
27/02/2025
I started this page to share our personal experiences with books with the aim to inspire and encourage more children and parents to choose books. But as you may notice, the frequency of posts has gone way down. I did fall in love with children's books, and I still am. There is a popular opinion that if you do what you love, you will never have to work a day in your life. I like to disagree with that.
Because, although I like talking about books and taking pride in my children choosing books every time, it started to feel like work once I had my son and my daughter started drifting away from books. It didn't come naturally to me anymore.
My daughter used to pick up, not one, but at least five books at a time to read, every day. Slowly, her interest started shifting to drawing and other things, so she picked up books lesser and lesser. Also, We didn't have much time to read books together.
Last year, I started facilitating book-ish activities like read aloud and book reviews for the children in my apartment in the clubhouse library. These were free of cost. My daughter loved joining those sessions. Initially, more children preferred joining these. But, as other classes like cricket and swimming came in, children didn't have much time or interest for these sessions. As a result, I had to pause this for some time.
However, all this while, I never intended to force my daughter or the other children to choose books over their other interests. I didn't feel disappointed that they didn't do so. Because, isn't it natural that we like doing different things on different days? It could be a phase, or it could be a permanent shift. But, I want children (mine and others) to pick up a book on their own. I believe that's when they will enjoy reading and fall in love with books. I only hope to expose them to different kinds of books and give them opportunities to pick one.
I want to continue doing this, slowly and steadily, at my own pace. I will surround my children with wonderful books and dedicate more time to bonding with them over books.
Have you observed this with your child or other children, you know? What do you do?