Raising Grace Podcast

12/10/2023

In going through some old files to clean up my computer, this video came up. I don't remember making the video but apparently I did and now I'm crying.

This is our adoption profile book from 2012. Since that time we have adopted 2 children and went through fertility treatments to have a 3rd. Our life is now full, but in the moment of making this video, we felt empty. To those who are trying to conceive - however you plan on becoming a parent, remember that the work you do on yourself in this moment will prepare you for the work it takes to be a parent. Receiving children doesn't replace the sadness of infertility - and it shouldn't. Infertility was a trauma that almost took my marriage and my life. The children were not my cure, but they have made my life more fulfilling and worthwhile. I am still angry I had to go through so much to become a mother, but I will never regret the work I put in to become THEIR mother.

This is our profile from 2012. Since that time we have adopted 2 children and went through fertility treatments to have a 3rd. Our life is full, but in the m...

11/10/2023

I had an incredible time discussing open adoptions on It’s Time to Adopt with Lucrece Bundy (Lucrece Bundy). Thank you so much, Lucrece, for the warm welcome, engaging conversation, and laughs along the way.

Sharing about open adoptions is close to my heart. Thank you for inviting me on to your platform to spread awareness and shine a light on this journey.

If you'd like to tune in, you can find the episode here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/how-to-establish-boundaries-in-an-open-adoption/id1690396005?i=1000630675314

18/08/2023

In the latest episode of Raising Grace podcast, we dive into the complexities and themes of adoption with an adoptive parent who shares their journey. Here are three key takeaways from the episode:

- Emotional relationships require sustained effort in setting boundaries and maintaining them.
- Adoptees can respond to a "primal wound" caused by adoption through rebellion or people-pleasing, and parenting tailored to their uniqueness can help them develop introspection and attunement skills.
- The current adoption narrative needs to expand beyond the fairy tale idea and embrace all of the emotions, including the tragedy and grief.

Listen to the episode to learn more about the speaker's journey and their insights on adoption.

You can find this episode at www.sheilakchester.com or wherever you listen to podcasts.

16/08/2023

Today we have a very special guest joining us. She is an author, speaker, and deep in the world of adoption. Her journey has led her to advocate for open adoption and delve deep into the emotional landscapes accompanying this unique parenting experience. We explore the complexities of adoption from multiple perspectives. Lori shares her personal journey to parenthood through adoption and building relationships with birth parents. We cover the concept of open adoption and the need to expand the current adoption narrative to include the full range of emotions. Join us for an insightful and thought-provoking discussion on adoption and parenting.

Lori Holden, a veteran parent of two young young adults, writes at LavenderLuz.com and hosts the podcast Adoption: The Long View. She’s the auth

25/07/2023

🎙️ 𝑁𝑒𝑤 𝑝𝑜𝑑𝑐𝑎𝑠𝑡 𝑒𝑝𝑖𝑠𝑜𝑑𝑒: "Raising Grace Podcast: A Journey of Adaptation"

I had the pleasure of speaking with the incredible Viviana Colelli on the latest episode of the Raising Grace Podcast. Viviana shared her journey as a parent, delving into her experiences and the cultural nuances that have shaped her perspective. Here are three key takeaways from our conversation:

1️⃣ Empathy and Communication: Viviana candidly discussed how her perspective on parenting shifted after living in a different country and encountering various parenting styles. She emphasized the importance of empathy, understanding that children are smart and should be communicated with, rather than solely expected to obey.

2️⃣ Navigating Judgment: Viviana courageously opened up about feeling judged by family, friends, and even her husband for her parenting approach. Despite this, she shared her commitment to vulnerability and empathy towards her children's emotions, while still maintaining necessary boundaries.

3️⃣ The Vitality of Self-Care: Viviana highlighted the significance of prioritizing self-care as a parent. Through therapy, she discovered the importance of taking time for herself, challenging societal stereotypes, and connecting with like-minded individuals who support her journey.

Join us as we dive deeper into this enriching conversation with Viviana Colelli on the Raising Grace Podcast. Our discussion encompasses cultural parenting, self-care, and finding support in a community. You don't want to miss it! 🎧

Listen to the full episode here: https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/episode-22-viviana-colleli

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18/07/2023

📢 New Podcast Alert! 🎙️✨

🌟 Join us as we embark on a heartfelt journey with Janell Trotter-Hirschoff, a true inspiration who fearlessly shares her extraordinary story as a parent. In this gripping episode, she opens up about the challenges and triumphs of raising a child with a chronic illness, reminding us all of the incredible strength and resilience that lies within us.

💔 Janell delves deep into the emotional rollercoaster of parenting a child with cancer, but her unwavering faith in God has guided her through even the darkest of times. With remarkable courage, she sheds light on her own battles with mental health, painting a raw and authentic picture of navigating life's ups and downs while caring for her children.

🗝️ Through her captivating storytelling and vulnerability, Janell imparts invaluable wisdom and insights on finding hope, acceptance, and joy amidst adversity. She powerfully reminds us that there's no instruction manual for parenting a child with a chronic disease, but by giving our best and creating a loving, supportive environment, we can make a remarkable difference in their lives.

💞 This episode is a beautiful tapestry of touching anecdotes and relatable experiences, reassuring us that we are never alone in our struggles. Janell's powerful words resonate deeply, leaving a lasting impression on our hearts.

🎧 Tune in now to discover the transformative power of faith, the importance of mental well-being, and the pursuit of purpose when life throws us curveballs. Don't miss out on this incredible episode filled with hope, courage, and the reminder that love conquers all.

Listen wherever you get your podcasts or click here: www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/episode-21-janell-hirschoff

Janell Trotter Hirschoff

13/07/2023

📢 Exciting news! 🎉 In this week's episode of the Raising Grace Podcast, we have an incredible guest, Gabrielle Crichlow, the owner and director of A Step Ahead Tutoring Services. Tune in to gain valuable insights on how to support your child's education journey and foster a positive relationship with school. Here are three key takeaways from the episode:
🔸 Understanding the challenges: Gabrielle shares her firsthand experiences growing up in Trinidad and Tobago and how her parents' expectations differed from her own. We dive into the differences between the American and Trinidadian education systems, including varying formats and spelling variations. Gain a deeper understanding of the struggles many students face, such as low self-esteem and anger, and how these issues impact their overall well-being.
🔸 Navigating the education landscape: Discover Gabrielle's approach to helping students value their education, even if they don't love school. She shares practical strategies like personalized attention, encouraging questions, and modeling problem-solving, allowing students to better grasp challenging subjects. Learn the importance of setting individualized goals and how they can serve as powerful motivators for students.
🔸 Finding the middle ground: As a parent, it's crucial to strike a balance between being strict and flexible when it comes to homework and academic responsibilities. Gabrielle dives into creative methods that can help motivate children, such as incorporating video games and using fun resources like YouTube. Explore the benefits of meeting kids where they are and understanding their motivations, leading to better engagement and a positive learning environment.

Join us for this enlightening conversation with Gabrielle Critchlow, where we explore how to support our children's education journey and nurture a love for learning. Remember, every child is unique, and understanding their perspective is key to helping them succeed. Don't miss this episode of the Raising Grace Podcast! 🎧🌟

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Gabrielle Crichlow A Step Ahead Tutoring Services

11/07/2023

On this episode of Raising Grace Podcast, we have the privilege of speaking with Gabrielle Crichlow, the owner and director of A Step Ahead Tutoring Services. Gabrielle shares her journey from being born in Trinidad and Tobago to moving to the United States, and how her experiences in the American education system shaped her perspective on school. Gabrielle discusses the differences she noticed between the American and Trinidadian education systems, from date formats to spelling variations. She opens up about her parents' generation, who view school as simpler back in their day, and the challenges they perceive in today's education system. School-related issues, such as low self-esteem, anger, and yelling from parents, are plaguing many students. As an educator and tutor, Gabrielle's role is to help students navigate these challenges and understand the importance of education. While she acknowledges that not all students will love school, she teaches them to view it as important and helps them set and achieve their own goals. By understanding students' motivations and creating personalized strategies, Gabrielle supports students in their educational journey. Gabrielle emphasizes the impact of outside factors on a student's attitude towards education, such as family dynamics, social influences, and health. She believes in meeting students where they are and fostering an environment of love, grace, and patience. Using creative and fun methods, like incorporating videos and games, can help motivate kids to engage with homework. Finding a balance between being strict and flexible, Gabrielle encourages parents and educators to understand kids' motivations and create middle ground solutions, like allocating time for video games in exchange for completing homework. By meeting kids in their own space and understanding their motivations, we can create a better engagement with homework and ultimately support their overall well-being. Join us on this insightful episode of Raising Grace Podcast as we dive deep into understanding the challenges students face in their educational journey and how we can support them to achieve their goals.

On this episode of Raising Grace Podcast, we have the privilege of speaking with Gabrielle Critchlow, the owner and director of A Step Ahead Tutoring

28/06/2023

Being a parent is challenging, but having twins in the NICU while also having kids at home can be a whole other level of difficulty. It takes a toll on parents emotionally, physically, and financially. The stress of balancing the needs of their premature babies with the demands of their other children can be overwhelming. But these parents are warriors, fighting through the exhaustion and the heartache to give their children the best possible care. To all the parents out there facing this challenge, we see you and we support you.

To listen to this episode and more by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.

24/06/2023

Food is an integral part of socializing and events, making it challenging for those with allergies. Austin Andersen prepares with allergy-friendly treats and researches extensively to find safe food. As with many moms of kids with allergies, she has also struggled with being polite and assertive when informing others about their child's allergies.

Austin's story is a testament to the importance of being organized, doing your research, and having a supportive network. It is hard work, but it's worth it when your child's health is at stake. Managing motherhood and allergies can be exhausting, but it's also a beautiful journey of learning and love.

Listen to this episode and more by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to your podcasts.

22/06/2023

Did you know that eczema may be an early sign of food allergies in infants? According to recent studies, infants with eczema are more likely to develop food allergies, especially if they have a family history of allergies. For Austin Andersen, a mother of allergy kiddos, eczema was the first sign that her daughter had allergies. "Her eczema started the day we brought her home from the hospital," she said. As a parent, it's important to be aware of potential signs of allergies and to seek medical advice if you have any concerns.

Listen to this episode and more by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.

19/06/2023

Living with food allergies can be challenging, especially when the world around us revolves around food. Schools and churches are no exception. As Austin Andersen, a parent of allergy kids, puts it, 'I have to be very prepared to go out into the community with my allergy kiddos.' It's crucial for parents to take extra precautions and be well-prepared when heading out. Let's raise awareness and support families managing food allergies!

Listen to this episode and more by simply searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.

14/06/2023

Don't we all have self doubt as mothers? I know I do. The many mom friends I've had over the years have also expressed self doubt. I think that is just a natural part of being a mother. Are we doing enough? Too much? In a counseling session the other day my therapist said to me, the fact that you are worried tells me that you are doing a good job. Maybe worry is just part of the mom-game. Some days we just need to give ourselves a little grace and like Jessica says... realize we are all pretty freaking great!

You can find this episode by searching RAISING GRACE wherever you get your podcasts. Or download it directly on my website at https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/jessica-tagler

NAOMI House

13/06/2023

📣 Exciting news! 📻🎙️ We have a brand new episode of Raising Grace Podcast featuring Cheryl Barker 🎉 In this episode, she shares her story of healing and giving herself grace as a foster parent of over 100 children in her lifetime!! 💕 Don't miss out on this honest and heartwarming episode! ❤️

Listen wherever you get your podcasts or go directly to my website at https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/cheryl-barker

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11/06/2023

Let's support each other on this transformative path of forgiveness and share the wisdom that forgiveness brings. Together, we can create a world filled with compassion and understanding! 🤝💕

To listen to this podcast, simply search "RAISING GRACE" wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also listen directly on my website: https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/jessica-tagler

NAOMI House

10/06/2023

Remember to be kind to yourself. Take it one day at a time and focus on the present moment with your child. You're doing an amazing job!

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09/06/2023

🌈✨ Each day, the men and women at the NAOMI house get to witness the immense growth and restoration within these precious souls, as they find solace and guidance in their journey towards a brighter future. 🌟🌱

Join us in spreading the message of love, compassion, and faith that thrives within the walls of NAOMI House. Together, we can make a lasting impact! 🤝❤️

To listen to this podcast, simply search "RAISING GRACE" wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also listen directly on my website: https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/jessica-tagler

NAOMI House

08/06/2023

As a mother of a special needs daughter, had to entrust her care to someone else. Of course she worries about the quality of care and attention she'll receive. It's got to be emotionally draining to constantly question if she is making the right decisions for her daughter. We have to trust others and give our children the chance to learn and grow. It takes a village to raise a child, especially one with special needs.

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07/06/2023

Can you imagine how scary it must be for a mother when her infant child has a unexpected severe allergic reaction to food, especially when the husband is out of town? For Austin Andersen, this very moment was the beginning of her understanding of food allergies and the importance of being prepared.

As a parent, your job is to take care of everyone, but it's crucial to remember that you need to take care of yourself too. Food allergies can be scary, but they can be managed.

Listen to this episode and others by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.

07/06/2023

🎙️ In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of talking to Sandra Cooze.

👉 Sandra shared how recognizing that triggers come from within oneself is key to a more peaceful life, and how her coaching program focuses on helping both partners understand the reasons for intimacy triggers for women who have experienced sexual trauma. She encouraged parents to believe their children when they confide in them about incidents related to family trauma or bullying and to put their child's needs first. We learned how Sandra's coaching program for couples or individuals struggling with intimacy issues can help improve their relationships. Additionally, we delved into how to respond to bullying with compassion and support for the child. 💖

💕 Lastly, we also learned how Sandra met her Canadian partner while still residing in Germany and having a slow-growing, long-distance relationship before getting married. It's a beautiful story that proves how trust and patience can lead to a meaningful relationship. 💞

🙌 We hope this episode provided you with valuable insights into ways to strengthen relationships and respond to sensitive situations with compassion and empathy. Don't forget to use and . 🎧

To listen to this podcast, simply search for RAISING GRACE wherever you listen to podcasts, or go directly to my website at https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/sandra-cooze.

Happy listening!

Sheila

- Importance of honesty and owning up to mistakes - Teach the child the importance of apology and make amends - Coaching program for couples or individuals who struggle with intimacy issues - Focus on understanding intimacy triggers and empowering individuals to feel back in control - The role of ef

06/06/2023

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Sheila Chester is a mother of three children, two of whom came through adoption and one through fertility treatments. Her 11-year struggle to fulfill her dream of becoming a mother is what drives her to learn more about other parents. What makes us so unique? As parents, it sometimes feels like we a...

06/06/2023

🌈 Let's come together to support and uplift these amazing children who have experienced more in their short lives than we can imagine. 🤝💙

To listen to this podcast, simply search "RAISING GRACE" wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also listen directly on my website: https://www.sheilakchester.com/episodes/jessica-tagler

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04/06/2023

As a mom, it's easy to get caught up in taking care of everyone else and forget about taking care of yourself. But it's important to remember that your well-being matters too. Don't feel guilty for taking time to prioritize your health and happiness. Remember, when you take care of yourself, you're better equipped to take care of your loved ones.

Listen to this episode and more by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to your podcasts.

03/06/2023

Parenting a child with food allergies can be tough, but Austin Andersen knows the importance of being prepared. She doesn't expect others to always accommodate her family's needs, so she brings safe food along. It's just one way she makes sure her children stay healthy and happy.

Listen to this episode and more by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.

02/06/2023

As a mother of a special needs daughter, has to juggle the recommendations of different specialists and decide which options are best for her. I'm sure it can be overwhelming, but I know that with research and support from her community, she can make the right decisions for her child. To all the parents out there going through similar challenges, know that you're not alone. Let's support each other and our children on t

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01/06/2023

Being a stay-at-home mom is rewarding but can be challenging, especially when managing your children's allergies. Austin Andersen knows firsthand the guilt that comes with taking time for self-care. It's essential to prioritize your mental and physical health to be the best mom you can be. And remember, supporting other moms is vital in this journey. We're all in this together!

Listen to this episode and more by searching for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to your podcasts.

31/05/2023

Last month, on the podcast, we talked about a book that focuses on the practical aspects of parenting and covers everything from crisis management to lighter topics like getting kids to stop using pacifiers. The author, Marjie Shanken-Hadad spoke with real working moms to get their input and created a guide that any parent can use to instill self-esteem, confidence, and resilience in their children. The book is called "The Power of PR Parenting" and it's available on Amazon or at any major bookstore or chain. Not only does the book provide practical guidance, but it also includes a FREE PR parenting workbook with exercises to help parents create a tangible action plan. Plus, we talked about creating a fun morning routine to starting the day off in a good mood. Check out the episode for more tips and tricks! Direct Link: https://shorturl.at/lpAJZ or wherever you get your podcasts

30/05/2023

🚨🎧🎙️ NEW PODCAST ALERT 📢🎉
In this episode of Raising Grace, Jessica Tagler shares her inspiring journey as a mother and her work at Naomi House, an emergency placement shelter and foster home for Native American children in Northern Arizona. She delves into her own experiences, including the challenging decision to give her daughter up for adoption as a teen, and later raising her two children as a single mom. Jessica highlights the importance of forgiveness, self-grace, and the need for children's homes on every reservation to support Native American kids facing significant trauma. She also reflects on her mistakes and offers encouragement to mothers grappling with self-doubt. Throughout the episode, Jessica's insights shed light on the vital role of mothers and the need for resources to uplift Native American children. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation.

To listen 👂to this podcast🎧, simply 🔎search for 🚨RAISING GRACE🚨 wherever you listen to podcasts. 💻📱🎙️

29/05/2023

Prioritizing the important things in life can be challenging, but it's essential to find balance. By identifying what matters most, you can let the rest of your life fall into place. Focus on the things that bring you joy and fulfillment, and let the rest fill in around it. Remember, it's not about doing everything perfectly, but rather finding a balance that works for you.

To listen to this episode simply search for Raising Grace Podcast wherever you listen to your podcasts.

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