Ralphs World of Love

29/08/2024

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Calling all the supporters out there!

Hi everyone, it is with great sadness that I have had to deactivate my personal account and autism page, formerly Autism Support Community.

There have been so many glitches just that after 11 years and 30,000 wonderful followers it is no longer a viable page.

I am absolutely gutted about this but im back to help supportl, fight for autistic people, families and professionals.

Also to have fun and share lighter memes and humour.

Now I ask for your help and support. I have zero followers, so if you could share this post or others and give me a good start that would be so amazing.

It is not easy to ask for help when you are dedicated to being the helper!

I have lost all my contacts and friends so please spread the word and help me out if you want to? No pressure to do so of course.

I have tagged in some of my favourite pages/advocates to say hello and would welcome your support

Kind regards

Brian 💙🙏

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25/08/2024

To much of this😞😞😞

The Fort Bend County Sheriff's Office said Ryan Akagbusi's body was found in a lake near his last known location.

24/08/2024

Love💜

24/08/2024

Sometimes all it takes is one🩷🌸

23/08/2024

Absolutely 💯

Pretty much 😄

19/08/2024

Yes👇

15/08/2024

Yes👇

💪

15/08/2024

Anything and everything for my Ralph 🩵

11/08/2024

Very nice💜

10/08/2024

Good Morning 💜🫶

07/08/2024

Again😞 Prayers for his family 🙏🙏

05/08/2024

Yep👇💜

04/08/2024

Love💜😊

01/08/2024

Can’t wait to see this💙

01/08/2024

This👇

💯

31/07/2024

Yep Yep👏👏

30/07/2024

Yes💜🫶

🤩

29/07/2024

Exactly 👏👏😂

27/07/2024

Truth 💜😊🫶

27/07/2024

This👇

Ooooo I'm in my feelings today, so here is what is on my mind!

It has always been my hope for Chloe, that she could be as independent as possible. This would make her have more capabilities to do things for herself that SHE CHOOSES and not what others choose for her and would put less demands on her caregivers (if I'm being honest). BECAUSE I can tell you, it has been my experience that people are less likely to want to work with higher needs and would rather work with individuals who can do everything for themselves.

For example....
It is "easier" to care for an individual without mobility issues
It is "easier" to care for an individual who can toilet themselves
It is "easier" to care for someone who can feed themselves
It is "easier" to care for someone who can bath/clean themselves
It is "easier" to care for someone who can talk, so you know what the heck they want without it being a huge guessing game
It is "easier" to care for someone who can do simple thing like open doors or do dishes or laundry

All of these are things my Chloe doesn't do for herself without assistance. Even though I think Chloe is easy to care for, some people just can't handle it, it's work, it's life changing. Chloe isn't the only one, there are many individuals who need a lot of assistance. I have seen individuals lose services, simply because they were non verbal and couldn't express themselves, so when they needed something they would grunt, or make vocal noises to let staff know they needed or wanted something. Staff was so annoyed by the noise and the constant need for attention, that the individual was dismissed from services.

This type of BS has to stop! WE, as "typical" people need to learn how to accept and guide and assist these individuals right where they are and quit trying to fix them and expecting them to be "normal".
.........RANT OVER

25/07/2024

Yes👏

Indeed, be kind. 💛

21/07/2024

That time you dressed up like Dustin Lynch🤠

20/07/2024

Can’t believe he will be 21 on the 24th💜🫶

20/07/2024

Always 💜🫶

03/07/2024

Yep✌️

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