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Passionate about empowering individuals and couples to build enriching, lasting lives, I'm a certified Relationship Coach dedicated to guiding you towards creating your own legacy of love and fulfillment

Heartfelt Thanks to My Referral Network! 💖Your efforts in referring clients to my matchmaking services are deeply apprec...
05/01/2024

Heartfelt Thanks to My Referral Network! 💖

Your efforts in referring clients to my matchmaking services are deeply appreciated. I’m touched by your support and the trust you place in my work. To make your referrals even more effective, here’s a brief overview of the matchmaking services I offer:

1. Private Luxury Matchmaking: This Top Tier service, priced in the five-figure range (in pounds), is my specialty. Here’s what it entails:

‱ Exclusively for male clientele.

‱ Global search for partner handled exclusively by my team.

‱ Comprehensive interviews and detailed global background checks on all potential matches.

‱ Concierge Dating Services: Experience bespoke date planning and organization, meticulously tailored to create unique and unforgettable moments. Our personalized approach ensures each date is a special, one-of-a-kind experience.

‱ Inclusive of 6-12 months of coaching and therapy for both people with weekly follow up.

‱ Highly Limited slots per year to ensure quality and personalized attention.

* All you do is relax and we present your ideal partner to you.

2. LoveQuest Live - Inclusive Online Matchmaking in response to the growing interest from my community, I’ve launched LoveQuest Live, a budget-friendly, digital matchmaking platform for male and female clients:

‱ Speed Matchmaking (£25): A two-hour video event where you can have one-on-one conversations with multiple singles.
‱ Post-Based Search: Currently free. Send us your profile, and we’ll feature it on our social media handles. Note: A fee will be introduced shortly.)
‱ Coming Soon - Facebook Live Video Matchmaking: An exciting, interactive way to connect.

For Lovequest, You are responsible for your due diligence and planning. You can choose to contact me for expert coaching for a fee.

With these offerings, I’m now equipped to cater to diverse matchmaking needs, ensuring that everyone has the opportunity to find love.

18/12/2023

When people recommend you and it doesn’t work, keep calm. No need throwing tantrums because the person they introduced said No to you.

Another fruitful relationship may emerge from that connection. It maybe business or still love.

I recommended one lady that her profile and background was screaming Amazing Personality - Amazing Personality.

After the first meeting, it didn’t work out. The man confirmed my observations that she is a very good person but the logistics of long distance won’t work.

I knew a correct man with an amazing personality too that was searching who didn’t mind long distance. I didn’t want to miss this lady. I quickly introduced them. The man was wowed at her personality. He didn’t waste time in starting something. More solid plans on the way.

I wish you will see this from the back stage like I do, you will stop get heartbroken or pained when a connection doesn’t work.

14/12/2023

Have you ever found yourself expressing yourself honestly and the other person just gets really upset and focuses on how you said it instead of what they did. This probably leaves you wondering, ‘What just happened?’

The reason COULD be your communication style.

Understanding the fine line between being verbally caustic and being assertive is key in all forms of relationships - from dating to marriage and even in the workplace.

Being caustic is like pouring acid on a conversation. It means expressing your thoughts and feeling in a way that is either judgemental or hurtful and makes the other person feel really bad about themselves. It also leaves emotional scars. And it could be that you were just being honest.
Imagine saying to your partner or Co-worker, ‘You’re always so selfish, just thinking about yourself!’ This doesn’t just hurt the other person; it can irreparably damage the bond you share.

On the flip side, being assertive is like a healing balm. It’s expressing your needs and feelings honestly but in a way that’s respectful and open. Instead of the earlier example, saying, ‘I feel overlooked when my needs aren’t considered in our decisions,’ can open doors to understanding without leaving wounds.

In my coaching, I’ve seen beautiful results when clients shift from caustic to assertive communication. Their relationships improve. Do you recall a time when changing your words or tone changed the course of a conversation? Share your experiences below!

And if you’re eager to dive deeper into assertive communication, join my next workshop or follow me and share for regular insights. Communication is powerful - let’s use it to build bridges, not burn them!

15/11/2023

If you are currently thinking of leaving your marriage because of frustration, this is for you.

You may even believe that you have worked themselves before marriage and made the best choice of a partner but now everything is going upside down.

You are probably feeling guilty and a little bit like a failure because after all your preparation , it’s not working.

The thing is we that we tend to think that once we have worked on ourselves or gotten the best partners we will never have problems. However, the irony of marriage is that many times, our brain tends to pick people that will trigger things in us and then get us upset.

Relationships have a way of pushing our buttons and bringing out the shadow part of us that we don’t think exist or we think we have dealt with.

If you are in this situation, I can help both of you find connection and stability again. You don’t have to do it alone.

Send me a message and let’s get to the root of it via my paid 1:1 couple’s coaching .

I can only work with people that have no domestic partner violence going on currently in their marriage.

14/11/2023

I have met many Singles complaining to me that they cannot find a partner but they are not doing even the simplest things that will bring the right partner to them. Coming from an engineering and sales background, I see the process of finding a spouse like sales.

Any product that wants to be sold has to be saleable - it must meet consumer needs and be available in the right market where the target customer will find it.

In this era, what are the basic things you can do?

Many people have an idea of the kind of customers they want to buy their product, but these people do not have the qualities that their target customers want. Work on yourself to that level, or simply accept the people who are already looking for someone with the qualities you have.

Place the product in the market with customers. Make yourself available where the kind of person you want will be. It's that simple. If you are looking for a Wall Street or Silicon Valley kind of person, the chances that you will find him in the bukka at Ajegunle are very low. Why not go to the places where such people abound?

Online dating. This is a place where you can easily find all sorts of people- We are in the digital age and every year, the studies are showing us that more people are finding their partners online compared to the previous decades. Sadly many people missing this opportunity by still avoiding connecting with people online.

Another irony is that some go-on dating apps will never pay for the premium package that is as cheap as 30K naira or ÂŁ20 a month or less. Don't you know that dating apps, give better service to their paying customers?

Also, some people have subpar dating profiles that don't attract the kind of person they want. So take your time and write a dating profile that shows your amazing personality

And even when they attract, they don't know how to communicate. Learn good communication skills. Buy the book - how to win friends and influence people.

A lot of people come to me for matchmaking instead of doing the simple things I listed in this post. I personally do not think professional matchmaking is for everyone unless you are truly very busy, have no time, have very special needs of privacy or the kind of person you want. It’s Luxury. It’s like taking a private jet to dubai when you can fly economy or first class on emirates.

Professional Matchmaking is very very expensive. . I mean professional matchmaking where the matchmaker is certified, properly trained like me, has a global network of other elite experts and provides coaching and background checks. Where you get almost 247 private contact and special treatment. It's in the high 5 figures in pounds. Some cost as much as 1 million pounds.

Things like dating apps, Facebook, Twitter, instagram, hanging out at the right place, friends & family are all cheaper ways of finding love.

Studies have shown that people that do not do anything to find love have a 0.17 % chance of finding a partner. 1 out of 562 chances.

Your physical outlook may attract attention but your internal character will keep it going. Your ability to to be relational.

So work on yourself too. Understand your negative patterns and heal the traumas. Find out your strengths and enhance them. Build the skills for healthy relationships. Start being friendly and pleasant. Be outgoing. Dress and smell well. Cultivate self - love.

I wish you true love this festive period.

13/11/2023

Have you met people that need to put down others to increase their sense of self?

These sort of people always need to present others in a negative or diminished way in other to feel good about themselves.

Here are ways they can do this:

They see your achievement, and instead of celebrating you, they either say it's not a big deal or say you got it by chance. Or they attribute it to someone else or claim that someone else helped you achieve it. I am sure you have met so many of them. Imagine a 30-year-old millionaire; such people will say, “ that’s not an achievement. After all, it's not such a big deal to be a millionaire at 30”. “Or if it's a woman, the person could say, it must have been a man that gave her the money. No woman can have such success without a man”. Of course, some can say a lot worse than those .

They will deliberately say things to hurt you, or they may make fun of you in front of people in a way that highlights your weaknesses negatively.

Check around you. Have you seen people that constantly state you are under them( created to be under them) or inferior in order for them to feel happy/fulfilled/relevant? They could be your bosses, friends, co-workers or even acquaintances.

Some of the reasons why a person may feel the need to put down others are:

âșThe need to feel superior to others
âșChildhood trauma
âșLow Self-Esteem
âșA poor home life
âșThey have been bullied themselves
âșInsecurity
âșPoor Education (means lack of the correct information)
âșLack of Empathy
âșUnderlying mental health issues

If you are exposed to such behaviour constantly, it can have a massive impact on your self-esteem and self-worth. Constant belittling can have the same impact as sexual or physical abuse. If you are in a relationship where you experience this, do not dismiss belittling behaviour. Leave or get professional help.

I want to remind you that it’s about them, not about you. They are emotionally incapable of dealing with their shortcomings. Whether they think you are inferior or not, it is all battles going on in their head, and it doesn’t make their opinion real. Choose to disengage from them and reprogram your mind to the awesome person you are.

Chiddie Anyasodo

Do you find yourself asking: "Where are all the good men?"  "Why do I keep attracting partners who are wrong for me?" "I...
04/11/2023

Do you find yourself asking:

"Where are all the good men?"


"Why do I keep attracting partners who are wrong for me?"


"Is something wrong with me that I can't find true love?"

You're not alone. As a successful, ambitious woman, dating can feel like an endless chore with no reward.

The charmers who love-bomb you then ghost when you show vulnerability...

The arrogant overachievers who think you'll worship their success...

The Peter Pans scared of real intimacy and commitment...


After countless lackluster dates, you're exhausted. And that little voice starts whispering:

Maybe I'm the problem. Maybe I'm destined to be alone...


Here's the truth: You don't need to change who you are to find love, but you may need to change how you date.


Introducing Refine: How to Identify the Right Partner For You

This isn't your average dating course full of games, tricks and superficial tactics.


It's a profound inner journey to dismantle the old love story of pain, upgrade your attraction super power, and embrace your inherent magnificence.

So you become a magnet for healthy, devoted love - not through manipulation but by embodying the energy you seek.

Refine's 9 modules will provide you with a step-by-step system to welcome extraordinary love, including:


Module 1: Building Healthy Relationships - You will understand what exactly healthy relationships are and what makes them last.



Module 2: THE STORY OF YOU - Understand yourself and why the same thing keeps happening to you in relationships and where they come from.

Module 3: Relationship Vision - Clarify your needs and goals to manifest reciprocal partnership.

Module 4: Breaking Your Inner Iron chains and setting yourself free- Excavate and transform barriers blocking you from getting the love you deserve.


Module 5: Securing a Love Squad - Build your A list team that will support you to bring your new love vision to life.


Module 6: Choosing Wisely - Assess compatibility to avoid falling for potential without substance.



Module 7: RELATIONAL FOUNDATIONS: HOW TO BUILD A LASTING SECURE FUNCTIONING RELATIONSHIP FROM DAY 1



Module 8: Dating with Purpose and Dignity: Learn practical skills that make it easier to get results from dating


Module 9: Becoming a Love Magnet - Embrace your divine worthiness to attract high-value love.



This could be the most important course you ever take. Why?

You Don't Have to Struggle Alone Anymore


Refine provides the missing map and tools successful women need to stop wasting time on dead-end situationships and the wrong men.

No more painful trial-and-error that erodes your self-confidence. You'll gain proven insights and skills for relationship success.


You'll be part of a community of high-value women challenging each other to rise into their highest potentials and calling in empowered love.

And you'll have expert guidance every step of the way.


Meet Your Instructor

I'm Chiddie Anyasodo. With my experience in relationship coaching and matchmaking, I've seen it all.

Spectacular success stories...and too many smart, beautiful women stuck in patterns of hurt and disappointment.


Being a successful woman myself who has worked in many countries, I have had my own share of heartbreaks and bad relationships patterns. After I discovered and healed my pattern, dating became so easy and fun. I got married faster than I imagined to a man that was honest from day one.


I created Refine to provide women the science-backed, soul-guided wisdom to stop settling and manifest the love they deserve.


This isn't just my job. It's my purpose.

My calling is supporting you to become the woman who attracts - and sustains - extraordinary devotion, passion, support and joy.

By working with me, you can fast-track results versus struggling for years as many do.

Even in one area, like communication or confidence, implementing Refine's lessons will lead to rapid transformation in your relationships.




Join our many Satisfied Clients


Client in USA:

“Refine changed everything! I was able to break negative cycles and start attracting men who respect me. Now I'm building a great relationship with an amazing man."



Ella PhD, UK:

"If you are after a healthy relationship/marriage and you don’t follow Chiddie Anyasodo then you are missing a lot! I have told my story many times how she and her wonderful husband Ben were instrumental to changing my relationship trajectory. If I didn’t take their counsel maybe I would have gotten into another messy situation. Today I am happily married with a beautiful baby.."



Mavis, UK:

“Chiddie helped me discover the negative relationship patterns that have been holding me stuck”



Client USA: You taught me what my mother didn’t

Nonso Nigeria: I put the things you taught me into practice and in 6 months, I gotten a proposal from a good man. We are now married”


Client UK: The session was liberating and its not just for dating but friendships too”


Client Nigeria: The best decision I made for myself was to pay for this course, for my improvement and growth. Family trauma of broken relationships and divorce ends with me”



The stories go on and on. Refine graduates find love every day. Now it's your turn.”



Here's the Bottom Line

You have two options:


1. Continue with the status quo. Endure more empty dates, draining situationships, and disappointing mismatches.Watch your hope for true love dwindle...

2. Commit to real change. Dedicate 90 days to completing Refine. Implement the lessons, do the inner work, and watch your dating life transform.


Option 1 is painful. Option 2 takes courage, but leads to the extraordinary love your soul craves.

The choice is yours. What feels right in your heart?

Remember: you are destined for beautiful, healthy devoted love. Say yes to Refine and your soulmate will appear.

You no longer have to question if true love will find you. With Refine, you become the beacon guiding it home.

The time is now. Are you ready?

One of the things that the Single ladies that work with me say often is “I am now enjoying attention from Men”Some are s...
15/10/2023

One of the things that the Single ladies that work with me say often is “I am now enjoying attention from Men”

Some are successful ladies in their 30’s that have never gone a single date in their life before working with me

Some have gone on dates in the past but only meet men they have to beg for attention. Men they have to bend over backwards to please.

Now all that has changed. They are now able to meet men that will court them. They now know how to identify the right men for them.

I know that you desire a man that will cherish and value you.

If you keep dating men that treat you badly or going from one bad relationship or marriage to another, it's time to refine your man Picker.

You deserve a happy and healthy marriage, let me show you learn how to Identify those men that STEP UP

CHOTAYAH.com/refine

06/10/2023

What will you prefer? A partner that does everything because they are scared of you or one that trusts and adores you?

06/10/2023

There are two types of relationship advice you will get from popular culture.

1. Endure every crap because marriage is about endurance

2. Revenge: Give it back to them hot hot so they won’t try it again.

None of them will give you the secure healthy functioning marriage you want.

Both advice come from a place of helplessness, lack of knowledge and inability to stand strong and negotiate systems that build secure functioning relationships.

There is a third one which is, we will stand toe to toe, face to face, hold hands and work this out in a way that is healthy for both of us while being kind to each other. This third is unpopular and requires a high degree of emotional maturity and relational skills. Not many people understand how to go about it.

Thank you all for celebrating me on my 40th birthday. May you always be celebrated in every area of your life
03/10/2023

Thank you all for celebrating me on my 40th birthday.

May you always be celebrated in every area of your life

Massive Birthday Discount for My Best Selling Program for Highly Successful Single Women. Rush and Grab this now. This p...
02/10/2023

Massive Birthday Discount for My Best Selling Program for Highly Successful Single Women.

Rush and Grab this now. This price slash is for only 24 hours. There will not be any extension for this price slash.

It’s a whooping 65% discount.

For only 24hours you can pay ÂŁ16 or 17K Naira and be part of this program. chotayah.com/refine

"Refine! The Art of Identifying Your Ideal Partner" is the name of our super exciting 3 day Workshop that's about to rock your love life! đŸ˜đŸ”„

Ready to break free from the cycle of uncertainty? Tired of those heartbreakers who just can't appreciate your awesomeness?

Are you finally done with men that say they are intimidated by your success?

And even when you take your time to make your super checklist, it doesn’t still work.

We feel you, girl! It's time to level up and fix that man picker device of yours!

We've got the inside scoop, honey! We've analyzed over 2,000 wish lists from fierce single boss ladies like you in our database. Plus, we've made more love connections than Cupid himself, with many successful marriages and more weddings coming up this year plus over 200 epic introductions. We're also the go-to coaches for both singles and married people navigating the crazy world of relationships. đŸ’Ș🌟

Using knowledge from Psychology, neuroscience and combining our experience in matchmaking, relationship coaching and therapy.

Get ready to embark on an incredible journey of self-discovery! We're talking deep dives into your past relationships, learning from the heartbreaks, and embracing those powerful lessons. It's time to shake things up and unleash your love potential!

Here's what's on the menu, babe:

1ïžâƒŁ Mind-Blowing Insights: Say "bye-bye" to those heartbreakers! Discover why you keep attracting partners who can't handle your fabulousness. We're gonna break that cycle once and for all!

2ïžâƒŁ Supercharge Your Awareness: No more blind spots, babe! Uncover the obstacles that have been holding you back from choosing Mr. Right. You deserve nothing less than perfection!

3ïžâƒŁ Epic Decision-Making Skills: It's time to level up your selection game! We'll equip you with the tools to assess potential partners beyond their looks and charm. Get ready to make smart choices like a love superhero!

4ïžâƒŁ Strategic Spouse Design: Let's redefine what "compatible" really means. We'll help you dig deep and find that soul-to-soul connection that gives you peace and sets your heart on fire. Clear as day clarity on what qualities will work for you.

So, gorgeous, if you're ready to say bye-bye to those heartbreakers and welcome the partner who truly appreciates your fabulousness, this workshop is your ticket to love bliss! 💖✹

No more letting the past dictate your future love story, babe. It's time to take control, have a blast, and make empowered choices.

Are you in?

Let's slay this love game!

Enroll now and get ready to love like never before! You're a fierce queen, and it's time to shine! đŸ”„

Massive Birthday Discount for My Best Selling Program for Highly Successful Single Women. Rush and Grab this now. This p...
02/10/2023

Massive Birthday Discount for My Best Selling Program for Highly Successful Single Women.

Rush and Grab this now. This price slash is for only 24 hours. There will not be any extension for this price slash.

It’s a whooping 65% discount.

For only 24hours you can pay ÂŁ16 or 17K Naira and be part of this program.

"Refine! The Art of Identifying Your Ideal Partner" is the name of our super exciting 3 day Workshop that's about to rock your love life! đŸ˜đŸ”„

Ready to break free from the cycle of uncertainty? Tired of those heartbreakers who just can't appreciate your awesomeness? And even when you take your time to make your super checklist, it doesn’t still work.

We feel you, girl! It's time to level up and fix that man picker device of yours!

We've got the inside scoop, honey! We've analyzed over 2,000 wish lists from fierce single boss ladies like you in our database. Plus, we've made more love connections than Cupid himself, with many successful marriages and more weddings coming up this year plus over 200 epic introductions. We're also the go-to coaches for both singles and married people navigating the crazy world of relationships. đŸ’Ș🌟

Using knowledge from Psychology, neuroscience and combining our experience in matchmaking, relationship coaching and therapy.

Get ready to embark on an incredible journey of self-discovery! We're talking deep dives into your past relationships, learning from the heartbreaks, and embracing those powerful lessons. It's time to shake things up and unleash your love potential!

Here's what's on the menu, babe:

1ïžâƒŁ Mind-Blowing Insights: Say "bye-bye" to those heartbreakers! Discover why you keep attracting partners who can't handle your fabulousness. We're gonna break that cycle once and for all!

2ïžâƒŁ Supercharge Your Awareness: No more blind spots, babe! Uncover the obstacles that have been holding you back from choosing Mr. Right. You deserve nothing less than perfection!

3ïžâƒŁ Epic Decision-Making Skills: It's time to level up your selection game! We'll equip you with the tools to assess potential partners beyond their looks and charm. Get ready to make smart choices like a love superhero!

4ïžâƒŁ Strategic Spouse Design: Let's redefine what "compatible" really means. We'll help you dig deep and find that soul-to-soul connection that gives you peace and sets your heart on fire. Clear as day clarity on what qualities will work for you.

So, gorgeous, if you're ready to say bye-bye to those heartbreakers and welcome the partner who truly appreciates your fabulousness, this workshop is your ticket to love bliss! 💖✹

No more letting the past dictate your future love story, babe. It's time to take control, have a blast, and make empowered choices.

Are you in?

Let's slay this love game!

Enroll now and get ready to love like never before! You're a fierce queen, and it's time to shine! đŸ”„

This is 40 đŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„Happy Birthday to me
02/10/2023

This is 40 đŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„

Happy Birthday to me

21/09/2023

I was talking to another single lady, who was complaining about always being in a relationship with the wrong men.

They always do this -

Men are like this -

They want to intimidate me

They are unkind

Once we have sÂŁx, he stops being available.

Argues over little things a lot

Doesn't prioritize me

She ended by saying all men are ###- you know the popular word

In summary, emotionally immature.

Alright, can I see your criteria for choosing the one?

*Tall, handsome, dresses well.

*Has a good job and hardworking

*God fearing

*Kind and generous with money

* from my state

Okay, but I can’t see where you wrote the exact qualities that will bring an emotionally mature man who is ready to commit to you. One that will cherish and adore you.

I can introduce you to 100 men with the exact qualities in your list and they will do exactly what you have been experiencing in the other men.

The problem is your man picker. The things you prioritize when choosing a man and how you go about dating the men you meet.

When you work with me and refine this process, the wrong ones, filter themselves out and dating becomes easier.

And it's an inside work. When I work with my clients, I start by shifting whatever on the inside makes them attracted to the wrong relationships

Then we learn the skills to date smart with dignity

Some of my clients stop dating emotionally unavailable and abusive men just after 2 weeks of working with me

They start feeling more confident

They start glowing from the inside and become more attractive to people

They start attracting emotionally healthy men

Men that prioritize them

My next workshop is about loading

Chotayah.com/wrymp

Obidosuo o na ato Sweetie SweetieDarling darling. This is an Igbo song insinuating that:In the beginning, love tastes sw...
21/08/2023

Obidosuo o na ato Sweetie Sweetie
Darling darling. This is an Igbo song insinuating that:

In the beginning, love tastes sweet but later gets sour.

How do you prevent this from happening in your marriage?

How do you bring marriage back from sourness into sweetness?

How do you restore that state of Assurance?

How do you go from the brink of divorce to harmony?

Most people do not understand that every relationship goes through cycles. From relationships between mother and child to relationships between colleagues at work to marital relationships. Just name the relationship, all go through cycles.

However many find it very difficult to transition effectively between these cycles and it leads to Chaos and subsequently breaking of the relationship.

Do you find yourself feeling resentment toward your spouse?

Do you find yourself always fighting with your spouse?

Are you about to give up?

Let’s help you find harmony again at our 3 days couples workshop called From CHAOS TO CONNECTION.

click here to join chotayah.com/ctc

Many of us consistently and inadvertently set ourselves up to be used and abused in relationships. And then we get angry...
18/08/2023

Many of us consistently and inadvertently set ourselves up to be used and abused in relationships. And then we get angry at others for doing what we seem to be asking for because of the way we show up.

Others don't owe us the responsibility of self-love, self-respect and self-esteem.

Notice the SELF in those words. They come from the inside.

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