Red Flags Everywhere Podcast

15/07/2024

We sit down with the dynamic Attorney Symone Redwine, a powerful trial attorney, law professor, aspiring comedian, and legal commentator. Known for her blend of sharp legal acumen and bold Southern attitude, Symone shares her insights on the red flags people often ignore in legal disputes. From the necessity of prenups to the importance of background checks, Symone provides invaluable advice for navigating relationships and legal matters. She also opens up about the red flags she overlooked in her own life, offering lessons on self-awareness and understanding personal and partner capacities.

Our guest today is Symone Redwine (she/her): a powerful trial attorney and law professor with beauty, brains, and a bold Southern attitude. A Cornell Law graduate, she's also a legal and social commentator, frequently appearing on TMZ, ABC News, FOX, and her YouTube channel "Girl, Is That Legal?" where she provides insightful and often humorous commentary on a range of issues from celebrity legal drama to relationship matters. Website: https://symoneredwine.com/ , IG: http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep-20-order-order-in-the-court-of-love?tdest_id=4236483

11/07/2024

Today we welcome the multi-talented Matt McConkey, actor, writer, and co-host of the "Homophilia" podcast and host of "Just Like Matt." We dive into a candid discussion about mental health, including James' recent breakthrough and recovery. Matt gives us his tips for breaking relationship patterns through his acrynom HABITT. Plus, Matt shares his journey to finding lasting love and offers tips for trapping the perfect husband!

Our guest today is Matt McConkey (he/him): a TV writer and actor whose credits include KENAN and AMERICAN AUTO. He's also the host of the podcasts "And Just Like Matt" and "Homophilia" for World of Wonder. IG: http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep-19-back-in-the-habit-a-hot-boy-summer?tdest_id=4236483

10/07/2024

We're tackling a topic that's all too familiar: the delicate dance between our friends and our significant others. Join us as we dive deep into the murky waters of friend-partner compatibility. Why is it that sometimes the people we love most just can't seem to get along? Are there underlying tensions we're unaware of, or is it simply a clash of personalities? Is it possible to maintain harmony between our significant other and our friends, or are we doomed to forever play referee in our own lives? And who better to help us unravel these complexities than James' best friend/sista friend, Nnekay Fitz-Clarke, a returning guest, librarian, and all-around crafty woman, Nnekay shares her insights and experiences. Plus, we'll find out if there were any exes of James' where she saw the red flags and knew it wouldn't work out.

Our guest today is Nnekay FitzClarke: former co-host and creator of Minority Korner Podcast, she is an all-star librarian, she calls herself an all-around sassy broad who likes to think she knows a thing or two. IG: http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep18-what-do-you-do-when-you-hate-your-friends-beau?tdest_id=4236483

10/07/2024

In this captivating episode of Red Flags Everywhere, we embark on a celestial journey and esteemed astrologer Renee [Last Name] delve deep into the cosmic mysteries, exploring how the ancient wisdom of the zodiac can illuminate the path to love while uncovering the red flags that may lurk along the way.
From fiery Aries to sensitive Pisces, each astrological sign carries its own unique energy that shapes the dynamics of love and relationships. Renee shares her profound insights, guiding listeners through the intricacies of compatibility, communication, and commitment as dictated by the positions of the planets.
But amidst the cosmic harmony, there are warning signs - red flags that demand attention in matters of the heart. Through engaging anecdotes and practical advice, Renee unveils the subtle cues that can signify potential challenges or mismatches in romantic connections.
Join us as we unravel the secrets of the universe, decode the language of the stars, and empower ourselves with the knowledge to navigate love's cosmic dance with clarity and confidence. Tune in to Red Flags Everywhere and discover how astrology can serve as a powerful tool for understanding and enhancing your romantic relationships.

Renee is a silly, q***r, poly, vegan, neurospicy, anticapitalist astro-storyteller in her final year of Astrology University's Professional Astrologer program. She uses astrology to help people better understand and accept themselves and step onto a path of greater authenticity and joy.

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You can find Renee online at astrologybyrenee.com and on socials including instagram, tiktok, Facebook, and youtube. She offers 1:1 and couples counseling which you can schedule on her website, astrologybyrenee.com. http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep17-can-the-stars-align-for-you?tdest_id=4236483

01/05/2024

What are the worst professions to date? Brace yourselves as we spill the tea on which careers have us expertly dodging red flags left, right, and center. Curious about the link between career choices and relationship success? Prepare to have your questions answered as we dive deep, shedding light on our own experiences, as well as the data, uncovering the professions with the highest divorce rates and unveiling the hidden warning signs you might encounter along the dating journey. We're not here to bash anyone's job title just here to shed light on the potential pitfalls and empower you to navigate the dating scene with confidence and grace! Plus we get honest- were there times when the red flag was US? And everyone talks about setting boundaries- but how do you do it!?!?

Guest: Rene Colvert (she/her):: powerhouse in the world of entertainment, having created shows for some of the biggest platforms including Amazon Studios, Disney +, Headspace, iHeartMedia, Imagine Entertainment, Moonbug Entertainment, SiriusXM, Spotify, and World of Wonder. With a passion for joyful inclusion, Rene brings her unique energy and perspective to every project she touches. For seven years, Rene hosted “Can I Pet Your Dog” podcast, capturing the hearts of listeners with her infectious enthusiasm and unwavering love for our furry friends. A true dog lover at heart, Rene's motto is simple: if she sees a dog, she's going to pet it. And don't underestimate her—she's pretty sure she can run faster scared than you can mad.https://redflagseverywherepod.com/episodes

01/05/2024

Ever felt like your workplace is more of a battleground than a professional environment? Us too! Inspired by Nickelodeon's 'Quiet on Set' documentary, we're diving into workplace dynamics. From toxic environments to red flags, we're sharing experiences, discussing why we’ve stayed, and like any bad relationship, this signs it’s time to leave when that workplace is no longer serving you. With insights from experts and our guest, Mackenzie Green, we uncover signs of toxicity and the importance of a supportive workplace culture that fosters belonging, we explore what makes a workplace thrive. Tune in to learn how to recognize when it's time to walk away and find your green light in the workplace!
Guest: Mackenzie Green (she/her):: Mackenzie is the Vice President of Social at Future Media, bringing over 12 years of social media and digital marketing experience with brands like Betches, Telemundo, and BET+. She holds degrees from the University of Miami and Columbia Business School. Mackenzie is actively involved in philanthropy, serving on the US board for the Shoebox Project and the board of the Girls Scouts of Greater Los Angeles. She's also a co-host on The Taylor Strecker Show and hosts The LA Comic Con Podcast. Mackenzie is a proud blerd, marathon runner, dog mom, and memory athlete.https://redflagseverywherepod.com/episodes

23/02/2024

Should you get back together with your ex? Have you ever been petty during a breakup? Is your partner a black hole or a binary star? How do you know when to leave? What do you do if your friends boo is cheating on them? We answer all these questions and more with comedian Glorelys Mora fresh out of a three year situationship and has some learning lessons and wisdom to part on to you all! She ultimately walked away from something that was not serving her, but depleting her, and what happened after she put herself first! We chat about why emotional intimacy is more vulnerable than physical intimacy and should be proceeded with caution. Inspired by JLO’s new... art project- we talk about- if you get back together with your ex what the data shows of how often folks do this, and the rate at which they stay together. http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep13-its-either-a-hell-yes-or-a-hell-no?tdest_id=4236483

22/02/2024

It’s our Valentine’s Day episode and we have actor and social media's Earl of Dad Jokes Lucas Alifano to help us through! Have you ever had a good Valentine’s Day? A bad one? We talk about some of our best and worst. We continue talking about: is it possible to be friends with your ex? How does forgiveness come into play? We unpack and get to the root of how in some relationships we lose ourselves in our relationships. Lucas provides James with some dating truth bombs that blow his mind and reframe his approach and way of thinking- and how relationships should enhance our lives. You'll also hear how Lucas was there at ground zero for one of James' breakups and how he helped him through it. Plus we discuss our favorite romantic movies, and just why we love being single! http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep12-it-was-the-best-of-valentines-it-was-the-worst-of-valentines?tdest_id=4236483

15/02/2024

It’s time to let our light shine today, and to help us do that it’s life coach and podcast host of Shine on, Sista Jennifer Covington! Jen is a rarity in that she was able to make her long distance relationship work! She shares her journey, and how she had to put herself first. She lays down some important questions you have to ask yourself when in a relationship, and if you’re not sure if you should continue being in one. What are willing to tolerate? She also breaks down the difference between ‘slow fade/fade to black’ and ghosting- which- if any of these, is best? Get ready to walk away feeling empowered as you navigate through relationships as Jen unpacks the lessons she had to learn and how she was finally able to resign as Presdient and member of ‘The Sucker Club’. http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep11-how-to-stop-being-a-member-of-the-sucker-club?tdest_id=4236483

01/02/2024

Today we answer the question: can you be friends with your ex? To help answer that question we bring on one of James' ex's, Paul Chapple. We've talked about him on the show before and now you'll hear his side- as there's always two sides to every story. James and Paul unpack their relationship, taking us through how it all began, the highs, the lows, the challenges, how it ended, and ultimately how they were able to find themselves back together again in a really strong friendship. Buckle up for an open, honest, and fun conversation of two lovers, turned ex's, turned friends. http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep10-can-you-be-friends-with-your-ex?tdest_id=4236483

18/01/2024

She’s Back by popular demand! You know her you love her, it’s Nnekay Fitzclarke form our first episode, my former co-host of MInority Korner and a current librarian/dating profile setup pro- here to give us some tips for setting up our dating profiles- new year new us, new profile- and she has the credentials as an expert profile builder. She not only met her husband who she’s been with for over 13 years on an online dating site, she’s helped set up her friends, has been given elite status, and has been in the trenches that can be online/app dating, and has some wild stories of how she made it through. Also we look to some other experts who have some profile tips as well. You'll learn how if you stay ready you never have to get ready, as you might even find your next date on Yelp! http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep8-setting-up-your-dating-profile-for-success?tdest_id=4236483

11/01/2024

We’ve got Biz Ellis from the podcast One Bad Mother for a very open and honest episode that dives deep into how we get ourselves out of those bad relationship patterns! Biz talks about how she broke out of, in her words, “dating the same idiot,”. What she had to learn, and do to heal from some of the treatment she’d experienced in the past from people she was dating, being cheated on, sexually abused, people with addiction, and how she stopped settling. We also talk about the simple yet meaningful "aha" green flags she discovered she was looking for when she met her now husband of 17 years. Also we uncover how life is sometimes like a gay p**n. Biz also helps to answer our listener question about what do we do when our kids want to start dating and help them not experience the same s**t we went through. http://redflagseverywherepod.com/ep7-stop-dating-the-same-idiot?tdest_id=4236483

04/01/2024

New Year, new US, time for us to explore our new rules for 2024! We've got Sarah Brown our editor and producer is hoping out from behind the scenes to in front of the mic as we explore what 2023 has taught us about relationships, ourselves, what we’re leaving behind in 2024, and what commitments are we making to ourselves, and dating, as we move into 2024. Learn how the acrynom I.M.P.R.O.V.E. can be a useful tool to help you regulate your emotions, and be your best self. We've got tactical guidance, tactics, and wisdom for ya as we sneak into 2024!

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21/12/2023

Get ready to experience a metamorphosis through your trauma! Just in time for the festive season! Today we have licensed Marriage and Family therapist and HIV Prevention specialist, and author, and host of TubTalks Damon L. Jacobs to help us navigate how past trauma impacts our relationships. We talk about little 't' trauma and big 'T' trauma, and some ways that when we examine and heal from these as they occur, they can show up in our relationships, as well as in our partners. We also explore Ghosting! Getting ghosted, what is going on when this is happening, how to have compassion for those who we feel have wronged us, taking back our own agency, and how that inner love and energy has to come from within.

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07/12/2023

How addicted to your smartphone are you? Chances are if you have one, you have some level of reliance, dependence, or addiction to this device and it's having a great effect on your relationships and you may not even notice! But it's not your fault! We examine just how rampant smartphone addiction is, and spring boarding off of last week's episode, how your attachment style may impact your usage and dependence on your phone. We look at addiction as a coping strategy, and examine dating app culture. Don't worry we've got some tips and strategies to help you curb your smart phone addiction so you can have deeper, more meaningful relationships with others, and yourself. Plus how the acronym A.R.E. can give you the imperative three sets of questions checklist to see if your partner can create that safe space you need.

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30/11/2023

Knowing your Attachment Style is a relationship game changer! There are four, do you know what yours is? In this episode we unpack them, and you'll learn how understanding yours, the person you're dating, pursuing, partnered with, married to, or even friends with, will take your relationships to the next level! Knowing your attachment style can also help you stop making the same mistakes, and know and understand yourself better, hopefully with more compassion and grace. You'll also get some tips to get you feeling more secure and loving you in your relationships. We've also got a listener question asking: how do you know if you're ready for a relationship? We've got Mackenzie Green in as our guest to help guide us through!

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30/11/2023

It’s the first episode! We are diving straight into what are some of those red flags we’ve ignored in the past? Why do we stay in relationships that aren’t serving us longer than we need to!? And we got our first listener question needing advice on how to heal and move on from a breakup. http://redflagseverywherepod.com/the-only-way-out-is-through?tdest_id=4236483

29/11/2023

Our first episode launches tomorrow with guest Nnekay FitzClarke !!! We couldn’t think of a better first guest! She is the former co-host and creator of Podcast, she is an all-star librarian, she calls herself an all-around sassy broad who likes to think she knows a thing or two! She helps us dive into red flags we’ve ignored, why do we stay in relationships longer than we need to, and tips for healing through a breakup! The episode goes live tomorrow Nov 30th! Be sure to catch it wherever you podcast!