Hear Me Out: My Story

20/11/2023

I do have another season of my podcast coming out soon. I’ve been writing an episode about toxic masculinity in the homos*xual community.

Sneak peek: last weekend I went in the second of two bad dates. This guy wanted to talk about toxic masculinity and what it was. Once I explained it to him I felt the air change. Needless to say it didn’t work out. What a man child.

30/08/2023

I’m on the Unite app and website! #unite thank you Bryan Kosarek 😁🏳️‍🌈🧡

05/03/2023

In this episode, I tell a story of when I was in college. I'm not sure if I should make amends for this story. I pose several questions to myself and to the listener.

24/02/2023

In this episode I talk about the idea of making amends to someone. What does it mean? How do you do it? Should you do it? Does the story in this episode deserve an amends?

09/10/2022

This episode turned out to be emotional for me. No one has ever heard this story before.

In this episode I talk about someone who I thought of as my best friend. I was wrong. This is a story I've told no one before. It was pretty tough to get through. I'm sorry for the raw emotions in this one.

02/10/2022

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2021393/11420691

In this episode I talk about my first times. My first three times having s*x and how each time was unique. What each one meant to me and how each one helped shape me and allow me to be me and to be free with my s*xuality.

18/09/2022

I'm now accepting guests for interviews on my podcast!

https://calendly.com/hear-me-out-podcast/30min

28/08/2022

This is a tough one. S*xual abuse in any form is a terrible subject to talk about. S*xual abuse of a child is even more so. I know this has happened to many others and I feel for them. Please reach out if you need someone to listen.

This episode deals with the terrible issue or s*xual abuse. Specifically, s*xual abuse of a child. I tell everything I can remember. I talk about my process of coming to terms with being abused, how I have worked through some of it, and how I keep...

19/08/2022

This episode was difficult for me to prepare and to get through. It's mostly about my mother, but some about my sister, too.

I had been putting this episode off. I apologize for the delay. This was a tough one to write for and to get through. Much harder than I thought it would be. This episode is about my mother and the mental abuse and neglect I suffered because of he...

10/08/2022

The latest episode is out! Sorry it's a day late.

This episode I talk about gay dating apps. The pros and cons, patterns I've observed and the idea of masculine for masculine. I think probably the most important thing to talk about regarding dating apps is mental health. Are they doing more harm ...

09/08/2022

Second article for my podcast.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2902177/

This exploratory study used consensual qualitative research methodology () to analyze what gay men associate with masculinity and femininity, how they feel masculine ideals affect their self-image, and how masculine ideals affect their same-s*x relationships. ...

09/08/2022

Article for my next podcast.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7691247/

In the last years, dating applications (DAs) have had a significant impact on the way in which people seek s*xual and romantic relationships. Social groups, such as men having s*x with men (MSM), who can experience discrimination and social isolation, ...

07/08/2022

New episode this week!

07/08/2022

In case you missed last weeks episode.

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2021393/11065402

This episode takes a lighthearted look at dating as a gay man after 50. Questions that come up are: what are red flags, green flags and deal breakers for you? In the end, we have a right to love and to be loved.

25/07/2022

In this episode, I talk about my dad and some of the abusive things that happened to me over the years. Families are complex organisms with lots of stuff going on. Try to remember that you were a child and your parents were supposed to protect you...

19/07/2022