J Merije

15/05/2024

If milk gets bad, it becomes yoghurt. Yoghurt is more valuable than milk. If it gets even worse, it turns to cheese. Cheese is more valuable than both yoghurt and milk.

And if grape juice turns sour, it transforms into wine, which is even more expensive than grape juice. You are not bad because you made mistakes. Mistakes are the experiences that make you more valuable as a person.

Christopher Columbus made a navigational error that made him discover America. Alexander Fleming’s mistake led him to invent Penicillin. Don’t let your mistakes get you down.

It is not practice that makes perfect. It is mistakes we learn from that makes perfect !

13/02/2024

FACT ABOUT SHY PEOPLE

1. They can talk and chat openly even crack jokes with you on social media but in real life they are ice😩

2. They fit pass you for road simply because of their shyness🙍🏻‍♀️. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding🤦‍♀️

3. Very calculative, clingy, little touch of hot temper, romantic with one they love. They hardly fall in love but once they fall, it's over because they don't joke with that person😘

4. They hardly cheat💯. Before you see them, dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people and always like staying alone👌🏽.

5. They hardly talk in the midst of people but talkative when they are with their lovely one.
People usually sees them as too proud people but they are not.

6. They can endure alot but don't push them or take them for granted because once they decide🤔, you have lost them kpatakpata✌🏽.

7. They are too emotional😥. They don't easily forget bad things someone did to them🌝.

8. They hardly share their problems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through😒

9. You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them🤗
They are unpredictable and stubborn😎

If you're online, gather here let's know ourselves.
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Indicate your country pls 🙏🙏🙏🙏

31/12/2023

Nokia CEO ended his speech saying this “we didn’t do anything wrong, but somehow, we lost”.

During the press conference to announce NOKIA being acquired by Microsoft, Nokia CEO ended his speech saying this “we didn’t do anything wrong, but somehow, we lost”.

Upon saying that, all his management team, himself included, teared sadly.

Nokia has been a respectable company. They didn’t do anything wrong in their business, however, the world changed too fast. Their opponents were too powerful.

They missed out on learning, they missed out on changing, and thus they lost the opportunity at hand to make it big.

Not only did they miss the opportunity to earn big money, they lost their chance of survival.

The message of this story is, if you don’t change, you shall be removed from the competition.

It’s not wrong if you don’t want to learn new things. However, if your thoughts and mindset cannot catch up with time, you will be eliminated.

Conclusion:

1. The advantage you have yesterday, will be replaced by the trends of tomorrow.

2. You don’t have to do anything wrong, as long as your competitors catch the wave and do it RIGHT, you can lose out and fail.

3. To change and improve yourself is giving yourself a second chance.

4. To be forced by others to change, is like being discarded.

5. Those who refuse to learn & improve, will definitely one day become redundant & not relevant to the industry.

They will learn the lesson in a hard & expensive way.

ALWAYS IMPROVE YOUR SELF

I LOVE YOU 🙏❤️

22/11/2023

22/11/2023

MORAL OF LIFE
By reaching this stage in life, the lion can no longer hunt, kill or defend itself.
It roars and roars until it weakens, then it will be surrounded by the Hyenas, nibbled and devoured.
They won't even let him die to be dismembered.
Life is short, what happens to the lion also happens to us humans.
We won't be young forever.
We won't always be the strongest.
We won't always be on top.
We won't always be the boss.
We won't always be the king of the jungle or king of life.
As long as God and life gives us opportunities, let's be humble, remove arrogance and mistreatment.
Because sooner or later, life will pass us a bill and we will reap just what we sow.

17/11/2023

13/10/2023

WHAT IS THE REAL TRUTH OF LIFE?

Life is not a straight line. The sooner you realize this, the happier you become.

Nothing is permanent. Money isn't permanent. Your dog isn't permanent, and you're certainly not permanent. Even truth evolves.

You were designed to adapt to change so as to allow evolution to occur with little or no resistance.

Adapt to nature, and live longer.
Argument yields no fruit even if you win.

Even the perfect answer doesn't solve the world's problems.

Death is certain, regardless of how we feel about it or how we try to resist it.

No one is perfect, therefore everything created by human is not perfect.

There are certain things we can't explain, and there are certain things that need no explanation.

Life is constantly fighting you because you're subconsciously fighting life and have never found the perfect harmony with the universe.

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13/10/2023

The habit of being more serious can put you in depression.

2. The habit of getting angry too much can take away your self-esteem.

3. The habit of procrastination can put a lot of pressure on you.

4. The habit of thinking bad about others all the time will make you negative.

5. The habit of being available all the time will reduce your respect.

6. And the habit of laziness can kill your dreams.

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13/10/2023

What psychological tricks you can use on anyone?

If you think someone is lying, look at them and say nothing.

If someone insults you, pause for a second, look at them, and ask ‘Are you okay?’

When you want to ask for a favour, start with ‘I really need your help’. People don’t like the guilt of not helping someone out.

If you’re in an argument, don’t scream, stay calm. It gives the other person the impression that you are winning.

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13/10/2023

Relationships are great.

But know this,

As a man, every serious struggle you face in life, you will face alone.

When the assailant pulls a knife and aims to kill you.

Your woman cannot help you.

You will help her solve her biggest battles.

She will send you love as you head off to face your own.

Women are a luxury. Self-ability is a necessity.

I fully depend on my woman for nothing.

When I was in jail, I did not expect her to pay the bills.

I do not expect her to run the empire.

The things she does for me are things I could easily do for myself.

When men say their wife is their number one ally, this is a man with minor struggles.

When the mafia is threatening to shoot my mother in the head.

When I’m in the ring with broken bones.

When I was stabbed.

I cannot call my girlfriend and ask for “help”.

You need BROTHERS for war.

Ask a woman directly.

Do you want to help me with my problems?

Look in her eyes.

Look how she instantly is less attracted to you.

“Um. What problems?”

Fix your own and fix hers. She doesn’t belong in a life or death battle.

That is a man's world.

13/10/2023

Do not date while you're broke, in terrible shape, miserable, or your life is chaotic. Get your life in order first.

2. You should either have a supportive partner or no partner; there's no third option.

3. The best revenge is getting yourself to a place where you no longer care about it.

4. If someone can't acknowledge their flaws, they lack self-awareness and pose a danger.

5. Just because a relationship has lasted a long time doesn't mean it's successful.

6. Self-respect is derived from self-control, not from pleasing others or seeking external validation.

7. Don't waste your time and energy on social media, overthinking, or meaningless relationships.

8. If you always believe your happiness is somewhere else, you'll never find it where you are.

9. Life doesn't wait for you to be okay; get up every day and keep pushing through.

10. Free yourself from society's advice; most people don't know what they're doing.

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12/10/2023

1. Not everyone will like you. That's life.
Be proud. You survived the days you thought you couldn't.

Don't go broke and impress broke people.
Make peace with your past, so it won't screw up the present.

Stop telling people everything. Most people don't care, and some secretly want you to fail.

Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

Never underestimate the power of stupid people.

No one is going to figure out your life. It's your responsibility.

Sometimes you win. Sometimes you learn.
If nobody helps you, do it alone.

Take your financial life seriously. Money is a defense to a lot of challenges.

Be selfish with your time. A lot of people don't deserve it.

You can't go back and change the beginning. But you can start where you are, and change the ending.

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12/10/2023

“A very poor woman called a radio station asking for help from God. A non-believer who was also listening to this radio program decided to make fun of the woman. He got the woman's address from the radio station and told his secretary to carry a large amount of foodstuff to the woman. However, he gave the following instruction, "When the woman asks who sent the food, tell her that it's from the devil.''

When the secretary arrived at the woman's house, the woman was happy and grateful for the help received. She started putting the food packets inside her small house. The secretary then asked her, ''Don't you want to know who sent the food?''

The woman replied, ''No, I don't care because when GOD orders, even the DEVIL obeys!

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07/10/2023

OCEAN OF WISDOM

A poor man always think the rich man made his wealth out of luck.

And the rich man believes the poor is poor because he is lazy.

A young lady who married very early thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character.

A man who just graduated and get a job immediately thinks he is smarter than others.

While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people who lived a wayward life.

If only the poor knew the price the rich paid to get to top and if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going through, none will ever form a theory about each other.

If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success let him mind his business if it is easy to be rich he wouldn't have been poor.

And if the rich won't help the poor grow at least they should not kill the spirit of a struggling man.

If only you know what people endure or fight behind the scene you will always thank God for your life. Until you walk in people's shoes, You will never know how hard the journey is.

Help each other grow!!!
Mock less, envy no one.
and love one another.

23/09/2023

Lol, the honey show no mercy to her😳😮
🥴🤣😅

23/09/2023

Let me tell you something.

As soon as you die, your identity becomes "body or co**se". People use phrases like "Bring the body or co**se", "Lower the body or co**se in the grave yard" etc. People don't even call you by your name, whom you tried to impress your whole life...... so, live a life to impress the creator not the creation.

Take chances. Spend money on things you love... laugh till your stomach hurts. Dance even if you're too bad at it. Pose stupidly for photos. Be child-like.

Never eeeeeeeeeever let life inside you die while you're still alive just because of creation(people)