Eliza ibarra

26/12/2023

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF
(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
(2) Stop begging.
(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.
(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.
(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
(12) Respect your time.
(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
(15) Be scarce sometimes.
(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.
(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts are enough. If they value you they will call you back.
(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

27/10/2023

Be that Man

Be that man who can GROOM his wife, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and otherwise. Not DOOM her...✍️

Be that man who will wipe away the tears from his wife's face, not the man who puts the tears there.

Be there to give her a shoulder to lean on
Be there to be her friend, lover, husband, father, partner and priest.

Be that man who pays attention to his wife.
Who knows and understands his wife.

Be that Man who pays attention to the tiniest details about the woman he married.

Be that Man who knows the colors of his wife's eyes, the shape of her lips, the number of pimples on her face, even to the length of the stretch marks on her thighs.

A Man who knows the minutest detail about his wife, physically, emotionally, and otherwise.

Be that Man who knows his wife's favorite
Color, shoe size, pant size, bra size, cloth size

Be that Man who baths his Wife.

Be that Man who offers to give his wife a full body massage so she can sleep well rested when she comes from work tired.

Be that Man who buys clothes for his Wife.

Be that Man who carries his wife along in everything he does, no secrets.

Be that Man who will fight anyone who wants to fight his wife,

Be that Man who PRAYS and PLAYS with his wife. Don't be a Prayer Man who doesn't Play and don't be a Player Man who cannot Pray.

Be that Man who makes marriage a fulfilling journey for the Woman he marries. Be that Man.

14/08/2023

13/08/2023

SHE IS NOT SLEEPING 😴🌙✨
Her eyes are closed, but she is not.
Her arm's is in the wrong position, it hurts!
But it doesn't move, because the baby is comfortable like this!
She's tired, she closes her eyes and listens to her baby's every breath.
Every night she will do the same position,
Uncomfortable, strange, but it should be like that.
Does not move to not waking up the baby.
Always staying alert 🧠
Mommy's night are just the other half of the day! ☺️
Love the mommies out there 😊

13/08/2023

BEAUTIFUL STORY 🥰❤️❤️

My wife was sleeping next to me... and all of a sudden I got a Facebook notification, and a woman asked me to add her. So I added her.

I accepted the friend request and sent a message asking, "Do we know each other?"
She replied: "I heard you got married but I still love you." 😧

She was a friend from the past. She looked very beautiful in the picture.

I closed the chat and looked at my wife, she was sleeping soundly after her exhausting day of work.

Looking at her, I was thinking about how she feels so safe that she can sleep so comfortably in a completely new home with me.

She is far from her parents' house, where she spent 24 hours surrounded by her family. When she was upset or sad, her mother was there so she could cry in her lap. Her sister or brother would tell jokes and make her laugh. Her father would come home and bring her everything she liked and still, she placed so much trust in me.

All these thoughts came to mind, so I picked up the phone and pressed "BLOCK".

I turned to her and slept next to her.

I am a man, not a child. I have sworn to be faithful to her and so it will be. I will fight forever to be a man who doesn't cheat on his wife and tear a family apart...

May God bless all faithful men. ..

11/07/2023

Evidence That Proves AFRICA is The Land of Origin
Wonderful Natural Structure From Malawi & Ethiopia (Horn Africa)

08/07/2023

NO FINISHING LINE

• Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job.

• Someone became a CEO at 25, and died at 50.

• While another became a CEO at 50, and lived to 90 years.

• Someone is still single, while someone from his school group has become grandfather.

• Obama retired at 55 & Trump started at 70.

• Everyone in this world works based on their time zone.

• People around you might seem ahead of you & some might seem to be behind you.

• But everyone is running their own race, in their own time.

• Do not envy them.

• They are in their time zone, and you are in yours.

So, relax.

You're not late.
You're not early.
You are very much on time, and will achieve your desired goals for Life(Be Encouraged).