Seeing Other People

23/03/2025

we love love & we love the coronas 🤍🤍

18/03/2025

UMM chat gpt drunk bestie saves lives. Like I’ve never had such a confidence boost??? 🥹

14/03/2025

Happy Pi Day! In honor of 3.14, I crunched the numbers on modern dating so you don’t have to. Highly accurate, deeply unscientific 😂

What would you add? Drop your own percentages below and create your own pie charts on (see the last slide for a tutorial)!

 

12/03/2025

Dating wins are EVERYWHERE, you just have to learn to look for them.

Love these so much (especially the last one 😍) & so proud of each and every one of you.

More wins? Drop em in the comments or let us know which hit home the most!

❤️

06/03/2025

We might not be having babies yet, but some of our closest friends are—and figuring out how to support them can feel like a total mystery.

That’s why I crowdsourced advice from moms-to-be and new moms on what not to do, what to do, and how to actually show up as the most supportive friend.

🎧 Full episode “How to Be a Good Friend When Your BFF Has a Baby” is out now on wherever you get your podcasts!

What else should be on this list? Drop your thoughts below! ⬇️💭

03/03/2025

If your Outie can do it, so can you.

02/03/2025

25/02/2025

A little reminder that good things do happen in dating.

What’s a recent win that made you feel hopeful?

24/02/2025

still processing this 🎥💞

05/02/2025

wholesome January

02/02/2025

fave city, fave people, fave booties
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22/01/2025

you guys make me so proud!!!!!!!! smiling so big it hurts

14/01/2025

some positivity for your feed 💙 wins worth celebrating

06/01/2025

Love, taking chances, firsts, and lots of self care are in the air 💙

29/12/2024

In honor of Dating Sunday—the first Sunday of the year and the busiest day for online dating—I had the absolute joy of chatting with about how to level up your dating app profile.

If finding your person is on your 2025 to-do list, these tips are for you!

If you want to book a session to revamp your profile together this week before the big day, head to the link in my bio!

And yes, this is a pinch-me moment!!!!!!! Thank you for the honor.

16/12/2024

HOLIDAY GIVEAWAY ALERT! 🎉🕎🎅🏼 I’m freaking out over these SOP cookies and begged to do a giveaway too, so one lucky winner will receive a box of your own custom treats!

How to enter:
1️⃣ Like this post
2️⃣ Follow and 
3️⃣ Tag a friend in the comments (more tags = more entries!) 
4️⃣ For an extra entry, share this on your story and tag us!
🎁 BONUS: The first 10 people to share to their story will get 10% OFF their next order through the end of the year!

*box is for pick up in NYC or long island!

Entries close on December 20th at 11:59 pm and the winner will be announced on December 21st! Good luck and happy holidays! 🤍

12/12/2024

the details ♡ 6.1.2024

in an off-brand plot twist, i was so overwhelmed (with joy) when my photos came back that i didn’t know where to begin with posting about the most magical day of my life. so bare with me as i finally get to it all. here goes…

throughout my fifteen months of wedding planning, everyone told me “don’t sweat the small stuff,” and “the details don’t matter.” but in my mind, the details were the most special part, because they were the way to make this “Ilana and Jake’s” wedding instead of just “a wedding.”

from the four sets of cocktail napkins with some of our favorite dates listed on them, to the matchbooks designed after my parents’ wedding matchbooks, to barkely taking a bite out of the cake and hiding in our signature cocktails, to getting married in Jake’s nana’s ring and my grandpa’s ring, to our wedding perfume & cologne, our custom vow books, and more, the details will always be what made our wedding, our wedding.

07/12/2024

my heart is smiling at each of these 🥹 drop some more wins in the comments & send this to someone who needs more positivity in their dating life!