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The story. I’m a mom of three who has spent so much of my time as a mother drowning in the hard, worrying about what I’m...
26/11/2023

The story. I’m a mom of three who has spent so much of my time as a mother drowning in the hard, worrying about what I’m going to do with the rest of my life, navigating the information overload and societal demands, and quite simply, spinning.

It wasn’t until recently when I really started praying and self reflecting on this that I realized I’m literally smack dab in the exact place I waited my entire life to be. A wife, a mother, all the things. I just couldn’t see it, be all in on it, truly feel it, through all the hard.

Oftentimes I found myself thinking that if it could just dig my way out of this hard and into something else, I would feel better. When in reality what I needed to do was focus on the now. With gratitude, but more importantly, grace for myself.

He led me to this exact place. I’m here for a reason. And his a plan is continuing to work in me every day, even if I can’t see it.

Now I’m not here to tell you that motherhood shouldn’t feel hard, because it will. But it’s also so beautiful if you open your eyes to it. So what I want you to hear is that it’s ok to just stop and breathe. To allow yourself to be in this moment, completely and unapologetically, the “right now” you. To give yourself grace in those times when guilt strikes. To remove any unnecessary pressure you have on yourself, surrender and trust. To hold tight, mama. Because it’s going to pass you by, and you don’t want to miss it.

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Let me start by saying please don’t follow me if you’re looking for full time DIY content, you’ll be disappointed 😜Howev...
07/03/2023

Let me start by saying please don’t follow me if you’re looking for full time DIY content, you’ll be disappointed 😜However, if you like a good before and after mixed into the crazy juggle of daily mom life, you’re in the right place!

This is what fuels me as a mom in the grind.
Do you have a thing? If you don’t, let me encourage you to find something that brings you joy.

This bathroom took months to finish (and I still need a rug), that’s just the reality of life for me.
But the satisfaction that comes with completing a project, even a simple one like this, is so 👌💪. Everyone, even you (especially you) busy moms deserve to feel this once in a while!

So find something they fuels you. Get a workout in, build something cool, finish a book, take a trip. Make it happen, for you!

Our kids are only little once, but we only have this phase of our life once too, so find something for you ❤️❤️

Now as far as this project went, I simply painted the cabinets and walls, refinished the mirror frame, swapped the bulbs and window treatments, added a command hook for towels then accessorized 💥


Try this if your kids are out of whack!Between sickness season and now mid winter break from school, we’ve had a lot of ...
22/02/2023

Try this if your kids are out of whack!Between sickness season and now mid winter break from school, we’ve had a lot of together time. As a result, my kids have been at each other’s throats. And the attitudes…😩

So I did what any parent in their right mind would do, I took away all screen time😵‍💫😜.

Now before anyone gets on me for using screen time as “punishment” this wasn’t so much the intent. The intent was to spend more time together so we can relearn how to simply BE together.

Also, I know it looks different in every house so be reminded, this is a completely judgment free zone here!

This is just what worked for us…

In ours house we don’t do screen time during the school week. I was so over the “can we have screen time when we get home” the moment I’d pick them up… or the constant questions around “maybe…” so that was the end of that 🙅‍♀️

However, we are definitely more laxed on the weekends and during breaks, where slow mornings are spent in front of the tv, and the toddler’s nap time means screen time so mom can catch up on life. But something has just been OFF in this house, and we needed a reset.

So I cut the cord.

Day two and I woke up them playing UNO together completely on their own.

Removing any question in their minds of if and when they can sit and veg has forced them to rely on each other. To figure 👏 it 👏 out 👏.

In the last two days I have heard them apologize to each other, compliment each other, help each other, work through squabbles on their own, but best of all, they have played together. They have relied on each other for entertainment. And they have figured it out.

It’s been a beautiful thing.

So if your house is in a rut, try an unplug. I know the idea of it seems daunting when you just need a minute, but I’ve had minutes. I’ve made my kids do what we did when we were kids and no one is worse for it!!

And hang in there, every day is a new day ❤️

Have you tried this? Did it work for you?


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