TODAY’S EPISODE: a very special conversation with the incomparable @travis_k.n! 🌈
Travis is a queer actor who is currently playing the lakeside heartthrob on @primevideo’s newest series The Lake, starring Julia Stiles and Jordan Gavaris! ✨
we talk to Travis about all the things: growing up gay in a small town, coming out, being cast in straight roles, and how the assumptions people make about his sexuality are both a privilege and a challenge.
plus, his experience filming The Lake and how it feels to be playing an authentic queer character on such a prominent platform! 👏🏻👏🏽
LINK IN BIO to be as charmed by Travis as we were. 💫
welcome to sexual health 101 with your favourite unqualified non-experts. 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏼♀️
on this episode, we learn a ton about sexual health for people with vaginas and pen*ses - no matter their sexual identity. stuff like:
🍍does eating pineapple actually work?
🍆 can kegels help with erectile function?
and soooo much more.
we also dive into trans sexual health, how your sexual body changes during hormone therapy, and why it can be so difficult for trans people to get the health care they need. 🏳️⚧️
LINK IN BIO to join us as we embarrass ourselves in hopes our parents don’t listen.
❗️disclaimer: ALWAYS talk to your doc about your sexual health before trusting two random girls on a podcast.
BISEXUAL VS. PANSEXUAL: what’s the difference + why is that difference so important? 🏳️🌈
we’re breaking it allllll down on today’s episode.
P tells us about her experience identifying as bisexual + we explore how attraction and gender factors into it all. 💕
plus, more details about our upcoming LIVE event in Toronto on June 23! link in bio for tickets + to listen in on this long-armed conversation 🎧
IS SAR PERS’S TYPE? on today’s ep, all will be revealed. 👀
we’re diving into types, attraction, asexuality, and how all of it is connected. 💙
plus, mailbags from two incredible queer listeners in Boston + Costa Rica! 🏳️🌈
link in bio to learn why you’re attracted to the ppl you’re attracted to (friends included!) 🎧
ever wondered what it’s like to be on #bigbrother? ✨
on this episode, we’re joined by the lovely @justmelines: artist, content creator + recent contestant on the 10th season of @bigbrotherca! 🔥
Melina tells us about her queer experience, and how liking both women and men was never really a question in her mind. 🏳️🌈
we ask her about being on reality TV, her past life as a tattoo artist, and how fashion helps her express her own self-love and body positivity. 💕
LINK IN BIO to listen in, friends.
biiiig ups to Melina for this super honest and fun convo. 🥰
we scored our biggest guest yet: Sar’s 8-year-old nephew Knox. 😭
on this ep, we explore how this generation of kids + teens feels about queerness. 🏳️🌈
we share two stories from some incredible, 15-year-old queer listeners from Belgium and Netherlands. they tell us about discovering their sexuality, the role of social media, and being gay at school. ✨
we also learn how 8th graders in Vancouver talk about queerness in class + what questions they have. 📚
we still have more progress to make, but let’s just say: this generation knows what’s up. 👏🏽👏🏻
LINK IN BIO to listen in! 🎧
a very special episode with our very good friend @caylameredith! ✨ Cayla is a pansexual trauma and sexual abuse survivor who now coaches other survivors on their path to healing.
in this conversation, Cayla shares her very personal experience with trauma, starting in her early childhood. she gets candid about what happened to her and how it impacted her as an adult — from rock bottom moments to revelations. 💛
we explore how Cayla's sexual trauma factored into her discovering her queerness and coming into her sexuality. 🏳️🌈
plus, what inspired her to launch the Move to Heal Project and how we can all move through trauma by connecting to our bodies! 🏃🏽♀️
Cayla is unbelievably brave, resilient, and optimistic and we were SO honoured that she shared her story with us.
link in bio to join the convo. 🎧
if you're a trauma survivor or simply someone who wants to heal through movement, DM Cayla to find out how you can work with her.
and remember friends: you're not alone. we’re always here to talk. or gossip about your version of Paris. ❤️❤️❤️
(TW: trauma, sexual abuse, depression, anxiety)
in honour of @findingxfletcher’s birthday. 🎈flashback to this lil reaction video that inspired us to start a lil pod.
link in bio to watch the full video on P’s YouTube! 🎬
why does being queer feel so *spiritual*? ✨ we find out on this ep thanks to @janeof801: energy healer, coach, and your new spiritual bestie.
as a gay girl who spent most of her life closeted, Jane tells us how Buddhism helped her come into her sexuality and come OUT to the world. 🏳️🌈
she explains the basics of spirituality (from Reiki to chakras) and how it is deeply connected to queerness.
we also learn how spiritual practice can help us regulate our emotions + lean into freedom. 💙
if you’re intimidated by spirituality, no stress. Jane is all about making it approachable, accessible, and easy to understand. 💡
this convo was just bursting with loooove and laughter. LINK IN BIO to listen in, friends!
want to work with Jane? follow her @janeof801 and tune into the Lyoness Podcast wherever you get your pods! 🎧
this #internationalwomensday, we’re sitting down with a true trailblazer: @alyypatel! 🇮🇳🏳️🌈
as an LGBTQ+ scholar, activist, writer, and influencer, Alyy has pioneered research on queer South Asian women’s issues. 💪🏽
they’re also the founder of @qsawnetwork: a thriving non-profit that connects and celebrates queer South Asian women around the world. 🌍
we talk to Alyy about the complex relationship between Indian culture and queerness. plus, how their struggles with mental health + trauma led them deeper into activism. 💙
consider this your crash course on how to be a true trailblazer. @alyypatel, you’re a badass!!!
LINK IN BIO to join the convo. 🎧
want to join the QSAW Network? follow @qsawnetwork + @alyypatel for all the deets.
compulsory heterosexuality, who's she? 🤔
on this ep, we learn about the Lesbian Google Doc: a 30-page guide called "Am I a Lesbian?" 📖
originally posted by an anonymous Tumblr user, the doc earned a cult following for its comprehensive (and relatable) descriptions of compulsory heterosexuality. AKA: the societal pressure to be straight. 🙄
P tells us about how it all applies to her journey + how her feelings toward men have always been (and continue to be) complex. she even gets real about a recent attraction she felt for a man — and how that doesn't change her identity as a gay woman. 🏳️🌈
LINK IN BIO to learn with us. 🎧
psst. don’t worry, we’ll drop the link to the Google Doc in our stories. 😉
fun fact: @keaunoperez’s first kiss on @twentysomethings was actually a full-blown make out sesh. 😘
have you heard our convo with the one and only Keke?! LINK IN BIO to listen in! 🎧
this might be our most vulnerable episode yet. 🥺 we sit down with @dawnanoble, an LGTBQIA+ relationship expert and coach, to dive DEEP into dating.
P talks about the patterns that keep coming up in her love life + asks Dawna how she can break them. 💪🏽
S gets real about everything she has been learning + unlearning from past relationships. 💛
Dawna explains the differences between queer and straight relationships, and the challenges that can come up for queer couples (no matter their gender). 🏳️🌈
plua, how the trauma from her ex-wife's infidelity inspired her to build a career around helping other couples in crisis.
this was such a lovely, emotional + open conversation. we hope everyone can take something away from Dawna's expertise — whether you're queer, straight, or somewhere in between. 🥰
LINK IN BIO to listen. 🎧
want to work with Dawna? connect with her over DM!