The Heartbreak Heroine

01/03/2022

Are you dating someone who is extremely busy? Do you want more time with them but every time you ask, you feel as though you are annoying them or asking too much? Being with someone who has limited time can feel very lonely sometimes. Here are some tips so you can make a decision whether or not this relationship is for you....

https://bethanyhiska.com/2022/03/02/how-to-deal-with-a-busy-boyfriend/

Are you dating someone who is extremely busy? Do you want more time with them but every time you ask, you feel as though you are annoying them or asking too much? Being with someone who has limited…

28/02/2022

The nature of my book means that I had to write about what went wrong in my childhood, in order to make people feel comfortable enough to relate to me. What I put in that book had nothing to do with revenge or trying to make my parents feel guilty, it was simply necessary to show where I had come from....

https://bethanyhiska.com/2022/03/01/what-i-love-about-my-parents/

The nature of my book means that I had to write about what went wrong in my childhood, in order to make people feel comfortable enough to relate to me. What I put in that book had nothing to do wit…

11/02/2022

For years now, I have been intent on starting my own business. I have started and failed at many businesses, spent so much money and learned so much along the way. I've spent almost every single day consumed with how I can be my own boss, so that I can have the lifestyle I want and be at home with my babies whenever I choose....

https://bethanyhiska.com/2022/02/11/are-you-the-fly-that-keeps-hitting-the-window/

For years now, I have been intent on starting my own business. I have started and failed at many businesses, spent so much money and learned so much along the way. I’ve spent almost every sin…

06/01/2022

It's the age-old comment most wives have heard from their husbands throughout their marriage, but why is the nagging accusation so harmful? In the beginning of any relationship, things seem great. You listen to each other, your thoughts and feelings are valued and it feels really good to have someone by your side that you can rely on to always hear you out and take care with your heart....

https://bethanyhiska.com/2022/01/07/all-you-do-is-complain-the-common-relationship-ruining-comment/

It’s the age-old comment most wives have heard from their husbands throughout their marriage, but why is the nagging accusation so harmful? In the beginning of any relationship, things seem g…

02/01/2022

A healthy, happy marriage is key to a fulfilling life. Your closest relationship is the one that has the biggest influence on how you feel and function in every day life. Marriage takes work, and it's easy to let things slide and take things for granted when you're juggling work, kids and life in general. So today I have put together a list on how to keep your husband happy!...

https://bethanyhiska.com/2022/01/03/5-ways-to-make-your-husband-happy/

A healthy, happy marriage is key to a fulfilling life. Your closest relationship is the one that has the biggest influence on how you feel and function in every day life. Marriage takes work, and i…

08/12/2021

This is from my book 'Yes Daddy', due to be released 2022 Money. Oftentimes, women in s**tty abusive relationships use money and security as an excuse to why they cant leave. Whether you’ve gotten accustomed to the lifestyle that your man provides for you, and you believe you will never reach that level on your own, or you are a stay at home mum with small children and you have no idea how you would be able to support yourself and your children alone – do not use money as an excuse to stay somewhere toxic or dangerous. ...

https://bethanyhiska.com/2021/12/09/how-can-i-leave-with-no-money/

This is from my book ‘Yes Daddy’, due to be released 2022 Money. Oftentimes, women in s**tty abusive relationships use money and security as an excuse to why they cant leave. Whether yo…

02/12/2021

Sure, we all know how important our parents are but it seems for females, fathers are much more important than we might realize. The bond a father shares with his daughter in most situations helps to shape who she is as a person and who she turns out to be. Research is becoming quite mounting regard...

29/11/2021

Have you ever slept with a woman only to have her ghost you a few days later? Do you feel like your significant other isn't satisfied in the bedroom? Discover all the tips and tricks, including anatomy and diagrams to help you understand what a woman needs to or**sm and create deeper intimacy. In this guide you will discover: Getting To Know The Vagina…...

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Have you ever slept with a woman only to have her ghost you a few days later? Do you feel like your significant other isn’t satisfied in the bedroom? Discover all the tips and tricks, includi…

29/11/2021

We have all been affected by the Covid 19 pandemic in some way. It has affected us all around the world emotionally, physically and financially. When it first started I thought it was like something out of a sci-fi movie, it was scary and new, something our generation hasn't really had to deal with before. Who would've thought two years ago that we wouldn't be able to fly overseas or even interstate for a holiday?!...

https://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/30/coping-with-stress-during-covid/

We have all been affected by the Covid 19 pandemic in some way. It has affected us all around the world emotionally, physically and financially. When it first started I thought it was like somethin…

29/11/2021

It can be hard to fathom how someone who is apparently so in love with someone in a relationship can then jump into another relationship seemingly straight away with no feelings of remorse or tact. I see this happening a lot with 'happy' couples. One minute you think they're going to last forever, and the next they are uploading pics of themselves with a new partner....

https://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/29/how-to-cope-when-someone-moves-on-quickly/

It can be hard to fathom how someone who is apparently so in love with someone in a relationship can then jump into another relationship seemingly straight away with no feelings of remorse or tact.…

24/11/2021

Today is the international day for the elimination of violence against women. Now, out of everything I do in my professional career, the path that is most heart centred for me is the path of helping women realise their worth and stop letting abusers destroy their lives. I have suffered at the hands of so many male abusers in my life that I can't even count them all on one hand....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/25/international-day-for-the-elimination-of-violence-against-women/

Today is the international day for the elimination of violence against women. Now, out of everything I do in my professional career, the path that is most heart centred for me is the path of helpin…

23/11/2021

I believe that singing can be an amazing way to express emotions and deal with trauma, I know it definitely has been therapeutic for me. Vocal training is something I have done with clients for a long time. Ever wondered how to sing like a pro? When I was a little girl, I dreamed of being a singer! I took many singing lessons over the years but my voice just wasn't quite strong enough to break into the market....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/24/how-to-sing-like-a-pro/

I believe that singing can be an amazing way to express emotions and deal with trauma, I know it definitely has been therapeutic for me. Vocal training is something I have done with clients for a l…

23/11/2021

Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few sideways thrown in too. When things go wrong or don’t go as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and doubt ourselves, it can be tough to deal with. After all, we all want things to go well and to end up as ‘winners’. Life will always throw challenges at us, and we can’t control everything....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/24/how-to-deal-with-failure/

Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few sideways thrown in too. When things go wrong or don’t go as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and doubt ourselves, it …

18/11/2021

Due to popular demand by both men AND women (teehee!), I have created an intensive guide to helping your woman reach or**sm. You can find it here How To Make A Woman Or**sm - CLICK TO BUY NOW!

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/18/how-to-make-a-woman-or**sm/

Due to popular demand by both men AND women (teehee!), I have created an intensive guide to helping your woman reach or**sm. You can find it here How To Make A Woman Or**sm – CLICK TO BUY NOW…

02/11/2021

I had the pleasure of being interviewed by the amazing Frederick Krasey about my book coming out in the next few months ‘Yes Daddy - Why You Choose As****es and How To Stop Fixing’ I discuss a bit about my history and my reasons for writing the book as well as some exercises you can do to build your self love (and things to look for in a partner. Enjoy! Bethany x Watch The Interview Here

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/02/yes-daddy-an-interview-with-fkc-health/

I had the pleasure of being interviewed by the amazing Frederick Krasey about my book coming out in the next few months ‘Yes Daddy – Why You Choose As****es and How To Stop Fixing’ I discuss …

01/11/2021

Today, I turn 37 years old. I still remember when I thought 30 was over-the-hill, and used to tease my mum that '35 was closer to 40!' (little s**t..) So today I decided I was going to make a list of things I wish I knew about getting older when I was 25. You are an idiot You don't know much of anything at all....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/11/02/i-dont-want-to-get-old-things-i-wish-i-knew-at-25/

Today, I turn 37 years old. I still remember when I thought 30 was over-the-hill, and used to tease my mum that ’35 was closer to 40!’ (little s**t..) So today I decided I was going to …

28/10/2021

I’m personally not a fan of looking at the bigger picture. In fact, I have learned that the best way to deal with overwhelm, is to only look at what’s right in front of you. I have 3 kids, a business, a blog, I write and record music, I am writing a book and I go to the gym most mornings....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/29/how-to-deal-with-burnout-and-overwhelm/

I’m personally not a fan of looking at the bigger picture. In fact, I have learned that the best way to deal with overwhelm, is to only look at what’s right in front of you. I have 3 kids, a busine…

27/10/2021

I get this question a lot, and the simple question is - you can't! The only way to make a woman fall in love with you is if there is an interest there in the first place. At least a friendship and common ground. Once you have established that, then these tips will help her fall head over heels for you and your amazing self!...

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/28/how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-you/

I get this question a lot, and the simple question is – you can’t! The only way to make a woman fall in love with you is if there is an interest there in the first place. At least a fri…

27/10/2021

If you want to move ahead in your life, you should replace the negatives in your life with positives. This article will show you how to take the negative influences in your life away and replace them with positives, so you will have increases in morale, happiness and productivity. Focus on the positive for success and peak performance. Most of us are not aware of the amount of negative influences in our lives....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/27/replacing-the-negatives-in-your-life-with-positives/

If you want to move ahead in your life, you should replace the negatives in your life with positives.  This article will show you how to take the negative influences in your life away and repl…

25/10/2021

I am creating this page because every time someone googles 'Bethany Hiska Husband' (which is apparently googled a lot haha!) it comes up with a picture of me and someone I loathe. Someone who has tried to ruin my life for several years, someone who was the catalyst for me starting this blog. So I'm hoping this will come up instead eventually, my ACTUAL husband. My amazing, unicorn of a man whom I love dearly. My J.

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/26/bethany-hiska-husband/

I am creating this page because every time someone googles ‘Bethany Hiska Husband’ (which is apparently googled a lot haha!) it comes up with a picture of me and someone I loathe. Someo…

25/10/2021

I have been called a lot of things in my life. I have had people say that I am vain, that I've had too many boyfriends, that I don't make enough time for my family and friends, that I have turned my back on God and even that I do 'too many things'! (Imagine being good at too many things! Criminal!) …...

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/26/how-to-not-give-a-fck-what-people-think-of-you-yes-even-family/

I have been called a lot of things in my life. I have had people say that I am vain, that I’ve had too many boyfriends, that I don’t make enough time for my family and friends, that I h…

24/10/2021

To some people who aren't familiar with the Law Of Attraction or higher selves, this may sound like a crock of 'woo-woo' s**t. I totally get that, because I used to think the same. Going through my journey as an overweight, smoking addict who used to do nothing but hide inside my dingy studio apartment and watch DVDs, has proven to me that higher selves and LOA is real, very real....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/25/how-to-connect-to-your-higher-self/

To some people who aren’t familiar with the Law Of Attraction or higher selves, this may sound like a crock of ‘woo-woo’ s**t. I totally get that, because I used to think the same…

18/10/2021

I have been dealing with family court stress for over 7 years now, and I tell you what, it doesn't get any easier. I often sit back and reflect on how I'm feeling, and although my life is pretty amazing there is always an undercurrent of stress and frustration - and this is due to the court process. It is extremely stressful when you have a lawyer that you don't even know, trying to convince a group of other people you don't know that you are a horrible parent, or a horrible person....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/19/how-to-deal-with-family-court-stress/

I have been dealing with family court stress for over 7 years now, and I tell you what, it doesn’t get any easier. I often sit back and reflect on how I’m feeling, and although my life …

18/10/2021

BY BETHANY AKA MISS BETTY DOLL First of all, let me start by saying that not all traits are found in every partner, and that growing together is of vital importance. I think there exists this false narrative now, what with Tinder and other forms of instant gratification, that we either don’t need high standards, or that the perfect partner exists, if only we search hard enough....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/19/5-traits-of-an-ideal-partner/

BY BETHANY AKA MISS BETTY DOLL First of all, let me start by saying that not all traits are found in every partner, and that growing together is of vital importance. I think there exists this false…

14/10/2021

In my time counselling couples, there is almost always one consistent problem that comes up. 'My husband always looks at other women'. Of course, I can understand why this would feel like a betrayal of trust and perhaps make you feel insecure, but there are biological reasons this happens, and it may not be the end of the world. In reality, men look at other women....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/15/why-does-my-husband-look-at-other-women/

In my time counselling couples, there is almost always one consistent problem that comes up. ‘My husband always looks at other women’. Of course, I can understand why this would feel li…

11/10/2021

You may have had a rough childhood and blame your upbringing for the mistakes you have made in your life. If you've ever thought 'How can I forgive my parents for the damage they have done to me?', this article is for you. Our parents have the very important job of raising us from infants. What they do and say has almost everything to do with how we experience and see life as a child and also as an adult....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/12/how-to-forgive-your-parents/

You may have had a rough childhood and blame your upbringing for the mistakes you have made in your life. If you’ve ever thought ‘How can I forgive my parents for the damage they have d…

06/10/2021

Toxic and abusive relationships can be very hard to get out of. They are physically, financially and mentally draining. Relationships of this kind can have severe consequences for your mental health, and can even be fatal in some circumstances. Not only are they damaging for you, but they can have lasting effects on your children. If you are dealing with controlling behaviour, infidelity, constant put downs and are losing your sense of self and confidence - you are in a toxic relationship....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/07/how-to-get-out-of-a-toxic-relationship/

Toxic and abusive relationships can be very hard to get out of. They are physically, financially and mentally draining. Relationships of this kind can have severe consequences for your mental healt…

06/10/2021

I have seen the same cycles with my clients over and over again when it comes to ending relationships. So many people say they wish they got out of relationships sooner, but it's hard when you have invested so much time and money into it. If you are wondering whether or not your relationship is at it's end - I've put together some signs that your relationship is ending....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/06/how-do-you-know-your-relationship-is-over/

I have seen the same cycles with my clients over and over again when it comes to ending relationships. So many people say they wish they got out of relationships sooner, but it’s hard when yo…

01/10/2021

An open relationship is really defined by the people who are in it. In general terms, it means that although a couple may be together, they are allowed to have s*x with other people. It's basically a non-monogamous relationship. Some couples say s*x with other people is allowed, but only if no emotions are involved, whereas others accept that their partner dates and loves others....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/10/01/what-is-an-open-relationship/

An open relationship is really defined by the people who are in it. In general terms, it means that although a couple may be together, they are allowed to have s*x with other people. It’s bas…

29/09/2021

If there's one thing I do know about, it's how to make a long distance relationship work! My partner is from NZL, and we actually met online and started dating while we were living in different countries. We spoke almost every single day on the phone for months, flying back and forth when we could. It was sustainable enough, but we did have a lot of teething issues....

http://bethanyhiska.com/2021/09/30/how-to-make-a-long-distance-relationship-work/

If there’s one thing I do know about, it’s how to make a long distance relationship work! My partner is from NZL, and we actually met online and started dating while we were living in d…