Peerless Etiquette

04/06/2024

I'm only selected when excellence is required.

28/03/2024

Good morning classy people, it's a brand new day to choose kindness

28/03/2024

If it’s not your wife or significant other keep your hands to yourself.

Observing dignitaries standing inappropriately in photos and engaging in physical contact with others disturbs my sense of etiquette and protocol. It is essential to maintain a professional demeanor by refraining from touching others unnecessarily and ensuring that your hands are visible to the camera. Inappropriate physical contact can be misinterpreted and may have consequences in the future. It is important to act with dignity and respect, especially in public settings. Although leadership training may not always include lessons on proper protocol, courses such as those offered by Peerless Etiquette can provide valuable guidance on navigating social situations with grace and professionalism. Remember, your actions in photos speak volumes about your character, integrity, and overall professionalism.

27/03/2024

Spring is here, breaking out my late grandmothers Spring China to lay a beautiful table. 😌

19/03/2024

I had an amazing time speaking to a large group middle school aged young ladies about the power of social skills this morning.

21/02/2024

Fingers do not hook onto tea cup handles, you pinch your thumb and pointer finger through the handle and rest the handle on your middle finger like so. Now you know!

20/02/2024

When my husband who happens to be the state representative for the area I’m teaching in comes to my etiquette class to support me and now I can’t stop blushing ☺️

20/02/2024

I said what I said “When engaging in conversation, exude grace and power by standing confidently without fidgeting or nervous shifting. Interlock your fingers if unsure how to position your hands, and project your voice with unwavering eye contact to command attention and respect. You are interesting, you are beautiful, and you deserve to be right where you are.” Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin - CEO and Director of

20/02/2024

I said what I said “How we carry ourselves is a glimpse of our character. Remember, how you do anything is how you do everything. While you may not have had formal training before today, once you leave my class, you have no excuse to behave in a manner less than your best.” - Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin - CEO and Director of

20/02/2024

“Embracing formality is not about conforming to societal norms, but about cultivating a sense of grace, respect, and confidence in every interaction.” - Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin - CEO and Director of

20/02/2024

“To truly improve, one must embrace the role of a student, humbly seeking knowledge, and committing to daily implementation. Knowledge should not be wielded as a tool for superiority, but rather as a bridge to authentic connection with others.” - Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin - CEO and Director of

20/02/2024

“Our youth are eager to learn, and it is our duty to teach them with passion and excellence, nurturing their potential and shaping their future.” - Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin

20/02/2024

This year marks my 3-year anniversary as the esteemed etiquette expert for . and I couldn’t be more proud. Working with this incredible organization is always an absolute delight, as I get the opportunity to assist the young individuals they mentor in cultivating the best version of themselves for personal and professional success.

20/02/2024

Holding your stemware properly - When holding a stemmed glass, always hold it by the stem or the base, rather than by the bowl. This helps to prevent fingerprints on the glass and keeps the beverage at the proper temperature.

20/02/2024

Teens of learning how to mix and mingle with their right hand free for handshaking. This requires poise and grace while balancing your drink and Hors D’oeuvres with ease. During their mix and mingling session they were given a few etiquette tips to keep in mind.

1. Approach others with a friendly smile and open body language.
2. Use polite language and make eye contact when speaking to others.
3. Offer a firm handshake with your right hand when greeting someone.
4. Be inclusive and welcoming to everyone, regardless of their differences.
5. Listen attentively and show interest in what others have to say.
6. Avoid making assumptions or judgments about others based on their appearance or background.
7. Be mindful of personal space and respect boundaries when engaging in conversation.
8. Remember to say “please” and “thank you” in all interactions.
9. Shake hands and try and remember one person and two details about them.
10. Thank the host or hostess for the opportunity to mingle and express gratitude for their hospitality.

By incorporating peerless etiquette into their interactions, teens can build positive relationships and create a welcoming and inclusive environment for everyone.

20/02/2024

In my element teaching the teenagers of five star dining etiquette.

20/02/2024

When in close proximity at a bistro, it is crucial to practice peerless etiquette. This means showing respect and consideration for your fellow diners, regardless of their background or social status. Treat everyone with kindness and courtesy, and refrain from making judgments or assumptions about others based on their appearance or behavior. Remember to use polite language, say “please” and “thank you,” and be mindful of your manners at all times. By demonstrating peerless etiquette, you can create a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere for everyone at the bistro. less

20/02/2024

“You may not need it at this moment, but I believe in the brightness of your future. As you journey towards success, I will equip you with the confidence, respect, and grace needed to graciously take your seat at the tables of opportunity that await you.” - Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin

20/02/2024

That is all…

19/02/2024

Peerless Etiquette When Declining a Drink Sent by a Stranger

Turning down a drink sent by a stranger requires finesse and tact to handle the situation gracefully. Here are some peerless etiquette tips to keep in mind when you want to decline a drink from a stranger:

1. Be gracious and polite - When declining a drink, it is important to do so with grace and gratitude. You can politely say, “Thank you for the offer, but I must decline at this time.”

2. Provide a reason (optional) - While you are not obligated to explain your decision, offering a brief and polite reason can help avoid misunderstandings. For example, you could say, “I appreciate the gesture, but I prefer to buy my own drinks.”

3. Utilize non-verbal communication - Body language can also convey your message effectively. Politely declining the drink with a smile and a shake of the head can help communicate your decision without words.

4. Offer an alternative - If you wish to maintain a friendly interaction with the person, you can suggest an alternative, such as chatting instead or inviting them to join you and your friends.

5. Stand your ground - If the person persists in offering to buy you a drink after you have declined, it is important to remain firm in your decision. Politely but firmly reiterate that you are not interested in accepting the drink.

6. Express gratitude - Regardless of the outcome, always thank the person for their offer and kindness. Being polite and appreciative even when declining a drink will help maintain a positive interaction.

In conclusion, demonstrating peerless etiquette when declining a drink from a stranger involves being respectful, clear in communication, and maintaining your boundaries with grace. By following these etiquette tips, you can navigate such situations with finesse and courtesy while prioritizing your comfort and personal boundaries.

13/02/2024

Today marks my 3-year anniversary as the esteemed etiquette expert for Fathers MIA Inc.. and I couldn't be more proud. Working with this incredible organization is always an absolute delight, as I get the opportunity to assist the young individuals they mentor in showcasing their best selves in both personal and future business endeavors. Peerless Etiquette

📷: Gregory Reed

13/02/2024

It was my pleasure to weigh in on tipping etiquette for Tania Francois of CBS News. Read the article and watch the interview here.

What's a patron to do and how much is too little, or do you even have to tip at all? CBS News Miami's Tania Francois shares how you can be better at tipping for services.

09/02/2024

Step into the rich history of wingtip dress shoes for men. Born in Scotland and Ireland, these shoes were originally known as “brogues” and quickly became a symbol of refined style. From the innovative welt construction by Charles Goodyear Jr. to their association with the Ivy League style, wingtips have stood the test of time. Today, they continue to be a versatile choice for the modern gentleman, seamlessly blending classic elegance with a touch of flamboyance. I encourage all male clients to invest in a pair of wing tips for ease and versatility.

09/02/2024

Master the art of Peerless Etiquette for tea parties with these refined tips:

1. Dress elegantly.
2. Be punctual.
3. Introduce yourself gracefully.
4. Handle teacups with finesse.
5. Sip tea with restraint.
6. Use utensils and napkins with poise.
7. Engage in captivating conversation.
8. Express gratitude to the host.
Elevate your tea party experience with these timeless etiquette practices.

08/02/2024

Peerless Etiquette offers an exciting course on elegant style specifically tailored for tweens. This course aims to help young individuals develop a sense of grace, poise, and sophistication in their personal style. Through engaging and interactive lessons, tweens will learn the importance of self-expression, grooming, and dressing appropriately for various occasions. Topics covered include wardrobe essentials, color coordination, accessorizing, and basic etiquette. Participants will also explore body language, posture, and maintaining good manners. By the end of the course, tweens will have gained a solid foundation in cultivating an elegant style that reflects their unique personality while exuding confidence and charm. To register for this transformative experience, visit our website at www.peerlessetiquette.com.

08/02/2024

Gwendolyn Brooks was a remarkable African American poet who made significant contributions to the literary world. Born on June 7, 1917, in Topeka, Kansas, Brooks moved to Chicago at a young age, where she would later become known as the “Poet Laureate of Chicago.” Her poetry often delved into the struggles and experiences of the Black community, addressing themes of racial injustice, poverty, and discrimination. Brooks became the first African American to win the Pulitzer Prize for Poetry in 1950 for her groundbreaking collection, “Annie Allen.” Through her powerful and thought-provoking verses, Brooks gave voice to the often overlooked and marginalized, shining a light on the African American experience in America. Her legacy continues to inspire generations of poets and readers, making her an essential figure in Black history.

08/02/2024

The way I rode into 2024 determined to complete everything I started in 2023.

08/02/2024

Tea for ten as we discuss the evolution of etiquette for ladies in the 21st century. I love intimate courses; everyone feels comfortable when cellphones are away, the tea is hot, and they have the undivided attention of everyone in the room.

08/02/2024

Calling all young men! Don’t underestimate the power of etiquette training in shaping your future success.

Building strong foundations, enhancing professionalism, fostering respectful relationships, cultivating self-confidence – these are just a few reasons why etiquette training is essential for young men.

At Peerless Etiquette, we believe in equipping young men with the necessary life skills to navigate the world with confidence, respect, and integrity. Our specialized programs and workshops are tailored to address your unique needs.

Join us on this journey of personal and professional growth, as we empower you to excel in all aspects of life. From job interviews to social settings, we’ve got you covered!

Invest in yourself today and unlock the doors to a future filled with success, meaningful relationships, and endless opportunities.

Remember, etiquette training is not just about manners; it’s about developing the skills and mindset to thrive in a diverse and competitive world. Embrace the power of etiquette and become the best version of yourself!

The DCS Mentoring Program understands that young men need etiquette training too. I have been the etiquette expert of choice for the DCS Mentoring program for 6 years and counting. To donate to DCS or sponsor a young man who needs it visit DCSMentoringGroup.org.

07/02/2024

Letting Go, Forgiving, and Walking Fearlessly

Women often book courses with me to learn how to exude more grace and rest in their softness. My advice for women seeking a softer, more fulfilling life, it’s time to release fear, forgive the past, and step into a new beginning. Let go of burdens and regrets, freeing yourself for growth and transformation. Embrace forgiveness to reclaim power and inner peace. Embrace each day as a chance for renewal. Cultivate self-compassion and love. Embrace fear as a catalyst for growth. Your new beginning awaits, and I will be there waiting to help you polish the image you allowed others to tarnish and step into the soft life you desire.