Chris & Chia

13/08/2023

Be your own change

04/08/2023

Expected namin yung pagod at puyat.🐼😩 Pero di namin masyado naexpect na magiging ganito pala kasaya..💖 Enjoying all sides of this blessing (and responsibility).

Thank You Lord!

24/05/2023

Our very own, Tyrone.

D.O.B.: May 15, 2023 • 4:41PM

Sobrang dami na agad testimony of toughness ng batang to. 😆🥹

14/05/2023

"Sana all may Slater"

-eto Yung sumikat din na statement ng karamihan before eh.

This is just another reminder na :

📌Just because you like someone's content, or just because they're popular, doesn't mean you'll follow everything they say or copy their beliefs and principles.

📌Just because you're a "fan" doesn't automatically mean you have to be a blind follwer to their values and principles.

My wife and I watch some of their contents, but this particular belief of him (+ the other one where they say watching p**n is normal) is different from our principles. For us, it's NOT. And sobrang nakakaapekto siya sa marriage namin. Lalo na sakin bilang lalaki. But

📌This, and every other example reminds💭💬us of how important it is FOR US to have our OWN base of personal standards, principles and values. Something WE can stand on. Not based on emotions and or culture. A solid foundation.

While it is sad na maraming mamislead sa statement niya dahil sa fan base na Meron Siya. I cannot judge him. Yun Yung belief NIYA base sa evaluation NIYA sa experiences NIYA.

We don't agree with it. But instead of activating OUR hypocrite and self righteous side, we choose to look at it as an invitation to talk about it constructively.

05/05/2023

YES. THIS EXISTS. THEY exist.
Sharing for awareness.

04/05/2023

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Remember that!

03/05/2023

Karamihan Naman sa ganito talaga nagsisimula. Dahil Hindi Naman normal sa atin maexpose sa ganitong reality at maharap ito.

Sa ganito din kami nagsimula at nagstay ng maraming taon. Hanggang sa magsawa na sa sakit at bigat na Dala ng unresolved issues. Dun na kami nagstart magdecide na magbago and simulan ipractice Yung mga bagay na makakatulong samin mag grow.

Spoiler: Hindi madali. Pero worth it. 💔❤️‍🩹💝💝

Communication, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution is a skill. You have to practice it in order to build healthier relationships.

01/05/2023

Curious kami kung ano kayang magiging impact at effect sa batang 👶 'to:

*Sa pagiging intentional namin sa pagnurture sa kanya, physically, emotionally, mentally at spiritually.

*Na isasama namin sa pagpapakilala sa kanya yung heavenly father niya - si God. Kung kanino accountable Yung mga earthly parents niya. Para kapag dumating na Yung times at season na hindi magmamatch yung understanding at emotions namin. Makikita Niya Yung imperfections at pagkukulang namin. May tatakbuhan siyang Isa pang magulang na reliable at dependable para pagsumbungan at paglabasan ng confusion and frustrations Niya samin. 😅

Curious kami kung ano kayang magiging effect sa programming niya na lalaki siyang nakikita niyang, nagtutulungan Yung parents niya sa lahat ng tasks, Lalo na Yung maliliit at ordinaryo - Kasi Yun Yung palagi niyang makikita.

Lalaki siyang nakikita na Nag-uusap at nagkukwentuhan ng kahit ano Yung Nanay at Tatay niya, lalo na yung mga reflections sa mga bagay bagay. Nag-eexpress Ng love sa isa't isa, ng appreciation at gratitude. At pag sumasablay, owning up to their mistakes and giving that 'space for grace' to each other.

Curious kami kung ano kayang magiging effect at impact nun sa character at behavior niya na maging normal sa kanya kalakihan yung mga ganung bagay.

Habang lumalaki Siya magkakaron siya Ng foundation, context at concept ng mga bagay bagay Lalo na Yung Tama at Mali. Yung maenjoy Niya Yung kabataan niya pero Hindi Niya masisira Yung character niya along the way. 🥹

Curious din kami sa kung Ano kayang effect at impact sa development Niya na lalaki siyang Wala munang gadget. Instead, iba't Ibang creative activities yung magiging pampalipas oras Niya kasama kami.

Matututunan Niya yung lahat Ng klase ng laro sa labas at loob Ng bahay Ng walang gadget. 😍

Sobrang curious kami kung ano kayang magiging impact at effect sa kanya na matutunan Yung mga bagay bagay, mga lessons, principles, disciplines at wisdom na Hindi namin agad natututunan Nung mga Bata kami. Lalo na ako (Chris) 😅 Kaya sobrang daming dinaaanan na masusukal at wrong turns. 🫠 Buti nalang may Jesus. ✝️🙇🏻‍♂️

Sobrang dami pa naming questions and curiosity. Kaya kasama sa prayers namin na Sana masulit at masteward namin ng tama Yung panahon na ibibigay samin ni God kasama itong supling namin.

2-3weeks nalang dadating na na si baby. Naka set na Yung minds and hearts namin sa parehong emotions: sobrang saya at sobrang challenging. Ienjoy itong new "blessing" and at the same time gampanan Ng mabuti itong panibagong "responsibility".

Praying sa over all well being and safety nilang dalawa. 🙏🙇🏻‍♂️

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30/04/2023

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24/04/2023

"People are shocked to hear that my husband does night feedings and lets me sleep. They think it’s so sweet that he 'lets me' go to the coffee shop sans kids for an hour to work. And they can’t believe that he 'watches' the kids while I go for a long run to unwind at the end of the day. My husband does not *babysit* our kids. He is a parent. He’s in this thing called fatherhood. He’s not watching it play out but an active participant in raising his kids. From the piggyback rides to handling the tantrums, he’s there. Showing my kids what it means to be a father, a husband, and a man." ❤
📷: The Bluegrass Mom

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19/04/2023

13/04/2023

It’s a process. And the peace, joy and harmony on the other side is so much worth it.

10/04/2023

Because it's soooo easy to get lost. 🥹😵‍💫

05/04/2023

THIS IS AWKWARD

And difficult to talk about.

Pero sabi nga "You cannot heal from what you don't reveal".

Bukod pa dun, " " nga tayo dito diba. 😁😅

I am convicted to talk about it and bring it to light. Dahil sobrang bigat at sobrang destructive nito kapag tinago lang sa dilim. Nakakasira ng isip, ng puso, ng pagsasama niyong mag-asawa, at lalo na, nakakasugat sa puso at kalooban ng anak (BELIEVE ME).

Sa video na to, ieexpose ko yung SARILI KOng experience at struggle at kung paano to MUNTIK NA sumira sa pagsasama naming mag-asawa.

https://youtu.be/5qAofs3399Q
https://youtu.be/5qAofs3399Q

Baka naman?😃
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01/04/2023

DO IT NOW ❤️
“Later"
- Talk to you later.
- I'll call you later.
- See you later.
- We'll walk later.
"I'll tell you later."
We leave everything for later, but forget that "later" does not belong to us.
Later, our loved ones are no longer with us.
Later, we don't hear them and we don't see them.
Later, they are just memories.
Later, the day becomes night, the force becomes helpless, the smile becomes a grimace, and life becomes death.
"Later" becomes "too late."

01/04/2023

PART 1: https://youtu.be/O4FjFQfz_lA
PART 2: https://youtu.be/vF52QHbbbu4

31/03/2023

In the context of "triggers" in marriage:

3 vital questions to journey together for the the answers:
1. Are we communicating correctly?
2. Have I been curious enough and learned you enough to know what triggers you? And
3. Have I gone to FIND the voice that won't?

30/03/2023

D.I.Y. sa Bahay + Golden 🌥️ Hour

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29/03/2023

For more than 10 YEARS, Hindi nagwork yung silent treatment, Yung tiisan, Yung "ikain nalang natin to", Yung alak at LALONG LALO na "Ibang makakausap at makakaunawa (na opposite s*x)"..

FULL STORY on our YT channel.
PART 1: https://youtu.be/O4FjFQfz_lA
PART 2: https://youtu.be/vF52QHbbbu4

26/03/2023

PRIDE & EGO

Dalawa sa nagpahirap sa pagsasama namin ng mahigit 10 YEARS. At guilty ako (Chris) na ako talaga yung MAS may ganitong toxic trait.

Paulit-ulit na heartaches, tiisan, sumabatan at hanapan ng mali.

NAKAKASAWA TALAGA. SA TOTOO LANG..

KAYA DIVORCE NALANG NATIN.

FULL STORY on our YT channel.
PART 1: https://youtu.be/O4FjFQfz_lA
PART 2: https://youtu.be/vF52QHbbbu4

17/03/2023

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