23/05/2020
Are you DATING or you are DYING?
Is it RelationSHIP or RelationSH*T?
DATING is for MEN not for BOYS.
Truth be told..
Right knowledge will always terminate wrong act. Biblically it is written "Know the truth and the truth shall make you free" (Jhn 8:32) The truth is not funny, but it is sore.
I am meticulous about my writings here, I am not writing from a standpoint of ignorance maybe not personal experience, but by virtue, teaching, research and experience from others.
Do you know dating has destroyed a lot of great destinies. Do you know dating can drain/ruin your youthful strength from pursuing your dreams and even the things of God. Dating has turn so many great destinies into great destitute, some gave up their dreams for a man/woman who isn't their spouse yet, oh what a great lost to those destinies that were tie to that shoulder. If your relationship is draining you, not supporting you kindly walk out.
BE SINCERE TO YOURSELF.
Are you dating or you're dying?
Do you prefer being beaten or being Queenly treated? Do you find its difficult to let go because you think you maynot find someone good again, anyways you need to hear this, there is someone for everybody, there are thousands of good people out there so stop trying to build a castle that the foundation is already Broken. Just be in your space.
If he/she is always about himself/herself this is a thousand reasons to let go.
If you have to prove ur love to him/her by giving your virginity, kindly walk out, forget about it, it is s**t. Get this, Love doesn't take away virtue it add values.
If you s*x him because he promise to marry you, just forget it you've missed out already. I've seen alot of ladies cried over this, the problem is, you didn't know when to let go, you didn't know when to walk out,you didn't even know it was over already, you just keep holding on when he/she has already let go for long.
Dating or Relationship is not a guarantee for marriage, he can date you for 10yrs and still not marry you. The move of men are seasonal, they are move by what they see in a particular season.
Dating, Marriage and Relationship is a combinational effort of two people, anyone who is not ready to pull up, standup, is free to walk out. Be guided.
Don't ruin your life for this things, discover your purpose chase your dreams, and your dream spouse will come. More Grace to make the right choice.
Kevin U. Moses. .