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Happiness By The Mile Shelby and Dakota are creating YouTube videos on trucking industry hurdles and adventures.
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New video out now. Link in bio 📺🕯️🕯️✒️📜📚🗝️🪟🪑🚪🪑🪟🗝️📚📜✒️🕯️🕯️Truly excited to share a little bit of America that had once be...
12/07/2024

New video out now. Link in bio 📺

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Truly excited to share a little bit of America that had once been bustling with people and has now since come to crumble in the hands of time.

I cannot explain the amount of awe and joy I experience uncovering the treasures once deeply loved and left behind by those who have long left this earthly life.

True adventure is taking the road less traveled. Don’t be afraid of the unknown. It might surprise you in the most spectacular way.

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Shot by: Gregory

New video out
06/04/2024

New video out

Another day in the life of an over the road trucker. We had some terrible trailer issues that were only nuisance problems but took so many hours out of my ru...

Truck stops offer many essential services for drivers, but don’t hesitate to spend a night away from the usual route to ...
13/02/2024

Truck stops offer many essential services for drivers, but don’t hesitate to spend a night away from the usual route to enjoy a morning of fresh mountain air.

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It’s important to remember that this job isn’t just about going from one shipper to the next, or playing frogger between truck stops. There is so much beauty in between; you just need to find it!..
Dakota and I absolutely love waking up to beautiful landscapes outside the window. There are plenty of places to walk and explore, and it’s also beneficial for your mental health. Sometimes, it’s a much-needed break from the rat race and a chance to slow down and unwind...
To my dismay, Dakota knows how to operate the windows, so she never misses a chance to catch a breath of fresh air! 😂..
Keep on truckin’ and don’t forget to appreciate the small joys in life! 🤗

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Photo by Gregory

I think it’s time we openly discuss what it’s really like to create memories like this, especially when all you have is ...
07/02/2024

I think it’s time we openly discuss what it’s really like to create memories like this, especially when all you have is a big truck.

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Social media often portrays idealism, ease, and beauty, but it rarely shows the physical and mental challenges that come with creating a magical experience like this...
Now, let’s take a peek behind the scenes together 🤗 I don’t have much video footage from this trip, but I can vividly remember that cold November morning in 2021, as if it were yesterday...
After dropping off my set of trailers at the Seattle FedEx hub, I had the following day free due to the reduced freight movement during the holidays in 2021...
Snoqualmie Falls was only a 30-minute drive from the hub...
Before departing, I conducted thorough research, checking truck restrictions and using Google Maps to find a parking spot within walking distance. I only had a bobtail, how hard could this be?..
The roads into the mountains were narrow. I was constantly scanning for truck restricting signs and low bridges. I was white knuckling that steering wheel like it was my first day on Donner Pass.

With my heart pounding and a knot in my stomach, I eventually made my way up those winding mountain roads to a small parking lot with a steep curve that I doubted I could manage with the light load on my drives. After almost tipping over and spinning my drive tires, I successfully entered the lot...
I parked the truck and took some of the deepest breaths of my life. Then, with a smile, I turned to my passenger at the time and said, “Well, we made it.” We both laughed and jumped out of the truck.

Without taking risks and simply going for it without any assurance, I would have never witnessed one of the most beautiful waterfalls in my life and dined at a picturesque restaurant with a view of the falls...
The entire experience was like a page out of a storybook, a memory I will cherish forever in my mind.

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Photo by Gregory

Deep breath in...Large exhale...Deep breath in...Scream forcefully...Now that’s better. 🥰🌲🌲🌳🌿🪨🌾🩵🩵🩵🌾🪨🌿🌳🌲🌲Welcome back to ...
04/02/2024

Deep breath in...

Large exhale...

Deep breath in...

Scream forcefully.
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Now that’s better. 🥰

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Welcome back to your fun and light-hearted trucking reality show. 🤗
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Some days can be really rough, but most days are actually really good. Don’t mind the girl screaming in the background. 😅



Although the good outweighs the bad, I don’t want to ignore the less desirable parts.
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Since my new YouTube video release, with all the great and supportive comments, I have decided that talking about how I manage this job and my own personal anxieties is going to be one of my priorities going forward.
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There are so many different things I do to manage my stress and hardships I face in the industry, and I’ve also discovered some really awesome ways to help my own physical and mental wellness.



There is so much goodness I have hidden just for myself in the past, but I’m so excited to share it with you now.



Let’s get to truckin’. 💛🤗

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Photo by Gregory



02/02/2024

PSA: At no point and time will there ever be a second account on any platform. If you see another one or get a random friend request from a second account it is not associated with Happiness by the Mile in any way shape or form. Please block and report said account.

Late at night, we sit idle, waiting for the clock to roll over and begin again.🌟🌙✨💤💤⭐️⭐️✨💫✨⭐️⭐️💤💤✨🌙🌟Inside every truck a...
01/02/2024

Late at night, we sit idle, waiting for the clock to roll over and begin again.

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Inside every truck at the truck stop, there is a driver missing home. The days blur together, and we often lose track of time. “How long have I been gone?”..
Many might be shocked to learn that a driver can spend several months on the road without reprieve...
Sacrifices like these are normal. They are just part of the job. Trucking takes more than just your time; it requires giving a large part of yourself...
If you’re only in the industry for the money, you’ll be sorely disappointed, especially with today’s rates. Making such sacrifices worthwhile goes beyond a paycheck...
I see you, drivers. There’s a challenging road ahead, but we are not alone. Just look around.

Find your reason to keep trucking.

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Photo by Gregory

Dakota is excited…. I know, you can’t see it. Look harder!🐾🖤🐺🐺🐺🐾📺📺📺🐾🐺🐺🐺🖤🐾New YouTube video on Friday 3:00 PM EST…We both...
31/01/2024

Dakota is excited…. I know, you can’t see it.
Look harder!

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New YouTube video on Friday 3:00 PM EST

We both hope to see you there. Grab some heckin’ snacks because it’s a long one.

Our entry into the YouTube world has been a long time coming, and we’ve prepared and planned this out.

Comment video snack ideas if you read this far. 😋

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Photo by Gregory

I have been taking my time coming back to the world of social media, but that doesn’t mean my life has come to a halt be...
29/01/2024

I have been taking my time coming back to the world of social media, but that doesn’t mean my life has come to a halt behind the scenes.

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I’ve been trucking on the daily and still enjoying many adventures along the way. During my time off, I have learned a great deal, not only about myself but also about this incredible planet we call home...
I feel like the protagonist in an adventure novel, always on the go, encountering new people, scaling mountains, and sifting desert sands...
Every adventure is full of opportunity and wonder. Focus on the details. Look more closely at that tiny plant fighting the odds and springing up through the cracks in the pavement. Walk that extra hundred yards to see what is down the next street block.

Make memories. Don’t just go through the motions. Be the author of your own incredible story. Fill it with light and excitement. Find reasons to enjoy every day.

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Photo by Gregory

An honest and personal message to my companion:🐺🐾🖤❤️‍🩹🐾🐾🐺🐺🐺🐾🐾❤️‍🩹🖤🐾🐺You have seen me at my absolute worst. You have watc...
23/01/2024

An honest and personal message to my companion:

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You have seen me at my absolute worst. You have watched me hit rock bottom, over and over again...
Many times I’ve felt so lost, with nothing left to give. Many times I’d rather just get off this ride. It seems everything eventually falls apart, and everyone leaves.....
But you are right here. Stoic and strong...
Unwavering, you stand beside me, committed and loyal. When I’m screaming, crying, and shaking, you are so still...
You are a rock in this chaotic stream, and you let me hold onto you...
We brace for calmer waters. Eventually, we will begin to walk again. Onwards, stride for stride...
An unspoken pact.

We just go…

Together.

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Photo by Gregory



It’s not too late to change your mind.

Dirty truck. Fluffy pup. The snow never fails to cheer this pup up. The excitement and energy exuded by this girl can be...
20/01/2024

Dirty truck. Fluffy pup. The snow never fails to cheer this pup up. The excitement and energy exuded by this girl can be felt on so many levels.

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In the winter time parking on these docks that aren’t plowed poses many challenges for us, but all Dakota sees is snow.

Moving our tandems with a lack of traction can make this a bit of a circus act. Today I managed to find a more bare spot in the snow and was able to move them without chaining. In other instances I’ll chain at least one tandem tire to help grip the ground.

“Tandems” in this case is referring to the tires on my trailer that have an ability to slide to different positions on the trailer.

We need to move tandems at certain customers in order to provide safety and stability for those unloading (so the trailer doesn’t tip down towards them every time they drop a forklift in and out), OR in this case to help match the dock height.

Either way this is always an interesting problem to try and solve in these conditions, but I’m always in a good mood about it thanks to Dakota keeping spirits high.

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Photo taken by yours truly

There is a lot of snow in the western US right now. I know there are always a lot of new drivers and several drivers afr...
18/01/2024

There is a lot of snow in the western US right now. I know there are always a lot of new drivers and several drivers afraid of the snow out here.
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Give yourself more time to travel and please learn to chain. You may never want to chain and that’s okay, but you may run into a situation where you have no choice. It’s better to be prepared. Look into for chains (NOT SPONSORED, just obsessed) ⛓️

Remember that heavier loads are better in the snow. If you are nervous or light and drive slow try to pull off every once in a while if you have a conga line 💃🏼🕺🏽of vehicles behind you. You’ll avoid road rage and drivers passing you in less than optimal conditions.

When you stop roll your tires slowly in the snow to cool them down before settling in for the night. This way you don’t melt yourself into a hole. 🕳️

AND most importantly make yourself a snowman on the side of the road for others to pass by and enjoy. I hope he brought many smiles to travelers. 🧳
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Photo by Gregory

We are all living in the present moment, not knowing if we have any more time beyond what we are experiencing right now....
15/01/2024

We are all living in the present moment, not knowing if we have any more time beyond what we are experiencing right now. I shudder at the cliché, but the future is never promised.

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I find it unwise to ignore the fact that our time here is limited. We only have the sand that already exists in our hourglass, and this sand will continue to fall regardless of our inattention to it.

Maybe this is a call to be more mindful. Time will pass us by whether we take advantage of it or not.

There is no “right time”. There is only the time we make. The time we set aside, the time we take.

There are so many missed opportunities in the paths not taken. Choose to take that dusty trail and see where it leads. You may be pleasantly surprised at the waterfall waiting for you at the end.

Take a chance. Take a break from the routine. Take all the opportunities you can on the paths you usually pass up. It may just change your life in the best unexpected ways.

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Shot by Gregory

Sometimes I marvel at how lucky I am to share a part of my life with you. You are the most annoying, yet the most enjoya...
13/01/2024

Sometimes I marvel at how lucky I am to share a part of my life with you. You are the most annoying, yet the most enjoyable co-pilot I’ve ever had.

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There are countless days when I question my sanity because of you. You not only drive me crazy, but you also join me in my madness. I know that if I start sprinting in circles around the truck, you’ll excitedly do it with me no questions asked.

I’m aware that time is passing, and your hair is turning a little grey, and you are no longer as likely to jump in the truck without asking for help. However, you still look at me with the same glimmer in your eyes as when we embarked on this journey many years ago.

I know you’ll continue truckin’ along with me for as long as I allow you, and I’m endlessly grateful for your friendship.

Here’s to more years of adventure and impromptu dance parties in the truck. I know you’re the only one who won’t judge my dance moves.

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Shot by my Gregory 💛



It’s events like these that make me wonder where has the trucker code gone? Just a general where-with-all to know to slo...
11/01/2024

It’s events like these that make me wonder where has the trucker code gone? Just a general where-with-all to know to slow down before passing an accident scene. I had many trucks passing this after it just occurred at 60+ mph. 🚛💨❄️
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I’m appalled at the general lack of awareness this community is experiencing. I was lucky enough to have been able to not only protect the scene with my vehicle, but also create a buffer so that no other vehicles would barrel into the wreckage.

I was eventually instructed by law enforcement to create a barrier across the entire road after they arrived to stop traffic completely.

A truckers hazards have multiple meanings, but it all boils down to “CAUTION” 🚧

A CB is helpful here, but not all drivers have them. AND not all that have them turn them on. Keep your head on a swivel and don’t be complacent. Our freight needs to arrive on time and intact, but our respect for others and the road should come before that.
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Just my two cents. Take it or leave it and truck on.

Shot by yours truly 📸

Winter is here. Time to strap up. The work doesn’t stop. We push on. Together we brave the snow and ice. If you are out ...
08/01/2024

Winter is here. Time to strap up. The work doesn’t stop. We push on. Together we brave the snow and ice. If you are out here with me, I see you. But listen, here is my game plan:
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If you pass another driver in the snow covered lane let’s try not to go Mock 2. It makes it more likely for you to lose control and blinds other drivers with your snow drift.

Distance is ASTRONOMICALLY important. Stay out of my bubble and I’ll stay out of yours. If I lose control I don’t want to take you with me, and vice versa. We can wink at each other from afar 😉

All of our equipment is different. Some of us can handle the loss of traction better than others, and we need to be mindful that not everyone has the same experience or tools. Let’s be kind, patient, and helpful to other drivers. Mostly just stay away from each other. Like, please. 😂

Slow and steady wins the race. Trust me you don’t need to find ways to test your skills, Mother Nature will graciously do it for you, and I’m here for it.

Good luck, and let the winter truckin’ games begin!
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Shot by Taylor 📸

I rarely share my “out of the truck” experiences. There is so much I covet when it comes to my personal space and privac...
04/01/2024

I rarely share my “out of the truck” experiences. There is so much I covet when it comes to my personal space and privacy.

I’m taking a chance sharing with you a piece of me I have managed to hide from the public eye for quite sometime.

Much of my time outside of the truck is very useful when it comes to coping with the mental struggles that come with such a high paced, relentless, isolating job like trucking.

These pictures capture 3 separate occasions I’ve visited this particular secret stop. I use this spot to not only escape trucking, but also the shackles in my mind. It’s rarely trafficked and perfectly hidden close to the road side, making for an easy escape.

Allowing yourself to take a break from not only the cab of the truck, but the busy sounds of the road, people, as well as other extraneous noises that are pervasive across truck stops is beyond beneficial.

There is something I find so soothing in the middle of the desert so far away from the hussle and bustle. It is okay to need reminding that you deserve peace. You deserve to relax. You deserve relief from the pressure.

Find your escape what ever it is, and where ever it may be. Do forget to care for yourself. You cannot serve anyone else if you don’t first turn inward.

Stay strong, and be safe. Truck on.

The most incredible nights you can experience are the ones spent in the middle of the desert, far from light pollution a...
01/01/2024

The most incredible nights you can experience are the ones spent in the middle of the desert, far from light pollution and a clear sky. 🌌

A clear dark sky is one of the most beautiful soul, body, and mind experiences I’ve had. I’ve laid so many nights outside my truck in the desert sand staring up at the sky.

Are we alone out here or do our loved ones look down at us through the darkness of the night? Is there other worlds out there? The possibilities exist but the mystery persists.

It is humbling to lay under such a large infinite sky with so much mystery and possibility. All I can do is lay still and appreciate that I may never know the answers to my questions. But it is striking a chord in my souls nonetheless.

There are so many wonders, and so many adventures. Trucking is my vessel on this never ending sea of wonders, and I will continue sailing my vessel, rough seas or calm waters. I will sail.

There is nothing better than getting front row seats to the fuel island on a rainy day just waiting for the opportunity ...
20/12/2023

There is nothing better than getting front row seats to the fuel island on a rainy day just waiting for the opportunity to spot a beautiful beast like this roll through.

No words. Just absolutely stunning.

Truck:

There is so much involved with keeping a truck in show quality state like this one, and I know the rain definitely puts a damper on their day because the rain just means it’s time for another truck wash.

To all those that take pride in your rigs like this I know you spend a lot of the little spare time you have to relax just working to keep renewing the shine and keeping away the water spots. I see you and I see your hard work. You are an inspiration to the industry.

The trucking show never stops. You are the few and the proud. The epitome of our industry. You are the stars of our show. ⭐️

Momma said you were greeted with open arms tonight. Not sure if I believe in heaven, but I believe in her.  I will look ...
15/11/2023

Momma said you were greeted with open arms tonight. Not sure if I believe in heaven, but I believe in her.

I will look for you in the stars.

With all my love 🖤

EDIT: Dakota is fine and helping me though this, I lost a close family member last night.

There is something incredibly sad about watching the sun set on a part of your life. There is nothing you can do but slo...
21/08/2023

There is something incredibly sad about watching the sun set on a part of your life. There is nothing you can do but slowly watch it fade to black.
But there is hope in that darkness. The sun will meet us again, in time.
We just need to brave the darkness for a little while.
We are all fighting our own battles. My heart goes out to you and yours. 🖤
Be brave and keep pushing on. You are wanted here.

Dakota and I are still traveling through the desert 🏜️🌻I’ve always loved how the scenery changes so quickly from Phoenix...
18/08/2023

Dakota and I are still traveling through the desert 🏜️🌻
I’ve always loved how the scenery changes so quickly from Phoenix to Flagstaff.
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Our service has been less than great where we park at night. Videos are still on their way. For now we will post here to update. 📸
We are out and rolling around. 🚛💨
P.S. I love these flowers.
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Taking a walk down some less traveled roads in the desert is one of our favorite things to do. 🌵🌾💛Do yourself a favor an...
16/08/2023

Taking a walk down some less traveled roads in the desert is one of our favorite things to do. 🌵🌾💛
Do yourself a favor and GET OUT of the heckin’ truck! 🐾😊
Wishing you all well. We are working on our videos in between loads. Sorry for the wait time. It’s coming 🙃 📺

Sometimes it’s a mess to get Blitzen out from his hiding spot, especially when he has a trailer. Luckily not this time. ...
28/07/2023

Sometimes it’s a mess to get Blitzen out from his hiding spot, especially when he has a trailer. Luckily not this time.

Dirt roads in Florida not only can be really small but they turn into something else when it rains. Ever been muddin’ in a big truck? 😅

26/07/2023

So much has happened but we are glad to be back out doing what we love. I don't think I could have kept going without the incredible support of my HBTM family.

Many of you don't even know, but rereading old comments and reviews you've taken the time to put on the HBTM social platforms, has filled me with so much love and gratitude.

I can't wait to share the rest of my journey alongside you.

25/07/2023

It's about time! I've been looking forward to getting back out on the road. There is so much to catch you guys up on, but for now, we are just getting back in the swing of things. See you soon. 😊

https://youtu.be/Ja8NwqzwbzM
15/01/2023

https://youtu.be/Ja8NwqzwbzM

The previous night Donner Pass was closed to all truck traffic. So I found a nice place to sleep in one of the PetSmart store docks for the night. (with perm...

Dakota and I often like to just stay still and take in what is around us. The abandoned mining town of Belleville NV has...
13/01/2023

Dakota and I often like to just stay still and take in what is around us. The abandoned mining town of Belleville NV hasn't had residents since around 1920. The exact date is unknown. https://youtu.be/kcuKEGSZI-E

Taking in bits of history like this around the country is one of my most favorite things to do. Not only that, exploring an abandoned town that is so far away from any civilization is so incredibly humbling when you find yourself alone our there in the rubble the silence is so loud.

This keeps me grounded and reminds me how much I don't recognize myself in the fast pace world I often subject myself to. Taking time to truly feel what it's like to be alone is so awakening.

Don't forget the unique existence YOU give to this world.

Have you ever heard of Belleville, NV? It is a ghost town right off Nevada state road 360. Dakota and I had some time to...
13/01/2023

Have you ever heard of Belleville, NV? It is a ghost town right off Nevada state road 360. Dakota and I had some time to kill and we just happened to pull off at the right spot.

We took the opportunity to not only explore but also film our adventure. If you've ever been curious about Belleville, NV we posted a video of our experience today on YouTube.
https://youtu.be/kcuKEGSZI-E

Stay safe and keep truckin'

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