Dominant & Submissive

08/13/2023

05/03/2023

Responsibilities of a Dominant

Your responsibilities:

1. Trust:
Your sub's submission is a gift. It is your responsibility not to violate or abuse his/her trust in you. Whenever there are decisions you must make, you need to keep both you and your sub in mind, not just yourself.

2. Help:
It is your responsibility to help your sub find what is already inside of him/her, and not try to create it for him/her. Before turning your attention toward your sub, you need to be the best man/woman you can possibly be. Bare in mind, this does not mean perfection, but it does not mean whimsical either.

3. Leadership:
Your responsibility is not to take your leadership lightly and not to bail out if/when things get heavy. It is your responsibility to recognize that everyone is different, and your sub may not respond like your co-workers, friends, etc. You need to employ creativity rather than formula.

4. Communication:
You know the keys to bringing out the best in your relationship lie in accumulating knowledge, communicating openly, and approaching the situation and your sub without hatred or animosity. It is your responsibility to guard your sub's mental health-- to not guess or try to read “between the lines”, but to communicate openly with him/her.

5. Safety:
It is your responsibility to make sure your sub is safe. You must be responsible for finding out what your sub’s true limits are, and staying within the boundaries those limits describe. You have a responsibility to discuss any punishments after its conclusion and to be open to any criticism that may come from your sub regarding the way things were handled.

6. Rules:
It is your responsibility to involve your sub in the planning of his/her rules and their punishments, and to find out as much as possible about his/her desires and fantasies. To not be arrogant, but to actively seek help from your sub in discovering those areas in which you can improve. To not be misleading about yourself or your abilities.

7. Punishment:
It is your responsibility to be stern. He/She may not like the punishment, but he/she will always respect you for it. You will continue your support and affection, especially while you are punishing him/her. You must never withhold your support and affection from him/her as a means of punishment. When you punish your sub, you must do so for the good of your sub, not just for the fulfillment of your own desires.

01/23/2023

09/04/2022

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08/17/2022

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Found this and thought it was the most beautiful and perfect definition of what being a little is all about. As I’ve had more experience as a daddy Dom it’s helped me to see that not only is submission a gift that should always be cherished but the...
Found this and thought it was the most beautiful and perfect definition of what being a little is all about. As I’ve had more experience as a daddy Dom it’s helped me to see that not only is submission a gift that should always be cherished but the submission and unconditional love given by a little is perhaps even more precious and should always be earned and never expected or demanded.
Many people I think sadly confuse little space with something s*xual and it’s not, it’s simply her at her most vulnerable and open. It is her when all her walls have been let down, it is the real her the one that she keeps hidden from the world and if you are given the privilege of seeing that side of her, then you should care, nourish and protect her.
Always remember that whether it is a d/s or dd/lg relationship, submission should always be earned and respected. It is about trust and developing a real and true connection with your sub or little and that takes time and effort and if your not willing to give both, then you certainly don’t warrant that gift of submission.
We may all be individuals but one thing that is key for everyone is to treat people with respect and how you would like to be treated. Just because a girl is a little or a submissive, don’t think you can demand their submission, or because they enjoy rough s*x and pain that you can abuse and hurt them. Kink and B**M are never about abuse and sadly I hear too many stories where girls are hurt and abused under the cover of being dominated and it’s just wrong. A true Dom will never really hurt you (fun pain doesn’t count), he will never demand your submission, he will never force you to do something you don’t want to (that’s why it’s called consensual non-consent) he will always look after you, treat you with respect even when calling you his little slut, protect you and always keep you safe, even when his hand is round your throat and when it is over and the marks are still fresh he will care for you. These are not special or complex acts, they are part of what being a Dom and a daddy and a basic human being are all about

08/15/2022

EXACTLY 💯

08/15/2022

Randy Codner 💯

08/15/2022

HELL YEAH Randy Codner 💯