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19/03/2023

"You may not always have a choice of the people who surround you, but you can always choose that no one hurts your self-esteem."

Your self-esteem is the value you give to yourself. If you see the value in yourself, you will never be with someone who lowers your self-esteem.

Many times we are in a relationship where we become so emotionally dependent that we stop even seeing the wrong when someone mistreats us. The fear of losing that person dominates our minds, and we become willing to lose ourselves. People who really value us, respect our dignity and never behave or say anything that make us feel unworthy.

If you ever experience a relationship where your worth is questioned, you may need to think about it, talk with the person, and express your concerns. It will be hard, and you may even feel weak, but taking a stand for your self-respect is something one should always choose to do.

18/03/2023

Are you the reason for someone's silence?

People often become silent for a reason. They are either sad or deeply hurt.

Everyone wants their opinion and ideas to be heard. Some people always disregard their partner's or loved ones' opinions. They made them feel that their suggestions, ideas or understanding of life is very little. When it happens too often, that person prefers to be silent rather than being belittled repeatedly.

Pay attention when your loved one has become silent. They are usually carrying a lot inside their heart. Listen to them, respect their opinion and value their thoughts. Every person is worthy, and everyone's life experience is worth the consideration.

18/03/2023

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17/03/2023

It's share stupidity to compare yourself with those ahead of you.

No matter how hard you try, my son's leg will never size my shoe in two years time but it will definitely size or even get bigger if he is patient enough to grow.

Some people are not willing to grow into their desires, they think they can wake up to it.

Someone was comparing me to people I respect on this space .

Abeg those people have been on this space for yeeeeears.

I just started business online

Leave me make I grow

17/03/2023

Staying married does not mean you love your husband or you are happy in the marriage 🤷

Men can marry for love. A woman can easily marry who she got no feelings for

She can marry so as to leave her single status, to avoid being shamed by the society, to pepper her friends, for money, to escape Povérty, to prove a point to people or her Ex

That's why most women date who they love and marry who is ready.
70% of married woman don't love their husbands.
They are just happy that they are married.

21/02/2023

4 Important Lessons I Learned from “The Compound Effect “

1)Luck does NOT exist

People may look at someone on social media or real life achieving success and reaching their goals and think, “Wow. They are so lucky. Having it all must be nice.” However, the behind-the-scenes blood, sweat, tears, hard work, sleepless nights, sacrificed relationships, etc. are never going to be shown on Instagram or tweeted about.

Getting to your goals and making yourself proud is not something that should be left to chance or put off until you find your “big break.” When you think someone is “lucky”, you’re mistaken. The complete formula for “luck” as listed in “The Compound Effect” is:
Preparation+Attitude+Opportunity+Action=Luck

2. The earlier your changes begin, the sooner you reap the benefits

In my opinion, this is the core of what the compound effect is about. When you start making changes early and stick with them, you will see improvements quicker than if you start and stop. Consistency and small improvements over time are what will change the trajectory of your life.

3. Focusing on willpower is futile

Willpower has let you (and me) down time and time again. You think that setting a goal and trying to be consistent in completing it is what will help you to get there…WRONG! In fact, focusing on your why-power is more important than the will.
Your why-power is just that: WHY. WHY are you setting this goal? WHY are you motivated to achieve this? Once you connect your core motivation to a goal you are setting, getting it done is a bit easier and even enjoyable.

4. Knowing your triggers is ESSENTIAL

More than likely you have habits that you would deem “bad habits.” Knowing your bad habits is the first step to correcting them. The second step? Knowing what triggers them. Does your productivity slow down with the Twitter tab open at work? Does forgetting to bring a snack for the day make you want to eat out for lunch?
Writing down your bad habits and the occurrences that may

21/02/2023

The greatest thing you will ever do is to know your future self. By understanding who you want to become and setting goals to work towards that vision, you can create a fulfilling life filled with purpose and meaning. Take the time to reflect on your values and what truly matters to you, and use that knowledge to guide your decisions and actions. Remember, the choices you make today will shape the person you will become tomorrow.

20/02/2023

Short Story:

What goes around comes around

One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn’t look safe; he looked poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was those chills which only fear can put in you. He said, “I’m here to help you, ma’am. Why don’t you wait in the car where it’s warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.”

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.
As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn’t thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.
He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, “And think of me.”
He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt

20/02/2023

Inspiring

An elephant and a dog became pregnant at same time. Three months down the line the dog gave birth to six puppies. Six months later the dog was pregnant again, and nine months on it gave birth to another dozen puppies. The pattern continued.

On the eighteenth month the dog approached the elephant questioning, "Are you sure that you are pregnant? We became pregnant on the same date, I have given birth three times to a dozen puppies and they are now grown to become big dogs, yet you are still pregnant. Whats going on?". The elephant replied, "There is something I want you to understand. What I am carrying is not a puppy but an elephant. I only give birth to one in two years. When my baby hits the ground, the earth feels it. When my baby crosses the road, human beings stop and watch in admiration, what I carry draws attention. So what I'm carrying is mighty and great."

Don't lose faith when you see others receive answers to their prayers. Don't be envious of others testimony. If you haven't received your own blessings, don't despair. Say to yourself "My time is coming, and when it hits the surface of the earth, people shall yield in admiration."

Always stay encouraged!

20/02/2023

Top 7 Lessons learned From The Book "The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People"

Habit 1: Be Proactive

Stephen Covey refers to proactivity as simply taking responsibility for your life.
Those who think proactively tend to focus their efforts on what they can do something about. They think in terms of, “I can”, “I will”, “I prefer”.

Habit 2: Begin With The End In Mind

What is your end goal and what can you do to reach it?
Build a Personal Mission Statement to help you keep on track.
Having a mission statement is something that can help you focus on your goals and what you can do to meet them.

Habit 3: Put First Things First

Prioritize.

Covey states, “Putting first things first means living and being driven by the principles you value most, not by the agendas and forces surrounding you.”
It allows us to access a more balanced life.

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Putting your attention less on competition and more on collaboration.
When you take the time to look at what benefits both parties, it shows respect, maturity, integrity, and confidence.

It can positively affect your character and improve relationships.

Habit 5: Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood

Communication, specifically listening, is the basis for this habit.
Do not listen with the intent to reply, listen to understand.
Doing this is another great way to improving the relationship.

Habit 6: Synergize

Synergy refers to teamwork.

Take the time to truly accept the other person’s differences. Then use that understanding to feed off of each other and gain new insight into your situation.
Next time you’re in a difficult situation, try out the path to synergy.

Habit 7: Sharpen The Saw

Focus on the most important thing you have, YOU. When you ‘sharpen the saw’, you are taking the time you need for self-renewal.

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: 30th Anniversary Edition (The Covey Habits Series)

20/02/2023

Top 5 Lessons learned From the Book “Designing Your Life”

1. Life is dynamic

👉You never “figure out” what life’s about.

If you want to design your life, you need to brace yourself for a journey.

✅The journey is about setting a direction, enjoying the process, and iterating as you go along.

2. Action precedes passion

❤️Passion is born in action. Very few people know what they’re passionate about.

📍It’s only through doing many things and discovering what you like and don’t like that you begin to understand what you might be passionate about.

3. Finding the right problem to solve

🔎 In the life If you begin working on the wrong problem, it doesn’t matter how good your solutions are.

💯 You will find a bunch of good solutions to the wrong problems.

4. Your dream job

✅To get to your dream job, you need to create it.

You start with being aware of your strengths/weaknesses, likes/dislikes, interests/non-interests,

📍and then you start prototyping different careers based on what you know.

5. Assessing where you are

⚡️In order to know where you are going, your first need to know where you stand.

💥Life is a balance across different areas, and one way to think about life is to divide it into Health, Work, Love, and Play.

20/02/2023

🌻Always remember that everything that happens, good or bad, helps you grow. Even if it’s hard to see that right now.

🌻Sometimes, you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand with them.

🌻A psychological study found that people who are generally 'too nice' are also the ones to get hurt the most.

🌻Surround yourself with people who bring out the happiness in you.

🌻Missing someone causes insomnia. The frustration of being without that person keeps you awake at night.

🌻Respect people who find time in their schedule to see you. Love people who never look at their schedule when you need them.

🌻When ignored by someone whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in the brain is similar to physical pain.

🌻Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, you know what to do.

🌻Daydreaming is said to help people focus on what they want in life.

20/02/2023

A father said to his daughter, "You just graduated, this is a car I bought a while ago... It is a few years old. But before I give it, take it to a car dealer in the city and sell it , see how much they offer.”

The girl came back to her father and said: "They offered 1000 euros because it looks very old"

The father said: Hold it and take it to the 2nd hand car dealer.

The girl returns to her father and says: "The pawn shop offered 100 euros because it is a very old car and lots of investments are needed to drive it again"

The father asked his daughter to join a passionate car club with experts and show them the car.

The girl drove the car to the passionate car club, turned and said to her father: “Some people in the club offered me 100,000 euros because it is a rare car that is in good condition, with great capabilities and super difficult to find.”

Then the father said, "I wanted to let you know that you are not worth anything if you are not in the right place."

If you are not appreciated, do not be angry, that means you are in the wrong place. "Don't stay in a place where no one sees your value 😉👇."

20/02/2023

The Worst Truths About Life.

1. Life is unpredictable and can change instantly to something different from how it appears now. It takes one event for everything to change for good or bad.

2. Not everyone will like you or accept you no matter how hard you work for it. The earlier you know this will save you a lot of energy.

3. People won't always do the right thing or treat you fairly, no matter your efforts or how you treated them.

4. Things don't always turn out as planned. Be flexible in you plans.

5. You won't always get what you want in life. You get what you worked or fought for.

6. Pain, sadness, and disappointment are unavoidable realities of life that you must learn to face and cope with on your own.

7. You don't have control over a lot of things in life and the outcome is often not what we hoped for.

8. No one is immune from failure or tragedy. It can strike at any time regardless of your circumstances or past successes.

9. Loss is a part of life. People, relationships, opportunities; all can disappear quickly and unexpectedly, leaving you with grief and pain. Thus, appreciate them when you have them and never take them for granted.

10. There are no guarantees in life. You can plan all you want but even if it goes perfectly according to plan, something could still go wrong that is beyond your control.

Therefore, appreciate life and everything you have. Nothing is yours except the ones given to you or allowed to come to you from the above.

19/02/2023

“Don’t do anything to prove to others that you are the best. Do everything to prove to yourself that you can be the best of yourself”.

Most of us get so influenced by what other people will think of us or how we can become better than others that we start focusing on proving to others our worth. In this process, we lose our real focus and start chasing those goals that are not even our preference.

If you want to succeed in life, trust yourself and focus on your dreams. Aim to improve yourself, find ways to become a better person, and do things that lead to personal growth. Once you feel the best in yourself, you won’t need to prove yourself to anyone else.

18/02/2023

This is for my single-and-ready-to-mingle sisters.

Dear Sister,

When a guy likes you & makes you aware of his feelings for you and you like him too, make life easy for both of you.

Let him know you like him too!

Do not hold back...unless you don't want him.

If you miss him and want to see him, there is nothing wrong in letting him know.

If you can afford it, in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with buying your flight ticket or paying for your Über with your funds to go see him.

I once told a dear sister of mine who always waited for her guy to send her funds before she would go visit him to stop holding back.

She would be missing him but do nothing about it and will only be disturbing my ears 🙄

The guy started feeling she didn't like him enough & started chilling out.

When she discussed this with me, I asked her if she liked him enough and she said yes.

Ok Sister! Take a vacation, book your flight, & tell him you are coming to see him.

She did!

It ignited something in the guy & things got better from there till they got married.

Another sister liked a guy but didn't know how to tell him.

The guy was equally crazy about her.

I told her to let him in on how she felt about him.

He was about to travel for a business trip & told her.

She said to him "I'll miss you".

That did the trick!

He called her everyday till he got back from the trip & their awesome relationship took off from there.

This is about REAL MEN & not 'Chingum boys'.

This is not for 'achikota ekwee onu' boys

You can never be too available or 'cheap' for a REAL man who wants you.

Some guys are naturally shy and may not have the 'cojones' to express how they truly feel.

Most ladies know when a guy likes them, so, trust that feminine instinct and reciprocate.

The feeling must be mutual & not one-sided.

If it does not work out, worry not. The 'One' will come.

It's so good, loving somebody & somebody loves you back.

Love is beautiful ❤️💐
⚘️

18/02/2023

10 Lessons from "The Communication Book"

1. Parkinson's Law states that Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion.

2. Nothing rings more hollow than words that aren’t backed up by deeds.

3. Go easy on the compliments, otherwise they lose their effect. Whatever you do, don't give praise simply to please.

4. A good speech is one that induces the listeners to change their minds, while giving them the feeling that this change of opinion is their own decision.

5. When all think alike, no one is thinking.

6. If you are unsure about something, try not to show it to others. Doubt and hesitation will only dilute your arguments.

7. Most people like to talk about themselves. This leads to us not listening any more, but simply waiting for our turn to speak.

8. We tend to conceal our opinion if we think that it will expose us to group pressure. If we feel public
support, however, we tend to express our opinion loudly and clearly.

9. If you can't change your mind, then you're not using it.

10. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.

Thanks for reading

18/02/2023

Top 7 lesson learned from the book - Smarter, Faster, Better by Charles Duhigg

1. The Secret to Setting and Achieving Goals

🗝️Commit to both big ambitious goals that seem out of reach and smaller easily achievable goals.

This will trigger motivation, ingenuity, and productivity, and allow you to discover potential you didn’t even know you were capable of.

2. The Secret to Generating Motivation

🌱Make a choice that puts you in control.

Figure out how a task is connected to something you care about. Explain to yourself why this chore will help you get closer to a meaningful goal and why this matters.

3. The Secret to Staying Focused

🧘🏻‍♀️Tell yourself stories and narrate your life.

Telling yourself a story about what you expect to happen gives you tools you need to decide where your focus should go when your plan happens in real life.

5. The Secret to Making Better Decisions

👉Decision making relies on the ability to focus on success and failure.

To make better decisions, focus on failure and why it occurs. This will allow you to make better predictions based on realistic assumptions.

6. The Secret to Manage Others Productively

✍️Unite a team around a common goal through mutual commitments and shared power.

By pushing decision making to whoever is closest to a problem, managers take advantage of everyone’s expertise and unlock innovation.

7. The Secret to Innovation

❗If you can become more motivated, more focused, better at setting goals and making good decisions, then you’re on the way to becoming smarter, faster, better and more productive.