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07/09/2023

LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, is the SECRET to HAPPINESS.

06/09/2023

What is the psychology of FAKE LOVE?
TRUE LOVE makes SACRIFICES; FAKE LOVE is only a CONCERN IN ITSELF. True love is SELFLESS. Though it doesn't neglect itself, it is ready to MAKE BIG SACRIFICES just to make someone truly happy. On the other hand, FAKE LOVE IS SELFISH, as it only cares for ITSELF. 💔

05/09/2023

What is the LESSON OF A FAILED RELATIONSHIP?

FAILED RELATIONSHIPS teach us the importance of setting boundaries and expressing our needs and expectations clearly. They remind us to PRIORITIZE our own well-being and ensure COMPATIBILITY with our partners.

04/09/2023

WHAT PSYCHOLOGY SAYS ABOUT FAKE FRIENDS?
"Since a fake friend is not invested in your well-being, they are more likely to be hurtful, for example, by disrespecting your boundaries," Leeds says. Whether they are simply nasty to you or show blatant disrespect for your boundaries and needs, this shows they don't really care about you.

04/09/2023

Be FAITHFUL in small things because it is in them that your STRENGTH lies.

26/08/2023

A CONTENTED HEART is a THANKFUL HEART, learning to recognize and express appreciation FOR THE BLESSINGS OF GOD.

25/08/2023

It’s that FAITH that pleases GOD. Do you want to please God with your life? Then God will put you in CIRCUMSTANCES where YOU CANNOT SEE THE OUTCOME, you cannot see the REASON, it makes no sense. YOU JUST HAVE TO TRUST.

24/08/2023

Contented heart says, "I recognize that even in the midst of these PAINFUL, DIFFICULT CIRCUMSTANCES there is a GOD who is still GOOD. HE is still SOVEREIGN. He is STILL IN CONTROL.

23/08/2023

DISCONTENTMENT and MURMURING lead to DISCOURAGEMENT, to DEPRESSION, to DESPAIR.
When we murmur it not only affects US, but it POISIONS those AROUND US.

22/08/2023

A contented heart is a God-centered heart, a heart that is focused on God’s goodness, His faithfulness, and His love.

21/08/2023

Discontentment makes us IRRASTIONAL.
It makes us not think clearly.
When we have a discontented heart, we forget about God’s past PROVISION.

20/08/2023

Things to REMEMBER when life seems too HARD

20/08/2023

Complaining is a serious heart condition. When I complain, I’m really saying I reject God’s choices and God’s authority and God’s right to rule over my life.

19/08/2023

If you are not living your DREAMS, you are living your FEARS!

02/12/2022

This saying has been swimming in my head for a while now.. Realizing that we need kindness now more than ever.

The need to always be right causes pain, suffering, unnecessary stress and can even ruin so many relationships. I know this because I used to obsess about proving a point, being right and making sure I always have the last say. 😩😅

What has pandemic makes us all see is that in the end, none of the trivial stuff matters. Ultimately, it is in the way we treat others and how we make them feel that is of much greater importance.

We ALWAYS have a choice. And I choose being kind over being right any day 💕

02/12/2022

may we be reminded that the first step of healing is truly loving and accepting everything about ourselves. Choosing to do the inner work and facing our shadows so that we can finally shine our light. Prioritizing our own needs instead of always thinking of others first. Having the courage to say “no” to things that break our hearts and spirits and cause damage to our mental health.

Mental health issues arise when we unconsciously allow ourselves to be caught up in this external world’s rat race and do not take the time to slow down and purposefully connect to our internal universe. Once we intentionally take a pause to look within and connect to our souls, we will see and feel that there is really nothing to worry about. Everything is okay. We can rest in the knowing that God will always be with us and that He will bring us through it all.

Close your eyes, breathe and feel within your heart how you are so much more than your name, job, status or wealth. Don’t allow the devil to trick you into thinking that you need to do or be more. God already made you perfect just the way you are. Why do you worry?

02/12/2022

Loving ourselves means not allowing anyone to use us for their personal needs while we completely forget about our own. This is what it means to set healthy boundaries for ourselves. Especially in our culture today, we are always expected to fulfill other people’s desires before ours. And whenever we try to do something nice for ourselves or even just think about what we want or need, we end up feeling guilty and undeserving of blessings. 😓

Enough is enough. We need to learn how to prioritize our needs, set boundaries and protect our energy so that we can make sure that nothing or no one will be able to disturb our inner peace. 🙏🏼

02/12/2022

02/12/2022

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02/12/2022

We can't dwell on the past. We can't worry about the future, because that is unnecessary stress, and that is waste of ENERGY. LIFE is HERE. LIFE is NOW. We have to stay PRESENT. and that is how we dear with all the TRIALS and TRIBULATIONS of this world when you can learn and train to stay in the present moment. Because when you are PRESENT with life, life becomes so much more VIBRANT so much more COLORFUL. So cry if you need to in this present moment if you're sad, be with that sadness don't DENY it.

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- MAXEN M

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