who are getting the same treatment from you.

Don't make them promises that you know you will not be able to keep.

Don't make them believe you actually care about them when they are just another temporary conversion for you.

By doing these things.....

You create someone that will become emotionally damaged and will unfortunately question their own worth in future relationships.

So take my advice and remember.... never make someone fall for you if you don't intend on catching them.

~ Cody Bret

25/08/2023

If you're not in my life anymore, it's not because I think you're a bad person.

I don't see people as "good or bad".

I look at certain individuals as safe or unsafe.

Because I'm not available for people I have to protect myself from.

~ Cody Bret

25/08/2023

She loves hard because she knows how bad it hurts to be unloved and walked out on.

24/08/2023

She's not looking for a perfect man, she's looking for someone who tries.

24/08/2023

Never force a relationship.

Sometimes it's better to move on, than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work to begin with.

You can't force someone to genuinely care about you.

You can't force someone to be faithful to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need
them to be.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without.

You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be
careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it's hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that's the person you could spend an eternity with, and you start to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be.

And no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn't work out in your previous relationships.

One thing I have learned throughout the years, is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who's not chasing you.

~ Cody Bret

22/08/2023

I should've known this years ago.

Not everyone is going to like you.

Not everyone is going to acknowledge your presence.

Always be kind to others, no matter the situation.

If you constantly feel like youre walking on eggshells around them, they’re not your type of people.

You get to choose the people you surround yourself with, so choose the ones who are choosing you back.

Never make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

Someone's effort is their direct reflection of interest in you.

Never punish the one in front of you for the mistakes made by the one behind you.

Always listen to the person you're in a relationship with.

Remember ... having high standards keep you from having low quality experiences.

If your absence doesn't affect them then your presence never mattered.

The longer you entertain what's not meant for you, the longer you postpone what is.

Always do for others and never expect anything in return.

Friendship is one of the most important things you can invest in, in life. Make the time.

Love didn't hurt you. Someone who doesn't know how to love hurt you. Don't confuse the two.

When your light starts exposing other people's shadows, they might try to convince you that your radiance is toxic, especially if they lack emotional maturity. Love yourself and keep shining.

Take my advice and always remember.... to surround yourself with people who truly want the best for you and your mental health.

Because your circle ....... it matters.

~ Cody Bret

22/08/2023

Learn her.

Take some time and learn what words, acts, expressions, gifts, and physical touches are the most meaningful and desired by your partner.

In other words, show your appreciation and love to your partner in the ways that mean the most to them.

When you are in her presence, your little acts of kindness become extremely important.

For example, don't give her flowers on Valentine's Day because that is what you're "supposed" to do ....... Give her flowers on a Wednesday because you thought of her on your way home from work.

Grab some blankets and pillows from the house and take her out on a hillside and watch the stars with her in the back of a pick up truck with the two of you looking into each others eyes and having in depth conversations under the moonlight.

Or get up at 8am and meet her at a local diner on a Saturday morning and talk about her life goals over some homemade pancakes.

Little things like this will always help your partner feel known, valued, and loved.

Take my advice and take care of her, because life doesn't bless you with a good woman twice.

~ Cody Bret

21/08/2023

The wrong person.

Most of us throughout the years have experienced an abusive and narcissistic relationship at some point in time.

The fighting. The pain.
The screaming. The threats.
The guiltripping. The gaslighting.
The manipulations. The emotional abuse.
The trauma. The affairs and let's not forget the physical abuse.

You called it love at one time, but the person you were in a relationship with made you believe you’re being delusional.

They convinced you into thinking you were the problem and that it was your fault why the relationship failed.

Then you begged for them to stay.

You would sit around and text them over and over and call them multiple times on end, but they never would respond.

You unfortunately had to throw away your dignity because you’d rather lose yourself than lose someone you thought you loved.

You cried countless nights while trying to fall asleep, but there’s nothing else you could do to change what happened.

You were emotionally damaged and they could have cared less.

I know how it felt because I’ve been there as well.

What you need to realize is that this pain you're experiencing in not permanent.

You never did anything wrong for wanting to be treated right.

The fact of the matter is, they were not meant for you.

Don’t blame yourself for loving deeper than the pain they unfortunately gave you.

You have a beautiful soul and you're worth more than you could ever imagine and that will never change even after everything you’ve been through.

Take my advice and remember... if you're giving your all to someone and it's not enough, you're giving it to the wrong person.

~ Cody Bret

21/08/2023

Maybe it's just me but can we make breakfast dates a thing? .......

Let's meet up at 9am at Cracker Barrel on a Saturday morning and talk about your life goals over some homemade pancakes.

~ Cody Bret

20/08/2023

I hope your heart heals from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

~ Cody Bret

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