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It’s just not going to work & why am I even spending time doing it? These are the thoughts of MANY starting out.The trut...
09/04/2024

It’s just not going to work & why am I even spending time doing it? These are the thoughts of MANY starting out.

The truth is that most of us start the businesses and just never finish. Probably 99% of businesses that started FAIL. Not because the ideas are stupid but because it’s HARD to keep going.

It’s hard to believe that one day it’s going to work when you don’t see progress. It’s hard to not get trapped in the biggest trap of all: perfectionism. It’s hard to kick your own a$$ when nobody’s watching. It’s hard to believe in yourself when there’s still so much left to prove. But it’s even harder to have a dream and see it slowly die.

If you’re starting out, you’ll have negative thoughts. Sometimes you don’t even know you’re having them they just creep onto you in the procrastination mask.

It’s easy for others to say: just do it. It’s not easy to be the one that’s trying and failing and trying and failing. Again and again and again.

But here’s what you could do and here’s what I’m gonna do. Instead of focusing on numbers & success, I give myself a promise that I won’t stop until I make a 100 videos. And even if just one of those videos succeed, I’ll make 100 more.

Maybe for you it’s creating reels or making handbags. Either way, find that little piece of motivation and push yourself. Because motivation comes from DOING, even when it’s your passion. Not the other way around.

Let me know in the comments what’s your 100x goal gonna be ☺️ Let’s support each other 💪

Today was a really tough day. I went to an intense dancing class and it was extremely difficult to quiet the critical vo...
14/10/2023

Today was a really tough day. I went to an intense dancing class and it was extremely difficult to quiet the critical voice.

The first part was great & then during the second part I just couldn’t stop thinking how:

▪️I don’t belong here;
▪️I’m making so many mistakes;
▪️Everyone’s so much better;
▪️I’ll never be good enough.

But I am sure I’m not alone with thoughts like these. I’m sure that at least once in your life you have also been challenged & felt like you’ll never get where you want to be. How your goals are too ambitions. How it’s not for you.

I couldn’t snap out of this mindset but I still have time & tomorrow is a new day and a new dance class. So one of the things I’ll do is write more rational thoughts to the ones before.

▪️I don’t belong here;
✔️If I didn’t belong, they wouldn’t have let me to participate in this class. I do belong here.

▪️I’m making so many mistakes;
✔️I am learning something new and you always need to be bad at first, that’s the only way to challenge yourself.

▪️Everyone’s so much better;
✔️There’s people in that class that has more practical experience than me and that’s okay.

▪️I’ll never be good enough.
✔️If I don’t quit and push through, one day I’ll be good enough. I am good enough as a person already. I just need to keep going and keep challenging myself and my skills.

What do you do to snap out of your negative thoughts? 💭

Today was a really tough day. I went to an intense dancing class and it was extremely difficult to quiet the critical vo...
14/10/2023

Today was a really tough day. I went to an intense dancing class and it was extremely difficult to quiet the critical voice.

The first part was great & then during the second part I just couldn’t stop thinking how:

▪️I don’t belong here;
▪️I’m making so many mistakes;
▪️Everyone’s so much better;
▪️I’ll never be good enough.

But I am sure I’m not alone with thoughts like these. I’m sure that at least once in your life you have also been challenged & felt like you’ll never get where you want to be. How your goals are too ambitions. How it’s not for you.

I couldn’t snap out of this mindset but I still have time & tomorrow is a new day and a new dance class. So one of the things I’ll do is write more rational thoughts to the ones before.

▪️I don’t belong here;
✔️If I didn’t belong, they wouldn’t have let me to participate in this class. I do belong here.

▪️I’m making so many mistakes;
✔️I am learning something new and you always need to be bad at first, that’s the only way to challenge yourself.

▪️Everyone’s so much better;
✔️There’s people in that class that has more practical experience than me and that’s okay.

▪️I’ll never be good enough.
✔️If I don’t quit and push through, one day I’ll be good enough. I am good enough as a person already. I just need to keep going and keep challenging myself and my skills.

What do you do to snap out of your negative thoughts? 💭

If someone told me 6 months ago that I’ll move back to my hometown by choice, I’d have said they’re crazy.But life happe...
11/09/2023

If someone told me 6 months ago that I’ll move back to my hometown by choice, I’d have said they’re crazy.

But life happens. & sometimes when you need healing, you need the people and places around you that have known you for the majority of your life.

It’s crazy how this decision was more scary to me than moving abroad. It doesn’t sound as cool as moving to Spain. Or Italy. Or even Poland.

But I know that if I kept moving I’d just keep distracting myself from my pain. I’d have so many other things to take care of. New friends to make. New routines. Taxes.

It took me a month to create a somewhat routine in my home country. It happened naturally.

I got my gym coach that I love. I have my dancing classes. I got my first apartment where I can finally create youtube videos in peace.

I give myself a year because that’s how long my rent contract lasts & honestly it feels like it’s gonna be eternity.

But I know that after this year I’ll come back better and stronger. Or at least I hope so.

Even if this is a mistake, it’s my mistake. For the first time in a very long time, I made this decision without being influenced by anyone.

As someone who loves living abroad, it’s a weird choice and I don’t know how an 80 year old me would feel about it.

But I know and I FEEL what mu 30 year old is feeling. And I know what the little me is feeling. It’s time to know that I can take care of me.

Sometimes the things that make you happy will surprise you. We all think that happiness has to be some crazy thing you a...
10/09/2023

Sometimes the things that make you happy will surprise you. We all think that happiness has to be some crazy thing you achieve, postcard beautiful place you go or insane amount of money.

But the truth is that even on tough days, you can find little pieces of joy.

7 FREE Digital Planners that are WORTH trying 🔥 Digital planner world can feel overwhelming, there are so many different...
16/05/2023

7 FREE Digital Planners that are WORTH trying 🔥 Digital planner world can feel overwhelming, there are so many different choices.

But the truth is that before you try it on your own tablet, there's no other real way for you to know what kind of digital planners you will like the most.

Find out which kind of digital planners work for you the best! Dated, undated, horizontal, vertical? There's a digital planner for everyone ❤️

Link to all 7 digital planners in the comments 🎉

I thought that I hated journaling 👀But actually I think I just felt overwhelmed by a blank page. I didn't see the point ...
19/04/2023

I thought that I hated journaling 👀

But actually I think I just felt overwhelmed by a blank page. I didn't see the point of it. But then I came across CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) & one of the exercises was to compare your negative thoughts to the rational ones.

And now that I've tried lots of things (e.g. gratitude, 5 minute journaling, body scan, emotional dump and even art therapy) all I can say is that I am excited for my mornings and my journaling sessions.

What about you, do you like journaling? ❤️

Indirizzo

Venice

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