01/09/2024
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Modern dating sucks, but it shouldn't have to. That's why Ilana Dunn is here to help you feel less a
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Your girl finally did a public speaking thing without being nervous!!!!!! Took years to get here, but we did it!!!
My first was truly such an amazing experience. I connected with so many inspiring people in the podcast space, learned so much, and felt a spark reignited. I left with so many new ideas I canât wait to implement into the SOP orbit.
Best part was getting to hang with the amazing .nation team. They are the best in the business and I feel so lucky to get to work alongside them đ©”
Hereâs to conquering fears by doing the thing that scares you over and over until one day it doesnât scare you anymore đ„
Because a win is a win and all dating wins are worth celebrating!!! Which win sticks out to you the most? đ let us know and show some love for the SOP fam
First dates, first moves, first loves & so much more to celebrate with this weekâs batch of wins đ€
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All of these milestones started with one date. Some of them started with taking time off of the apps. Others started with leaving a relationship that wasnât serving them, or getting their heart broken by someone who couldnât give them the love they deserved.
If youâre reading this and you wish you could submit a win like one of these, hang in there. Focus on yourself, trust your gut, and follow your heart.
always a bridesmaid, finally a bride (in 13 days) đ«¶
License to wed!!!!!!!!
This weekâs wins đ©”
An anti ghost text is childâs play compared to what our 8th grade selves were sending and receiving.
If you donât want to see someone again, THATâS FINE! But please let them know. Itâs the right thing to do. Weâve all suffered through the agony of not knowing, and getting a no, while it stings at first, is always followed by a sigh of relief. Knowledge is power, and once you know, you can start to move on.
& if you get that text, it sucks, I know. But it doesnât mean that youâre not good enough or that you wonât find your person. It just means that this person wasnât the one, and THATâS OKAY. Remember, you arenât going to like and be liked by everyone you date.
TLDR: Stop ghosting kthxbye!
Itâs never too late for your first kiss, first relationship, or first date that you didnât hate.
Give it up for this weekâs wins!!!!!
New beginnings, new mindsets, and new love stories. Big week of wins!!!
Winning big in 2024!!!!
Welcome to the SOP fam đ©”đ
Whether youâre new here, or youâve been following along for a bit, Iâm thrilled to (re)introduce myself and share more of my story and what Seeing Other People is all about!
In: ignoring everyoneâs in and out lists (including this one) and doing what feels right for you đ
Happy 3rd birthday Seeing Other People!!!!!!
3 years of being vulnerable on the internet. 3 years of facing fears. 3 years of finding myself. 3 years of connecting with each of you. 3 homes Iâve recorded from (a lot more attempts at finding backdrops).
Itâs crazy to think that when I started Seeing Other People, I thought I was so lost. Little did I know, I was making a giant step forward in the process of finding myself. To say Iâve grown and pushed myself out of my comfort zone because of SOP would be the biggest understatement of all time, and I wouldnât want it any other way.
Iâm so grateful for every single episode, every listener, every dm and email. Iâm grateful for the pinch me moments. Iâm grateful for the opportunities that have scared the living s**t out of me, and Iâm grateful that so many of you have found comfort and strength from SOP. I have too, in massive ways.
I always tell people one of the coolest things about this podcast is that throughout it, while learning from expert guests and commiserating with unfiltered guests, you also get to hear a personal journal of my relationship, going from hopelessly single to finding my person and growing individually and together.
I got let go from Hinge in November of 2020. I launched Seeing Other People on January 3rd, 2021. Jake and I matched on January 12th. Our first date would be February 8th, 2021. Chills.
The past three years have been nothing short of magical. I canât wait to see whatâs next.
I love you guys.
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PS putting 3 years of photos into 10 slides was near impossible but this was my best attempt lol
đ„ Cheers to all of 2023âs dating wins and hereâs to winning every step of the way in 2024!
Ending an incredible year of Seeing Other People on the highest note and pinching myself for the 837th time this year.
Thank you for the honor đ
đ¶ all we do is win win win no matter what
50 classes this year.
50 times showing up for myself, even on days where I didnât think I could. 50 times putting my phone down and picking my head up. 50 times pushing my limits and building mental and physical strength. 50 times ending a class with burpees and being surprised at how much I didnât hate them. 50 times being shocked and proud that I made it there.
Thank you to every instructor for cheering me on and motivating me to come back class after class & shoutout to every friend who has let me drag them to a class.
Hereâs to the next 50!! Love you rumble â€ïžđ€đ„đȘđ
always learning, always growing, always winning đ proud of this fam is an understatement
THANKFUL FOR THIS INCREDIBLE FAMILY AND SO PROUD OF YOU ALL FOR FINDING AND CELEBRATING YOUR WINS!!!!!!
I know sometimes itâs hard to find the positives, but I promise if you look for it, youâll find it.
once a situationship, always a situationship.
Overcoming anxiety, having the hard conversations, and laughing off the downsides of dating. WHAT A WEEK OF WINNING!
THIS WEEKâS WINS >>>>>>
Celebrate with me in the comments & drop your own win!
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new chapters, new experiences, new feelings. soo many incredible wins this week. so proud of this family đ
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WINS WINS WINS!!!! PROUD PROUD PROUD!!!!
Your wins are my wins are the whole SOP famâs wins. Weâre all in this together đ
warning: itâs humanly impossible to read these wins and not smile and feel proud đ„č
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Plot twist: Dating can actually be fun if you take the pressure off. Listen to this weekâs solo episode of Seeing Other People wherever you listen to podcasts to learn how đ #dating #single #therapy #datingapps #datingadvice #relatable #twenties
On this weekâs Unfiltered, Iâm joined by a 29-year-old divorceĂ© and mother of three who opens up about the emotionally and financially abusive realtionship. We hear what their relationship was like as high school sweethearts and how it evolved overtime and once kids were involved. She shares how he made her think she was always at fault, but how she stayed because she was so blindly in love with him and wanted to make it work. Finally, we hear what led them to ultimately call it quits, and how coparenting has been. Listen now wherever you listen to podcasts. #healing #coparenting #divorcesupport #singlemom #emotionalawareness #financialfreedom #relationships #therapy
The beautiful thing about a broken heart is that when you put it back together, itâs even stronger than it was before it broke. #heartbreak #breakup #healing #single #therapy #dating #selflove
Love whoever you want, no matter their sign. #dating #astrology #zodiacsign #single #datingapps #relationships #funfacts #science
what doesnât kill you makes you stronger đ€·ââïž #dating #anxiety #ex #breakup #single #therapy #depression #datingapps
Nobody else is you, and that is your power. This weekâs unfiltered ep hits diff. #dating #single #datingadvice #authenticity #selflove #podcast
If the dating apps arenât working for you, that doesnât mean your dating life is doomed. Youâre still datable, youâre still worthy of love, and your person IS out there. Weâre chatting all about how to not give dating apps too much power (and how to meet people IRL) on this weekâs episode of Seeing Other People. Listen now wherever you listen to podcasts! #dating #datingapps #single #datingadvice #datingtips #podcast
Havenât found your person yet? Guess what! That just means the best moments of your life are yet to come. This weekâs Unfiltered guest helps us maintain a positive outlook on singlehood. Listen now wherever you listen to podcasts!
One day at a time. I promise youâre going to be okay, even if it doesnât feel like it right now. Hang in there đ #breakup #healing #therapy #heartbroken #dating #single
If you start playing the game, itâs already game over. Just be yourself. New episode âMindset Shifts to Change Your Dating Lifeâ our now wherever you listen to podcasts. #dating #single #datingadvice #datingcoach #hinge #bumble #tinder #texting #crush
Even on days when dating apps and social media start to make you feel hopeless, donât give up. Your person is out there and they canât wait to meet you, too. #single #dating #datingapps #findlove #singlememes #plentyoffish #breakup #datingadvice #datingtips
Youâve been warned đš #oliviarodrigo #oliviarodrigoedit #vampire #newmusic #dating #single #breakup #exes #heartbreak #datingapps
@sarahltaplin is making her comeback to @seeingotherpeople after a two-year hiatus. She last joined us on the episode âLearning to Love Your Single Selfâ shortly before meeting her now-husband, @bentaplin. We hear how her self-discovery allowed her to grow into the person she was when she and Ben met, and she shares what felt different this time around that indicated this was a healthy potential relationship. We discuss how her journey to explore her Judaism impacted her dating life, how she found someone who accepted her exactly where she was at, and the importance of discussing non-negotiables in the early stages of dating. Listen now wherever you listen to podcasts! #relationships #marriageadvice #datingadvice #single #selflove #findingyourself #judaism
You wonât jinx it, I promise. #dating #single #crush #texting #flirting #datingapps #girltalk #twenties
@briannehelfrich, host of @wttcpodcast_ and Founder/CEO of @helfrichcollective is on the pod today! We chat about how her breakup fueled her to start her clothing brand and what really is the definition of a relationship. We hear how she approached her phase of being single and going on a ton of dates, how she met her boyfriend of 2+ years right before making a big move, and how they created a strong foundation based on open communication and vulnerability. Listen now wherever you listen to podcasts! #relationships #dating #podcast #entrepreneur #femalefounder #anxiety
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