14/02/2024
I’m still moving with love just using more discernment this time!
Sis, It's time to Heal, Elevate and Recharge into the stronger version of who you are currently. Th
I’m still moving with love just using more discernment this time!
Where your FOCUS goes your ENERGY will flow to.
It’s okay to OUTGROW others!
Some if us are stagnant currently because we are afraid to leave others behind ..
The reality is those same people will leave us in a heartbeat if they got the same opportunity.
My therapist once told me …
Some of YOUR relationships are only flourishing in your life right now because YOU are the only one watering them.
Cut the water off and see if the other person( s) notices .. 9/10 if they are not invested .. and they will move along to the next person who will fulfill they needs.
Many times in life we have to learn to accept that .. some folk in your garden have to be uprooted QUICKLY when YOU discover they no longer serve a purpose in your life so that fresh heathly meaningful relationships can take its place.
A lot of times we hold on to people out of FEAR that we equate to necessity! The reality is we were flourishing BEFORE them and we will continue to do so after they have exited our life…. Regardless of how they choose to leave it.
Don’t let the thought of adjusting to thier ABSENCE keep you bound to the version of yourself that is suffering due to thier PRESENCE .
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Truth is …. Some of us are afraid of being HAPPY and anything that will allow us to see our life in a different light because we are so accustomed to grey skies and rainy days!
Sometimes you never realize how you have mismanaged YOU .. your self care & your happiness until you get back into the rountine of putting you FIRST.
Sometimes you have to go back and apologize to YOU for m being so caught up in life that you LOST yourself trying to survive LIFE!
Happy Monday!
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This is a vital skill we all must master‼️
You become unstoppable when you work on things that people can't take away from you. Things like your mindset, character, personality, transparency, your entire being.
I'm still full of love.. I just cant give it out how l use to no more!
Whatever you don't deal with now will resurface again in a different context.
Unhealed issues don't disappear with time. They are pushed into your children, health, etc.
You can't ride for someone who keeps jumping in & out the car!
Let them go and get to your destination on time!
A lot of people think the ultimate glow up is physical honestly its learning your worth, recognizing when its being tested and the confidence and strength to not settle for anything less.
Part of healing is no longer attacking the parts of yourself you created, in order to survive.
There is no need to pretend with those who are also pretending…
Be YOU.. just maybe you might inspire someone to be themselves as well.
Don’t ever fool yourself to think that the cycle your in can’t be stopped. You can have healthy solid relationships…matter fact you DESERVE to experience a healthy solid relationship ‼️
There is power is self reflection and applying what you learned.
Take some time and just reflect this week and then use what you learned to build a better healthier version of YOU.
There is a huge difference between authentic regret and manipulation to keep access to someone open. You will know if you have fallen for the okie doke when they revert back to the behavior you forgave them for for the 1 thousandth time.
🙄 like seriously
I forgive you but we don't needa keep in touch 🙄 respectfully.
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Sometimes we overshare out of the intense need to be heard. Unfortunately not all listening ears are around you willing to help! Be mindful! #lonely #venting #frustration #depression #girltalk #therapy #oversharing
Sometimes we get so caught up in relationships that we believe what the other person says even if damaging to our self esteem. If a person has to manipulate you into believing that you can’t do better without them they know deep down inside that you can.
People pleasing is not something we all inspire to do. However when we are limited in what we receive from others often times we resort to pushing our self to the side .. to gain attention and affection any way we can to help fill the void we feel deep down. What we don’t realize that it will never be filled because it wasn’t created by people please but the rejection of people that we once tried to serve. Don’t count yourself out, with the limited belief that the only way you could ever be successful is by letting others use you! It’s a lie! Your more then what you produce for others or what is accepted by others. It’s time to choose you! Now that will be a win you can celebrate!! If this video resonates with you. Share it!
Anything you have to force will never last so why not take the time to work on you! #relationships #podcaster #relatable #reeltruths #reelrelatable #reelrelationship #reelhonesty #lifehacks #relationshiptips #standards #ɪɴsᴛᴀᴅᴀɪʟʏ #bigsisterlittlesister❤️ #tuesdaythoughts #heartcheck
We as women are emotionally driven and we tend to date out of necessity to fill an emotional void -Tashombi Nicole Let’s be real sis … 🤔are you currently dating an emotional maintenance man??? 🤫 I’m not gonna tell nobody is you are … 🤷🏾♀️ But….sis … There is some self reflection that needs to take place to address our current motives concerning dating others …sometimes we are so overtaken by unfulfilled desires we are on the hunt to get them satisfied without using wisdom to lead us. Lack of wisdom and being emotionally and mentally unstable will always leave us entangled and frustrated with those who should have never had access to us in the first place. Check out this episode snippet and get ready to be inspired check your motives so you can experience greater for your life! __ Gather your self sis and‼️👇🏾 Keep up with The H.E.R Podcast SUBSCRIBE on Apple & Google Podcasts FOLLOW on Instagram FOLLOW on Spotify JOIN H.E.R Inspired on Facebook . . . #podcastersofinstagram #blackgirlpodcast #womensupportingwomen #podcastsofcolor #blackpodcastnetwork #applepodcasts #theblackwomenscoach #lifecoachforblackwomen #womensempowerment #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackmillennials #blackmillennialwomen #podcastlife #newpodcast #newpodcastalert #elevateher #hertruth #narrativeshiftsis #theherpodcast #googlepodcast #anchorpodcast #geti̇nspired
You can’t defeat what you keep giving into Sis .. at some point you have to be determined to feel better-Tashombi Nicole So let’s keep it 💯 It’s a tuff but needed conversation we need to have with SELF! …sometimes we are overtaken by OLD issues that had initially had a hold on us because we are in denial that we need help in the first place! At times we know the right things to do but the work it takes to follow through just be to much for us at times. Remaining unwell and mentally broken is not your portion this season! Check out this episode “ The Bag Lady’s bag of Trauma “ and get ready to be inspired to tap into greater wellness for your life! __ Gather your self sis and‼️👇🏾 Keep up with The H.E.R Podcast SUBSCRIBE on Apple & Google Podcasts FOLLOW on Instagram FOLLOW on Spotify JOIN H.E.R Inspired . . . #tuffconversations #HerTruth #youliveandyoulearn #bewellclub #theherpodcast #podcast
So this week the bag lady is facing the fact that she has some regretful past things that just won't leave her alone. She has tried to hide them and even give them another name, none of it is working currently. Now I know we all have our own bag of regrets ladies! some of us got those big duffle bag sizes we carry around when no one is looking but stands like a big Boulder in our way when we trying to heal and move forward. whew!! some of y'all , like me will take some the less weighty regretful experience and carry those around because we couldn't just bare to let others know .. we straight bound up and tied down by things we afraid to heal from and let go of...oh wait are you the boogie type..you know keeping y'all regrets in that cute bag designed by Louie or MK. walking around a fashionably designed mess emotionally like the rest us you just can't bring your self to admit it ? listen no judgement here !!whew! listen sis!! we all got a bag no matter how we dress it up and carry it ... One thing we fail to remember is this .... We can dress our baggage up all we want but it will never change what it really is and the damage its currently doing in our life! Catch a sneak peak listen for this weeks NEW episode "The Bag Lady's Bag of Regrets below!!👇🏿
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