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17/01/2025

"The source of healthy boundaries is self-love and self-respect. When you learn to love yourself, you are less likely to put up with people who don't love you back."
~ James Clear

Learn to love self so you can love your spouse and others well.

Want to strengthen your marriage this year? Here are 5 simple but powerful ways to build connection and intimacy:Set cle...
06/01/2025

Want to strengthen your marriage this year? Here are 5 simple but powerful ways to build connection and intimacy:

Set clear goals together—stay aligned as a team.
Pray together often—keep faith at the center.
Make date nights a habit—prioritize quality time.
Share your ideas for growth—what will you try this month?
Show appreciation daily—kindness strengthens love.

Start today! Small steps can create lasting change in your relationship.

Which of these will you start doing this week? Drop your thoughts in the comments!

Strong marriages thrive on the little things.Love isn’t about the big, showy moments it’s in the everyday acts of kindne...
03/01/2025

Strong marriages thrive on the little things.

Love isn’t about the big, showy moments it’s in the everyday acts of kindness, patience, and care. Take time today to appreciate the small ways you and your partner connect.

How do you show love daily? Share your thoughts in the comments! 👇

As Sobering as it sounds, many marriages reach a Make-or-break point this time of year. Here’s why👇-Holiday Stress: Jugg...
09/12/2024

As Sobering as it sounds, many marriages reach a Make-or-break point this time of year. Here’s why👇

-Holiday Stress: Juggling responsibilities and expenses

-Financial Strain: End of Year bills and Holiday spending

-Unmet Expectations: Disappointments during the festive season.

-Emotional exhaustion: Burnout from a long year

-Unresolved Conflict: Lingering issues resurface under pressure

-Family dynamics: Tension with extended family.

-End of Year reflection: Evaluating life and relationships.

This season can be challenging but it’s also a chance to rebuild and reconnect.

How do you keep your relationships grounded during tough times?

Relationships can be tough, but communication is key to healing and growth. Let your partner know you see their efforts,...
04/12/2024

Relationships can be tough, but communication is key to healing and growth. Let your partner know you see their efforts, their pain, and their worth.

Struggling doesn’t mean giving up—it means working through the hard times together. Let’s normalize vulnerability and intentional conversations.

What would you say to your partner today to strengthen your bond? Drop it below

Let’s Celebrate together, tagging each other along with this simple little steps; - Decorate Together – Use this time to...
03/12/2024

Let’s Celebrate together, tagging each other along with this simple little steps;

- Decorate Together – Use this time to bond create memories, or even a new tradition.

- Prioritize Each Other –schedule quiet time just for you two, heartfelt conversation can work wonders.

- Be a Team – Tackle the to-do list together and celebrate small wins along the way.

- The season is about love – not just for others but for each other too.

What’s one tradition you share with your partner during the holidays? Drop it in the comments or tag them to share the joy

Follow link in Bio for more interesting conversation on the Grey Couch.

What were your Expectations before Marriage, what are the Realities now? Let’s hear about it.😊- Marriage is Work: it’s n...
21/11/2024

What were your Expectations before Marriage, what are the Realities now? Let’s hear about it.😊

- Marriage is Work: it’s not just about finding the right person, but about building and maintaining the relationship.

- Realistic Expectations: Avoid unrealistic expectations. Marriage is a Journey with ups and downs.

- The Power of Self-Work: Personal growth and development are essential for a strong marriage.

- Adapting to Change: Relationships evolve over time. Be willing to adapt and grow together.

- The Role of Faith: While Faith can provide guidance, it’s important to put in the work to build a strong relationship.

Let’s discuss more in the comments section below 👇

Tired of relationship drama? Slide 2: Communication is key. Talk it Out! Slide 3: Empathy is essential. Put Yourself in ...
20/11/2024

Tired of relationship drama?

Slide 2: Communication is key. Talk it Out!

Slide 3: Empathy is essential. Put Yourself in your Partner’s shoes

Slide 4: Set healthy boundaries. Set Limits, Save your Sanity.

Slide 5: Self-care is self-love. Love Yourself First.

Want to learn more about how to navigate the complexities of modern relationships. Hurry!! Click on link in Bio for more.

Slide 1: Tired of relationship drama. Slide 2: Communication is key. Talk it Out! Slide 3: Empathy is essential. Put You...
19/11/2024

Slide 1: Tired of relationship drama.

Slide 2: Communication is key. Talk it Out!

Slide 3: Empathy is essential. Put Yourself in your Partner’s shoes

Slide 4: Set healthy boundaries. Set Limits, Save your Sanity.

Slide 5: Self-care is self-love. Love Yourself First.

Want to learn more about how to navigate the complexities of modern relationships. Hurry!! Click on link in Bio for more.

When you believe in the best you attract it, Start each day Visualizing Success, happiness and Peace and watch as your r...
11/11/2024

When you believe in the best you attract it, Start each day Visualizing Success, happiness and Peace and watch as your reality mirrors that Peace you so desire in your Relationship.

Click on the link for more of this Juice conversation https://youtu.be/VOB1Z8eCsyU

Or should I? Today's episode touches on the unspoken questions we ask ourselves sometimes. Marriage as an abstract conce...
26/07/2024

Or should I?

Today's episode touches on the unspoken questions we ask ourselves sometimes.

Marriage as an abstract concept is easy. Really easy.
But bring in two individual reactants and the product you get out of it can never be the same as the things that went into it.

Chemistry is a subject. And a process. Most reactions in chemistry require heat (and time) and catalysts.

Take a listen and think about this for your own unique relationships.👇🏾

https://youtu.be/tCtHZutjvGc?si=3QcEltHr1AqDIs0S

Thank the good Lord for long dead French Philosopher Blaise Pascal who reminds us that "people are more generally persua...
19/07/2024

Thank the good Lord for long dead French Philosopher Blaise Pascal who reminds us that "people are more generally persuaded by reasons they discover themselves than by those handed to them by others" 🤔

We hope you make one of those discoveries on the couch today about invisible labor and how it plays a role in relational dynamics. 🤓....

Because one of us just discovered the concept of emotional or invisible labor. Guess which one¿😂.

Today's episode had the other laughing in different languages as we say.

On a more serious note, are you truly aware of all the invisible labor that each party contributes to making the home and the relationship work?

Assume nothing. appreciate everything.... and learn to find out what the everything entails for each unique relationship and the parties therein.

Check out today's epi here 👇🏾👇🏾

https://youtu.be/O3T87HGALnA?feature=shared

Happy Friday. What's the purpose of a question? Do you ask to confirm your assumption or do you ask to find out somethin...
12/07/2024

Happy Friday.

What's the purpose of a question?

Do you ask to confirm your assumption or do you ask to find out something you didn't know?

That is the question 🤓

These different approaches to asking questions can impact communication in relationships.

Ask us how we know...

Today was all about discussing a question and answer tic that we have in our marriage and how this can impede communication.

Of course this depends on who your partner is. But then, what would be the fun in that if you both spoke and did things the same way 🤔🤔

Are there communication shortcuts that work or don't work for your relationship?

Tell us all about it after you listen in on our latest epi here...👇🏾👇🏾

https://youtu.be/DRKJ_0UVntA?si=BSBShu_IrO2UXFgj

In which we talk about using the right currency to show your partner love. Hearts are expensive and you need to know how...
07/07/2024

In which we talk about using the right currency to show your partner love.

Hearts are expensive and you need to know how to pay well for them.

Listen in on the latest episode of our channel here 👇🏾👇🏾

https://youtu.be/C_gX5ebNK8Y

This week on the couch we’re  talking about  parenting 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/BTvXWOvPFeI. We share 3 ways that our kids ha...
01/07/2024

This week on the couch we’re talking about parenting 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/BTvXWOvPFeI. We share 3 ways that our kids have tried (and are probably going to try again) to get under our skin and what we do to navigate instances. It’s summer here in the States and so the “distraction” that school offers is gone. Let’s turn those periods of folly and frustration into fun. Don’t let them come between you and your spouse. Check it Out.

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