11/03/2024
Just posted a new mix up. The theme is Love. I spent some time reflecting on love in February. You can read those reflections below. Here is the link to the mix. Any and all love for it is appreciated as the more love means more chance the Soundcloud algorithm will catch it and send the love out into the universe. Thanks y'all. I love ya.
https://soundcloud.com/mochileromusic/we-are-love-march-2024
Love. What does it mean to you? There is a vast spectrum of how we experience love, perceive it, feel it, express it, and create it. During the month of February, I played two sets right around Valentineās Day that had me organizing all my ālove music.ā I started to think about all that love means to me. I noticed that in recent years, Iāve found myself searching for love in the form of a romantic relationship. Searching for a person who wants to receive my love and travel with me on this journey of life. With all that has passed, Iāve often thought, what can I do differently, what can I do better, what is it about me that is too much or not enough? In the midst of my reflections, I happened to come across the following quote by feminist writer, teacher, activist, and scholar Bell Hooks. She says, āI think that part of what a culture of domination has done is raise that romantic relationship up as the single most important bond, when of course the single most important bond is that of community.ā It resonated with me so profoundly that I read it out while introducing myself before one of my sets. It made me more cognizant of the fact that the unending support of my community is what has carried me through the empty valleys of the lows. All that I am, all that I have, all that I can be, is rooted in community. Iām so grateful for all of you who are part of my life and continue to invest your time and energy into our relationship. It has been a hard last 6 months. With work causing me to retreat from my usual relationships, I have felt like an absent friend to many. A friend who hasnāt shown up isnāt who I want to be, and it hasnāt felt good. Nevertheless, I feel you. I get your messages of support. I know you are there for me even when Iām not able to be there for you, and that is so appreciated. While my community has carried me through my lows, youāve also lifted me up to my highest highs. The collective joy we create on the dance floor is absolutely incredible. Bell Hook writes in All About Love: New Visions, āwhether we learn how to love ourselves and others will depend on the presence of a loving environment. Self-love cannot flourish in isolation,ā and in a separate passage, ārarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion.ā I wouldn't know how to love all parts of myself and others if it wasnāt for the loving environment that I am supported by. This community propels me to love more, to be love, and to embody it in my everyday interactions. I heal when I am with you. This last quote by Hooks is a reminder of how I can continue to grow my practice of love in my life and expand my notion of community. āWe can begin the process of making community wherever we are. We can begin by sharing a smile, a warm greeting, a bit of conversation; by doing a kind deed or by acknowledging kindness offered to us. Doing this, we engage in love practice [... and] we lay the foundation for the building of community with strangers. The love we make in community stays with us wherever we go. With this knowledge as our guide, we make any place we go, a place where we return to love.ā This mix is a dedication to you, my community. My best friends. My family. My loves. The Moonflower Collective. The Greater Groove. To all the strangers who I invite into community through love. You are love. I am love. We are love.