08/09/2024
"This is my mother in-law, this woman has been living in my house & causing a lot of problems.
I'm honestly tired of her complains...
I insisted to my husband that, i do not want this woman to visit us in the first place but he insisted on her coming to stay with us bcoz, he only wants her to come over so he can take her to a proper hospital here in the city & also observe her for some time before letting her go back to the village.
Ever since this woman arrived my home, It's been from one complain to another, she keeps complaining I sitt around the house doing nothing while her son, does all the washing, cooking & cleaning. I've calmly tried severally to explain to her on several occasions that, we have always lived like this even before she came to the house but she wouldn't listen as she's always judging things from her old & out dated ancient thoughts about marriage..
Before i got married to her son, i made it clear to him that, I'm not the type of wife that wash, cleans nor cooks. Infact, he knows this. He went on to marry me coz he accepted the conditions. I grew up in my father's house not doing these things & I'm not ready to do them either in anyman's house. I do not believe in that school of thought which thinks marriage means you the wife has to become a sl_àve or a servant just to please a man. Women, do not have to undergo all that suffering all in the name of marriage. When they're people that can be employed & get paid to do these chores.
My mom never did these things so, it wouldn't start with me just coz i want to stay married. Dad always makes sure that, we have servants to take care of all house choreses & I've always grown like that since birth. I've asked my husband on several occasions after our wedding to get the services of a house help & he refused. So, sInce then, he's been doing all these chores without complaining. Besides, It's my home & i should be the one to run it, not my mother in-law. Her son choose to do these things, i never for once f0rced him to..
This woman, pushed me to the wall by her constant nagging & it f0rced me to h'!t her but, when my husband came he sided with his mom, without caring to know my own side of the story, i was p,issed. So i, actually parked out of the house & left for my daddy's home, hoping that my husband will at least show up to apologize, About 2 weeks gone, i was still at my parents house, waiting for my husband to come & apologize to me after, he & his mom had wronged me, but non of them showed up. So, I decided to go over & find out for myself what was happening in my home. only for me to get there & find another woman in my kitchen having on my husband's t-shirt. There's absolutely no doubt. I'm 100% sure that, my mother in-law is responsible for it, he must have convinced my husband or brought the lady herself to him just to keep me out of the way.
The most annoying thing ever is that, when i wanted to react, my mother in-law & the stranger m0unt3d on me & bundled me out of my own husbands house. Can you believe, I'm back to to my parents house & it's been over a week gone & my husband still hasn't showed up. Honestly, All my life, I've never been in this mood, I'm so very p_issed as i type this; What's marriage in the first place to me,!? when my daddy is very wealthy. I lack absolutely nothing in my daddies house. Mama Victor ! pls note this; I only got married to your son bcoz i love him. What does he have as compared to my daddy in the first place. I now understand why most women do not want their mother inlaws in their home, it's bcoz of mother-in-laws like this w0,-màn here!
Kindly help me x-p0se this w0,màn, believe me, she's such a té,_rible person"
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