21/11/2021
Earlier this week, we released our holiday episode about having a trauma-informed holiday season. On that show, Christie said that she would share some affirmations that could be used to help frame your focus and care for yourself during this complicated time of the year.
Here is the list that she created for our listeners but we invite you to add your own holiday affirmations in the comments.
Holiday Affirmations:
I will celebrate my progress when I am confronted by memories of the past.
I will not hide my healing.
I will seek out spaces that I feel safe to be my full and authentic self.
I am not defined by the mistakes of my past or the future expectations of others.
I will value the work that I have done to get sober and I will seek to use healthier ways to cope with my emotions, stress, and memories.
Scorecards are a heavy load to carry, I will lay my down.
I will respond and not react when I am triggered or provoked.
It is okay to walk away and create space for perspective and processing.
I will leave room for restoration and healing in relationships.
I will search for the celebration each day.
I will be grounded in the reality of the future and not the reminders of the past.
I will not shrink myself to fit into spaces where I am not fully accepted.
I am a beautiful, bright light and I will not shade my shine.
I will gravitate to those who make me feel safe, welcomed, and loved.
I chose to face forward this holiday season.
I will look and listen for moments of meaning to be created and shared with others.
I will value myself more than others' opinions of me.
I have people in my life who see me and love me for who I am.
If you have not had a chance to listen to this important episode, you can do so at this link or by subscribing to our podcast on your favorite app: https://www.wcwdpodcast.com/1737155/9558976-episode-15-having-a-trauma-informed-holiday-season
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