23/10/2025
Thoughtful Thursday: Finding Coaches
Raven is just so excited to work that she can barely contain herself. She's fast, smart and sassy. Her concept of being a 22lb puppy in a large world means nothing to her. She thinks she can do it all!
As I was watching her try to jump onto a platform that Flash (who is significantly taller than her) did, it got me thinking about coaching and playing at a level higher than you think you can. I have several coaches and friends who continually ask me questions that make me think and hold me accountable, and push me to level up. These are not all the same person. I have been taking stock of who I have in my circle that I consider mentors/coaches/peers and realized that each of them plays a valuable part in my continued growth.
They ask me questions that requires me to be accountable or expand my thinking. They check in on how my training is going and we problem solve challenges. They also call me out when I am adding something to my plate or have let something go to the wayside. Finding a circle of people who will speak truth to you is important. It also requires a level of trust that they have your best interests at heart.
We do this for our dogs. A question I ask a lot of people is are you a coach or a cheerleader for your dog? My answer it, as usual, it depends.
For puppies, I am a cheerleader a lot. I want them to think they are 10 feet tall and bullet proof. That whatever I set in front of them or ask them to do they can accomplish. Maybe not with ease, but they can do because I see their potential and I want them to get there. As they get a little older, I move more into the realm of coach. I still want them to succeed, but sometimes failure is a very important component of learning. If done correctly it can create more grit and try. (Think of that variable schedule of reinforcement or a slot machine).
I am striving to be the best coach for my dogs and my students! Tell me about a time where you went from either cheerleader to coach or vice versa!
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