Acts of a Happy Matrimony

18/09/2023

Don't jeopardize your marriage and risk losing your family just to enjoy a temporary thrill with another man or woman. No one, regardless of how beautiful or handsome they are, is worth losing your marriage and family for. Commit yourself to a life of holiness, purity, and fidelity. Keep your zippers, hips, and lips in your marriage, and reserve yourself purely for your spouse and him or her alone. "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the s*xually immoral." (Hebrews 13:4) -

26/08/2023

“Why is Monday far away from Friday yet Friday is close to Monday”

I am referring to real life situations whereby someone you love doesn't love you, and the one who loves you you don't feel the same about them.

14/08/2023

God is not finished with your Marriage. Great Marriages are not built overnight. Two unique people who grew up in different places, under different circumstances and from different parents cannot suddenly become one flesh. God said, "The two shall become one flesh." He didn't say "The two shall suddenly become one flesh." Give God time to perfect the union. Give the Holy Spirit time to transform you and your spouse. The oneness of Marriage is God's work and expected to be respected to last a lifetime.

13/07/2023

Spending money on a woman is not always the how to spoil her. Giving her attention, quality time, being there Emotionally, Physically and Mentally
Money comes and go but how you make her feel is forever and memorable.

10/07/2023

S*x, Love and Virginity

A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them s*x. Some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Let me be very specific here, Virginity may not be the real reason why guys go away. Yes no doubt there are several guys who want just s*xual in*******se and if they don't get it they walk away.

The problem may not be the virginity or the s*xual demands but the story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the Wise and the Foolish were virgins, the other
five were not allowed to see the Bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity no but because they were foolish. And they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL
and here the EXTRA OIL is the Character.

Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any Relationship, while many brag about their virginity and that's all they have to offer to a man.
Aside from your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man?
-Can you support him spiritually?
-Can you support him physically?
-How about mentally?
All you do is demanding money for bags shoes clothes and outing making him to spend unnecessarily.

Have you ever sat him down to help him plan his future? Because his future is your future.
Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in? how many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?
Rather than jumping from one club to another.

And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the Wedding but EXTRA OIL continues...
Yes... Nobody is perfect...
We all have our past and bad sides...

BUT...try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life.
Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man.
Build a man of your choice and to your taste and stop looking for a ready made husband.
Stop forcing yourself on that rich dude that you didn't work with to achieve what he has.
And hear the story of your life from him one day.

04/06/2023

Husbands and Wives, Whatever you do in your Marriage you must do it together with each other's acknowledgement. If you do it separately it will separate you. Marriage is Teamwork.

14/05/2023

Do Not Overcrowd Your Marriage. You can have as many people as you want in your family and on your wedding day, but not in your marriage. It only takes God, husband, and wife to make marriage work. Strive to keep everyone else out of your marriage, including your parents, siblings, friends, children, and exes.

Elder G Ulaya

11/05/2023

Safeguard your Marriage, honour and respect your spouse by setting clear boundaries and cutting all inappropriate friendships and intimate ties with people of the opposite s*x.

Elder G Ulaya

30/04/2023

A successful marriage does not require that you have a lot of money, a big house, a perfect spouse, or a big expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable and empty marriage. A successful marriage requires selfless and sacrificial love, transparency, honesty, undying commitment, and Jesus at the center of it all.

24/04/2023

Where there's Love there's happiness and freedom to express yourself.

19/04/2023

12/04/2023

The Best relationship is when yesterday's argument will not stop today's communication.

03/03/2023

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01/03/2023

Marriage is a scared institution, don't enter if you cannot forgive or with your Exlover in mind.

Elder G Ulaya.

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16/02/2023

'True love never ends'.

12/02/2023

Love is not valued with your financial possession or your status, but it's what comes from your Heart.

Elder G. Ulaya