My Gay Dating Experiences

28/01/2025

Watching a gay movie with the BF.

28/01/2025

20/01/2025

Some nice socks we saw in Brighton on Saturday. I'm tempted by a couple of pairs.

18/01/2025

This made me LOL.

01/01/2025

It's been a year since my last update of my personal life / status. I signed off from posting dating updates last January having entered into a relationship with my boyfriend Gonçalo, since then I've just posted memes and funny stuff on here.

1 year has passed and I'm pleased to say we're still together and in love. It's great having now put the dating scene behind me. We now live together after he moved in with me 3 months later during March and has a local job. Believe it or not, there's not been one argument between us, which I still find difficult to get my head around. He's a joy to live with and we're an excellent match, not lazy in the slightest like some previous relationships. It all seems just so natural. Plus he gives the best ever cuddles. We went on holiday together during June to Madeira, along with this twin brother and his brother's boyfriend. We've attended a few Pride events, been on many day trips together plus a 3 day staycation in the west county during August.

A number of guys who I had dated previously reappeared out of the blue by messaging me wanting to meet up for special cuddles, some of which many months after we had last been in contact. Some were a little persistent and some were gracious enough to leave us be once I informed them I was now taken. Two of the guys I have a definite weak spot for have been in touch, namely Mason and Ryan. However, I've learnt from past experiences with them that it's for the best to steer clear and I'm certainly doing so now I'm taken.

Yim, the south Korean guy who visited for a 'date' for just over a week now lives in Manchester. He's on a study visa, so not permanent yet. It's kinda become clear over the course of the year that he's not ready to settle down for a meaningful relationship yet. The ex BF Martin is still a jealous little kid. Recently he was happily telling me about his 'straight' FWB but after he figured out I'm now with someone, he's now gone silent on me, which doesn't surprise me at all.

I'm still married due to delays with the husband in regards to the divorce. We've gone through a frosty period but have now made amends so I'm hopefully the divorce will be finalising in the near future. Looking forward to the future with my boyfriend.

Happy New Year fellow Gay Lords.

25/12/2024

Happy Christmas followers 🎉

13/11/2024

I can relate.