The Bad Influence Podcast with Bjordan Banderas

🗣Think You’re Ready for a Relationship? Maybe You’re Not. Too many people jump into relationships without truly being ready. They enter with half-hearted commitment, unwilling to go all in. This lack of dedication leads to broken bonds, misunderstandings, and ultimately, failed relationships. Imagine your relationship as a high-stakes game. If you’re only playing halfway, you’re setting yourself up to lose. You’re not ready if you’re not willing to go all in and focus on the person you’re with. Without full commitment, your relationship lacks the foundation it needs to thrive. It’s time to evaluate your readiness. Commit fully. Focus on your partner with undivided attention and genuine effort. When you’re all in, you build trust, deepen your connection, and create a resilient bond that can withstand any storm. Stop half-assing your relationships. Take control. Show up fully for the person you’re with. When you commit wholeheartedly, you transform your relationship from ordinary to extraordinary. Your dedication is the key to a lasting, fulfilling partnership. Maybe you’re not ready for a relationship. Prove you are. Commit fully. Live boldly in your connection. The choice is yours. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and get ready to change your life. The Bad Influence Podcast isn’t here to play it safe, and neither should you. It’s time to take control, break out of that comfortable bubble, and make real moves. You want to level up? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #RelationshipAdvice #CommitFully #ToughLove #StrongBonds #PersonalGrowth #HealthyRelationships #TrustAndRespect #TransformYourLife #RelationshipGoals

🗣Still Hiding Behind a Mask Just to Fit In? Tear It Off and Show the World Who You Really Are! Too many people wear the mask of fitting in, sacrificing their true selves for acceptance. They mimic others, suppress their uniqueness, and lose sight of who they truly are. This constant façade leads to emptiness and unfulfilled lives. Imagine your identity as a vibrant painting. Every time you conform, you dull your colors and erase your true essence. The mask of fitting in doesn’t protect you—it suffocates your spirit and dims your brilliance. It’s time to drop the mask. Embrace your individuality. Celebrate what makes you different. When you live boldly and authentically, you ignite your true potential and inspire others to do the same. Stop conforming to others’ expectations. Own your uniqueness. When you let go of the need to fit in, you free yourself to create a life that truly resonates with who you are. Live boldly, and watch your unstoppable legacy unfold. Drop the mask. Live boldly. Unleash your true self today. The choice is yours. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and get ready to change your life. The Bad Influence Podcast isn’t here to play it safe, and neither should you. It’s time to take control, break out of that comfortable bubble, and make real moves. You want to level up? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #BeYourself #Authenticity #ToughLove #SelfEmpowerment #PersonalGrowth #NoMasks #UniqueSelf #LiveBoldly #TransformYourLife

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🎬Clip from episode 188🎬When your partner feels unheard, it’s not just annoying—it’s a direct hit to their sense of safety. If they can’t express themselves at home, where can they? Feeling dismissed by the one you love is a lonely place. The natural response? Shutting down. You end up with a partner who’s physically present but emotionally absent, stuck in surface-level chit-chats or searching for someone who truly listens. Think of your relationship as a garden—without water, the plants wither and die. Listening is that water. Without it, even the strongest bonds crumble under the drought of empathy. How do you water this garden effectively? Dive into our latest episode where we break down practical steps to transform your conversations and rebuild your relationships. Stop letting your bond dry up. Start watering it with genuine listening and watch your connection flourish. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and jump into this movement. Ready to change your life? Let’s go! Catch every raw, unfiltered episode of The Bad Influence Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Time to level the hell up! #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #RelationshipAdvice #EffectiveCommunication #ListenToUnderstand #SelfImprovement

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🎬Clip from episode 188🎬 I used to cut off my wife mid-sentence, get defensive at the slightest suggestion, and twist her words into personal attacks. I thought I was being direct, but the truth? I was being an asshole. Couples counseling hit me hard when the therapist revealed how often I interrupted and dismissed her, while she let me talk endlessly. That realization hit me like a freight train. Why did she stop sharing her problems with me? Because who wants to speak their truth to someone who interrupts and judges? It kills intimacy and breeds resentment. I couldn't unsee it. I changed—actively listening, respecting her pauses, and reflecting her words back. Guess what happened? We started really talking, truly connecting. Stop being the silent killer in your relationship. Listen, respect, and connect. It’s time to transform your communication and rebuild the trust you deserve. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and jump into this movement. Ready to change your life? Let’s go! Catch every raw, unfiltered episode of The Bad Influence Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Time to level the hell up! #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #RelationshipAdvice #EffectiveCommunication #NoMoreExcuses #SelfImprovement

🗣Still Letting Other People’s Bullsh*t Infiltrate Your Mind? Shut That Sh*t Down NOW! Too many people are internalizing others’ crap, letting their negativity cloud judgment and distort reality. You’re allowing others to define how you see yourself and your world. Imagine your mind as a fortress. Every piece of bullsh*t someone throws at you is a tiny crack, weakening your defenses. If you let it in, your entire fortress is compromised. Internalizing their crap means losing control over your own reality. It’s time to cut the sh*t. Keep your sanity intact by refusing to let others’ negativity seep into your mind. Focus on your own damn truth. Prioritize your mental clarity and emotional strength above all else. Stop letting others dictate your emotions and thoughts. Take control. Master your mind. When you reject their bullsh*t, you free yourself to process life on your own terms. Rise above their noise and show the world your true strength. Don’t let other people’s bullsh*t worm into your head. Master your mind. Unleash your unstoppable self. The choice is yours. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and get ready to change your life. The Bad Influence Podcast isn’t here to play it safe, and neither should you. It’s time to take control, break out of that comfortable bubble, and make real moves. You want to level up? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #MasterYourMind #StopTheBullsh*t #ToughLove #SelfEmpowerment #MentalStrength #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #NoLimits #TransformYourLife

🗣Still Letting Your Relationship Fade into the Background? Wake the Hell Up—Create Memories or Watch It Crumble! Too many relationships are stuck in a rut, where days blur into nights without creating meaningful memories. Without shared experiences, connections weaken, and the spark that brought you together starts to dim. Imagine your relationship as a garden. Without planting seeds of shared experiences, it withers and dies. The good memories remind you why you chose that person. Without them, you’re left with nothing but a barren landscape. It’s time to take action. Create memories that bind you together. Plan adventures, celebrate milestones, and embrace the moments that define your relationship. Investing in shared experiences reinforces the foundation of your connection. Stop letting your relationship become a forgotten chapter. Take control—create memories that last a lifetime. Remember why you fell in love and keep that flame burning. Without those good memories, your relationship will crumble. Create memories. Strengthen your bond. Ensure your relationship thrives. The choice is yours. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and get ready to change your life. The Bad Influence Podcast isn’t here to play it safe, and neither should you. It’s time to take control, break out of that comfortable bubble, and make real moves. You want to level up? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #RelationshipGoals #CreateMemories #ToughLove #StrongBonds #PersonalGrowth #HealthyRelationships #LoveAndRespect #TransformYourLife #RelationshipAdvice

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🎬Clip from episode 188🎬When you hog the conversation or dismiss your partner’s words, you’re sending a clear message: “Your perspective doesn’t matter to me.” It’s not just about words—it’s the eye-rolling, huffs, and impatient foot tapping that scream, “Hurry up so I can talk.” This selfish behavior disrespects and devalues your partner, killing intimacy and building resentment. Why bother opening up to someone who won’t let you finish a sentence? It creates a vicious cycle: one person dominates while the other retreats into silence, breeding misunderstanding and distance. It’s time to break free from this mental cage. Open genuine conversations, listen actively, and value each other’s voices. Transform your communication, rebuild trust, and reignite the intimacy you deserve. No more being strangers under one roof. Fix it. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and jump into this movement. Ready to change your life? Let’s go! Catch every raw, unfiltered episode of The Bad Influence Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Time to level the hell up! #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #RelationshipAdvice #EffectiveCommunication #NoMoreExcuses #SelfImprovement

🗣Still Holding Onto Forever? Wake the Hell Up and Live in the Now! Too many people are stuck chasing a forever that never comes, living in a fantasy and ignoring the power of the present. This obsession with the future blinds you to the opportunities right in front of you. Imagine your life as a river. Clinging to forever is like trying to stop the current—you get exhausted, lose your direction, and miss the beauty of the journey. Without living in the now, your relationships, your goals, everything starts to crumble. It’s time to break free from the illusion of forever. Embrace the now. Focus on what you can control today. Master your present, and watch how your future naturally aligns. Living in the moment fuels your personal growth and strengthens your relationships. Stop wasting your life waiting for forever. Own your present. Take control of your emotions, your actions, and your destiny. When you live in the now, you become unstoppable. Let go of the past and stop fearing the future. Your power lies in today.Stop clinging to forever. Harness the power of now. Transform your life today. The choice is yours. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and get ready to change your life. The Bad Influence Podcast isn’t here to play it safe, and neither should you. It’s time to take control, break out of that comfortable bubble, and make real moves. You want to level up? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #LiveInTheNow #EmbraceTheMoment #ToughLove #SelfEmpowerment #PersonalGrowth #NoLimits #MindsetMastery #TransformYourLife #StayPresent

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🎬Clip from episode 188🎬Ever find yourself stuck in one-sided conversations where you do all the talking, and your partner barely gets a word in? Today, we’re calling out one of the biggest silent killers in relationships: not letting your partner speak their truth. If this hits close, it means we're about to shake things up. Let’s be real—open, genuine conversations are the backbone of any solid relationship. But too many of you sabotage it by cutting your partner off, getting defensive, or using their words against them like ammunition. Sound familiar? It’s time to own up and change. In this episode, we’re tearing down bad listening habits, dissecting why couples struggle to give each other space, exploring the emotional toll of feeling unheard, and walking through practical steps to fix it fast. This isn't about polite nodding—it's about real communication that deepens trust. If you're tired of constant misunderstandings and the icy aftermath of shutting your partner down, you're in the right place. Transform your relationships. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and jump into this movement. Ready to change your life? Let’s go! Catch every raw, unfiltered episode of The Bad Influence Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Time to level the hell up! #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #HealthyRelationships #NoExcuses

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🎬Clip from episode 187🎬You start projects with fire, but when it gets tough or boring, you bail. Welcome to the graveyard of your half-finished dreams. It’s time to reprogram your mind and train your discipline muscle daily. Make your bed the moment you wake up. Do the laundry, fold it, and put it away before you even think about Netflix. Cook a meal, clean the dishes immediately. Develop a pattern of completion in every small task. If you can't handle the little things, how will you conquer the big ones? Discipline in the small builds momentum and integrity. It's a daily reminder that you're not a quitter and you can finish what you start. Stop making excuses. Start building unstoppable momentum. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and jump into this movement. Ready to change your life? Let’s go! Catch every raw, unfiltered episode of The Bad Influence Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Time to level the hell up! #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #StopProcrastinating #NoExcuses #Motivation #SelfImprovement

🗣Still Letting Your Emotions Control You? Take Back Your Power NOW! Too many people let their reactions spiral out of control, showing weakness and becoming easy targets. Every time you lose control, you give away your power and let chaos define you. Imagine your emotions as raging waves—if you let them crash over you, you lose balance and control. But what if you could master those waves? What if you could steer through the chaos with calm and confidence? It’s time to take control. Master your emotions, harness your inner strength, and show the world you’re not someone to mess with. Strength isn’t silent—it’s in how you handle the chaos. Train your mind, build your resilience, and let your power shine through every storm. Stop letting your emotions dictate your actions. Own your reactions. When you control your emotions, you control your destiny. Show them you’re unstoppable. Let your strength break through the noise and silence the chaos around you. Dominate your inner battles. Become unstoppable today. The choice is yours. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and get ready to change your life. The Bad Influence Podcast isn’t here to play it safe, and neither should you. It’s time to take control, break out of that comfortable bubble, and make real moves. You want to level up? You’ve gotta get uncomfortable. #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #MasterYourEmotions #UnstoppableMindset #ToughLove #SelfEmpowerment #MentalStrength #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #NoLimits #TransformYourLife

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🎬Clip from episode 187🎬Your brain is a master salesman, selling every excuse to stay in bed or keep scrolling. We’ve all battled that alarm—set it to wake up, only to hit snooze ten times. Enough of last year's bullsh*t. This is a new year. The rule is simple: When the alarm rings, you get up. Period. No excuses. Stop bullsh*tting yourself. Wondering how? Use the 3-2-1 rule: When procrastination hits, countdown 3-2-1, then move. Force yourself to act. No "I'm tired," no "later." The moment you hesitate, you've already lost. It’s time to break the cycle. Get up. Move. Crush your goals. Make this year different. Don’t just sit there scrolling—smash that damn follow button and jump into this movement. Ready to change your life? Let’s go! Catch every raw, unfiltered episode of The Bad Influence Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Time to level the hell up! #badinfluence #BadInfluencePodcast #StopProcrastinating #NoExcuses #Motivation #SelfImprovement